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The road of life will not be smooth sailing, and I can understand your feelings. I hope you can calm down, relax your heart, look at everything with a tolerant heart, and face up to everything that has happened! ~
Take out the manly spirit and face it bravely!
Everyone has their own worldview, their own unique personality, and we can't expect everyone else to think the same way we do, right? So try to understand!! Especially parents, they have worked hard all their lives, no matter how much we disagree with what they do, we must be considerate and tolerant, and strive to make them happy and comfortable!
This is what we should do as children, and I think you agree too! ~
I think it's best for you to calm down and accept everything that is happening around you with a tolerant heart, and then ask yourself what you should do now to make everything go in a good direction.
When you see this, I hope you can smile, a smile can overcome everything, can drive away the darkness in your heart, and can usher in the dawn.
I sincerely hope that you can be happy, happy, find your life purpose, and have a happy and safe family! ~~
It's the New Year soon, happy O! In the new year, may you be happy every day for 365 days!! ~
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The first floor is well said!
I try my best to accept that "God is fair to everyone under absolute objectivity", but I still feel that God is unfair to me many times. My approach to injustice is to respond to it and crush it.
In the face of the injustice given, I think you should be more stoic than crushed by it; You should be more mature, not depressed and unable to extricate yourself.
In fact, these injustices are one of the reasons why we move forward. Because of these things, we try our best to change the status quo, strive to change our lives in the desired direction, and spare no effort to keep the track of life upward and stronger. Looking at the problem from another angle, "a true warrior dares to face the bleak life, dare to face the dripping blood", when you face these setbacks, win them, and look back, you will find that God has actually given you more than others.
I'm working on it, too
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Actually, you don't have to blame your relatives.
You should put yourself in their shoes.
Your parents worked hard to give birth to you.
Raised so big, did they complain?
Now it's just a matter of giving you a taste of their previous hardships.
Are you going to complain?
And also. Your relatives don't help you.
There's no need for you to be upset either.
After all, it's not their responsibility.
But what they're doing is going too far.
But. Think about it.
If you have a relative close to you who is having difficulty.
Looking for you to borrow money. In the case that you are poor.
Will you lend it to him?
Don't say others are selfish.
You have to reflect on yourself first.
If you feel like you can do it.
Then I admit it. You're a good guy.
If you can't do it.
Then don't complain.
By your own efforts.
Believe. After the storm, there will be a rainbow
Bless you.
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You're all right.
It's just that there's too much pressure in your heart.
You are like someone who walks with a baggage.
Try to let go of the baggage.
Today's things can be left for tomorrow.
But if you're not happy today, let it stay.
Tomorrow is a new beginning. Then go and work hard.
That might make it easier for you.
Don't laugh if you don't say it well.
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If we feel that life is not going our way, we have to find a way to change it!
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You should talk to them more about your thoughts, or put yourself in their shoes.
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If you're in a bad mood and go for a run.
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1. When you are in a bad mood, hurry up and do things that can make you feel good, hurry away from people and things that make you feel bad, drink a good drink, go to have beautiful nails and eyelashes, go shopping and try perfume in the perfume area, you will find that it is very magical, as soon as you get away from the fuse and bad environment into a good environment, your mood will soon get better.
2. Go to the supermarket when you are in a bad mood, the fireworks in the world are the most soothing to the hearts of mortals, it is not wrong at all, smell the fragrance of fruits, the fragrance of bread, look at the colorful zero-chain food, and feel that there are still a lot of ordinary little beauty in life, and it is fortunate that there are still many ordinary little things.
3. Making coffee is one of the ways to calm down my mood quickly, every time I look at the amber swirling coffee liquid flowing out of the filter, smell the rich aroma of fresh coffee beans, and see the fat golden yellow vola oil extracted, I feel so satisfied, and the world is worth it. And in those tens of seconds, my eyes and mind were completely attracted by the coffee, and I invested in the coffee, forgetting my troubles, in fact, I had a flow, which was too happy and comfortable.
4. Eat something delicious Eating sweets can make people feel happy, but some sisters may worry that eating sweets will cause acne or gain weight, and it is okay to eat a little once in a while, after all, happiness is the most important thing! Or you can consider other foods that you like to eat.
5. Go for a workout! Exercise also makes you feel better! Go for a workout and feel the feeling of sweating! Then take a hot shower after resting and adjusting to wash away all the bad mood.
6. Cry out loud and cry heartbreakingly, but cry silently, crying as if you want to excrete all the sadness and grievances out of your body. If you've cried enough, you'll probably be able to figure it out and know what to do.
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Since there is no direct cause, your irritability may be a cumulative effect. It may be that you've been doing something, potentially, that makes you irritable, but you can't say what it is. There must be a reason for a bad mood, and it is impossible for a person to be unhappy without a reason.
Be sure to ask yourself, "What am I missing?" What do I crave? What makes me unhappy anymore?
It may not be a very direct cause that causes you to be sad, it may be a deficiency.
You probably didn't do anything bad, did you? I just think it's a possibility, and you don't necessarily make any mistakes. When people make mistakes, they often want to cover them up, so that not only does this mistake not go away, but it also bothers people more.
And when a person tries to cover it up, he doesn't feel that the restlessness is caused by this mistake. If you realize that you have made a mistake, it is better to repent as soon as possible, otherwise the conscience will suffer even more.
Are you craving something? For example, love, the so-called true love, care, good grades? When people have desires but are not satisfied, it is easy to be inexplicably sad.
There is a desire, if you want to be satisfied, you can be appropriate, when the time is right, but if you are too hasty or go against the principle, it is not good. If the desire can be satisfied by practical actions, then it can be worked towards such a goal. If you can't ask for it, then don't be too anxious, it's useless to be anxious.
Go outdoors more often, and when you are in a bad mood, you need to relax. (Being outdoors is a great way to be in a bad mood.) Relax yourself, don't think about negative things, and let yourself be a little sunny.
Look at the real thing and try to look at their positives so that you can be positive.
Try to find the reason why you are in a bad mood, and then try to solve it and face it. Only in this way can the mood be comfortable. If there's a reason you can't find it, you're going to be sad.
Facing a challenge or problem positively is a good, healthy way. If you really can't find it, then as I just said, relax yourself and let yourself be sunny. Everyone has a trough, and it depends on how to get out of it.
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Find a friend or netizen who can enlighten you, it will be helpful to you!
Sometimes it is the society or the family and friends around you who are invisibly spread the "troubles"!
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Maybe it's feeling depressed, everyone has such a time, the key is to see how you adjust. Try to give yourself a positive psychological cue.
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Find a close friend to talk to, and you'll be fine! Put your mind set!
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