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The more a person has nothing, the more he likes to pretend that he has it, the more he likes to show off. The full grain is bowed to its head, and those with its head held high are empty. In our lives, we will find that the more truly powerful people are, the more low-key they are, and the more unreal people they are, the more high-profile they are.
Psychologist: The more incapable people are, the more they like to "pretend" in these four places!
1. Install the background.
It's very simple to pretend to have a background, because not everyone knows his background very clearly, after all, there are many relatives and friends in their mouths, and they are all very powerful. When people talk about a great person, they will say, "What's that, I have a relative, a family."
In short, their relatives and friends are very powerful, but they are not very good. When they say this, they just want to create an image for themselves, there are powerful relatives and friends, but they can't beat him, and no one else knows him. This is a bit of a "fox fake tiger power", they want to be respected by others, because they don't have the ability to get so, so they have to pretend.
2. Pretend to be knowledgeable.
People who have no knowledge, or who do not really learn from reality, such people are obvious at a glance. Take yesterday's black hole ** as an example, many people who claim to be great gods are discussing wildly in the post bar, saying something that makes people dizzy, which makes some unknown melon-eating people feel very powerful. But in the eyes of really powerful people, it is full of mistakes, at least even me, who has never passed high school physics, can see that they even have gravity.
The formulas are all wrong. Such a person will not miss every opportunity, and will talk about all kinds of problems, whether they understand it or not, they will talk about it first.
3. Mature installation.
We will find that the more unsatisfactory people are, the more they like to cover up their shortcomings and shape themselves into a mature image. And many "big guys", on the contrary, do not mind talking about their shortcomings. Or the above truth, a person who is not good at mixing has no shining point to win the respect of others, so they need to try their best to show others their best side, but unfortunately many times they use too much force, but it seems unnatural.
4. Pretend to have a big temper.
There is a saying that if you have a big temper, you have a small ability. The fact is also that most of the people who have no ability in life have a big temper. They lack emotional control when encountering things, and their first thought is not to think about how to solve the problem, but to let the emotions run wild.
If a person does not know how to control his emotions, then he will lose his calm, his mind will not be able to concentrate on the things themselves, and thus he will lose the basic premise of solving problems. If it can't solve the problem, it will further promote the emotional ups and downs in his heart, so that the two form a vicious circle, and eventually make things worse.
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This is the conceit of the heart, in disguise, that is, the more you show off, the more you lack something.
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Mental defects, when you have nothing, be aggressive.
When you achieve something, keep doing it.
When you're talented, you're done.
Keep a humble heart, don't be self-absorbed, keep learning, enrich your life, and move towards a more beautiful tomorrow.
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Why is it that the more incompetent people are, the more they can pretend? Personally, I don't think that's the case, I think some people are more capable of pretending, whether they have the ability or not? They are especially fond of dressing.
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In terms of money, the more they have no ability, the more they want to pretend to be rich, in terms of ability, they are not capable of themselves, and they like to be reckless, so they always take care of everything, and in terms of connections, they always like to show off the people they know, in order to raise their own value.
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The main thing is to pretend that he is a big money, especially like to pretend that he is knowledgeable, especially like to brag about his connections, especially like to criticize others, and especially like to show off his material conditions.
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The more he likes to pretend that he is rich, has connections, has many friends, has many people who value him, and pretends that he is very popular.
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There is a saying in our hometown, lazy people have a lot of and urine, I don't know if you have heard of it, not the literal meaning of it, lazy will have a lot of and urine, but that you can't do anything, you can't do anything, and you will cause trouble for people. The more incompetent people are, the more they have to do, and this sentence is completely fine.
I saw a post, the content is probably that there is a man who is dozens of years old and can't even eat instant noodles, and his wife cooked it for him, and when he brought it to him, he actually said that he didn't like to eat this taste, and then shook his face there.
My God, how did this kind of man get his wife, please tell the masses the ins and outs, so that the lesbians can avoid it and the gays will correct it.
A really good man never says that he can cook, and being able to cook is just a plus for the general public. In a marriage, a really good man must be able to hurt people and know how to cherish the people in front of him.
There is a good saying that a successful man is not always surrounded by a woman, but a successful man is always surrounded by the same woman.
Each person is precious, unique, and not something you can just fool around. You must know that it is easy to change the status quo, never think that marriage can tie people down, and understand that marriage is a lifelong thing, and no one will want to be wronged for a lifetime.
Of course, today is not here to target male friends, although it is true.
I hope everyone can keep their eyes open and find a good person, whether male or female.
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Why is it that the more incompetent people are, the more arrogant they are, and the really powerful people are very humble? In a word, it is broken.
Because their cognitive platform is shallow, they have no ability, so it is difficult to achieve anything, and there is no opportunity to deal with people with higher quality and high ability, he can't see where the wisdom and success factors of others are, and they don't know how to succeed, their own ability is low, it is difficult to create wealth for themselves, so they take their interests very seriously, and the people around them are the same people as them, and over time, their insights and patterns are getting smaller and smaller, and they only have shallow cognition and immediate interests in their eyes.
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