In the unit, you can t let your colleagues know that your family is good

I've heard an elder say that you should never show off your wealth, and that no one but your own closest family wants you to be better off than him.

Family members include only their parents, spouses and children.

Your current colleagues are very friendly to you, and there may be a premise that in their perception, you and they have the same standard of living, and the family conditions are similar, but they are just children from a local family.

As long as you show a little bit of wealth, those who don't have any heart may alienate you, and on the surface they are scheming, they treat you as much as before, and secretly they are thinking about how to squeeze benefits out of you.

It's easy to solve your business travel problem.

Rent a house for 1-2 months directly in the local area on a business trip, and say that your relatives are in this city and know that you are going on a business trip and are entrusted by your parents to take care of you. I'm sure your co-workers will be happy to have a room to themselves.

Or cover up yourself by staying at a local relative's house and staying in a hotel far away from an express hotel. Generally, the probability of being bumped into is also very small, and colleagues will not be so bored that they have to go to your relative's house to have a look.

If you don't want people to know, you can hide it, because people are very complicated now, if you have a good family background, others can look down on you, if your family background is not good, but you are laughed at and looked down on by others, so when colleagues are together, it is better not to talk about family affairs as well.

It doesn't matter if colleagues in the company know their family situation or not, it doesn't matter if they can become friends if they can talk, and it's better not to say if they are very ordinary colleagues.

It's better to keep a low profile, after all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, and you're not sure if there will be unreliable colleagues who will be jealous of you digging a hole for you. Just show the general family background. Of course, it has been mixed to the point that it is not afraid of small troubles, and of course it can also be high-profile.

Being in the workplace is to enter another stage of your life, and in many cases there will be a relationship of interest, so don't disclose your family situation when talking about work, if you let someone know your actual situation, it may cause irreparable consequences to yourself.

01, the heart of defense is indispensable.

In the workplace, the relationship of interests is ubiquitous, and even one of their own work performance will affect the interests of others, and at work, they have provoked the interests of some people, then these people will likely make an adverse impact on themselves, although the disaster does not affect the family, but the person with ill intentions for himself knows his family situation, and naturally knows that he can use the methods around him to grasp himself.

Everyone has weaknesses, many people are in the workplace, in fact, it is to support their families, and if their family situation is known by colleagues, it will naturally have some impact, others want to fight for certain benefits at work, naturally know whether it is possible to succeed if they compete with themselves, or when they know that they have hope, they will make other preparations. And no matter how good a partner is at work, when others know you well, you will naturally not worry about unforeseen threats to him.

02, work should also protect the family.

At work, there are times when the company needs to fill in your own emergency contact information, in which case you may also reveal your family situation, and if your colleagues know that their family is poor, then some people will dislike you. And if your colleagues know that their family is wealthy, then some people will be jealous of you. Although there are many good people, who can guarantee that everyone in the company is not a villain?

Many companies ask not to let their lives affect their work, because work is for the benefit of the company, although their family is closely related to themselves, but their family situation has little to do with the company, and even less with their colleagues at work. If you take the initiative to reveal your family situation, how do your colleagues think of you, and will you think that you are complaining about how difficult your family is? Is it showing off the wealth of your family?

Are you talking about how difficult it is to drag your family with you? This is just the idea of a few people, and there are others who no one can even guess, but it is the truth.

03, only talk about work and not family.

Single-mindedly rushing to work at work just reflects your work attitude, and it is best not to talk about family with colleagues, otherwise if two people talk about everything, then it will also make people in the company laugh, and be charged with not working seriously during working hours.

Their colleagues, if they are not two people who have played together since childhood, then it is best not to tell anyone about the family situation, even if it is the management of the company where they work, the manager may not know the family situation of the supervisor, and their supervisor will not let their family situation be known by the manager, when everything they have is frank to others.

Why let them know about their family? It has nothing to do with them, just go to a good class.

It shouldn't be so high-profile! I think it's better to keep a low profile