What are we lacking in our young people at the moment?

What today's young people lack most is responsibility and responsibility. Most young people only know how to enjoy and have fun, and are addicted to the Internet and games; There is no overall and collective concept, selfishness and narrow-mindedness, and going to extremes; Lack of cultivation and quality, no love and compassion, no respect for the old and love for the young; The pursuit of fashion and alienation, lacking the spirit of hardship and hard work and thrift and simplicity.

Lack of self-spiritual level of the idea, outlook on life, values, world view of the understanding, overall situation awareness, long-term awareness, traceability awareness, social responsibility and responsibility, improve and optimize the idea of social status quo, not only young people, in fact, the Chinese people are very lacking in these things, young people to cultivate these characteristics, not worse than the elders, but likely to be stronger than the elders.

Today's young people lack most of the lack of ability, self-confidence and sense of responsibility, and they are also very selfish and unable to persevere. Don't think that you are still young, there is still a lot of time to waste, and in a blink of an eye, you will enter middle age or even old age, don't wait, white boy's head, empty and sad, because the reason for resignation is ridiculous and absurd because you can't get up early every day, cherish the time now.

As the post-90s generation, which was once called the "Beat Generation", we have not experienced social turmoil, we live in an era when the outside world is very peaceful, so we have more time to explore ourselves. We have our own perspective on things, are more receptive to new things, and are more willing to express ourselves. Today's young people are the backbone of China's construction in the coming decades.

We are very young, we have young capital, and we also have time to change who we are now. Therefore, it is better to learn to discipline yourself a little, learn to seek strength inwardly, and be as strong as you are on the outside, so what is most lacking is patience and perseverance. ‍‍

What young people lack most now is the correct "three views", and young people are very confused now, what is faith? Power, money? Or do you have ideals, ambitions, responsibilities, and a sense of social responsibility?

The hope of the future is pinned on them, shouldering the unfinished business of their predecessors, and they should be energetic and brave to shoulder the heavy responsibility of the society, insist on working hard, dare to speak, dare to break through, dare to do, and work diligently and progressively, and work hard to promote social civilization and progress. ‍‍

Nowadays, young people, because they are in the turbulent economic tide at the beginning of their birth, everyone puts the pursuit of material interests in the first place, especially under the influence of some bad culture, and they are all opportunistic and eager for quick success, so the most lacking spiritual level of cultivation, lack of awe, and awe of morality.

I think that today's young people lack the courage to confront the secular vision, in the past 20 years, we all know how much the changes around us, the rapid development of the era will make our parents' ideas, traditional concepts, the inherent habits of various industries, dependence has a strong sense of lag, for many emerging things our young people are clearly accepted, recognized, but not well used, so that a lot of opportunities are wasted, to a certain extent, because we lack the courage to confront the secular vision! ‍‍

With the courage and spirit of daring to fight, we are always satisfied with the status quo and cannot endure hardships.

Ideal. I think that many young people nowadays lack ideals or set their ideals unrealistically, so that they don't have a goal to strive for, so they don't want to put in the effort.

Persistence, now many young people do one thing is to fish for three days and dry nets for two days, so many young people lack persistence now!

<> what problems do young people face today? In my opinion, it is nothing more than three types of problems: employment, marriage, and worldview.

Careers can bring income to young people and make a living. Gaining experience and promoting growth and progress is the foundation of life. Under scientific and effective personal management, career can bring a house, a successful career, a rich network, and lay a good foundation for future life and work.

This is all based on the effective work control of diligence and intelligence. Good work habits, excellent work performance predict better work level and generous professional treatment. The main reason for the work is the acceleration of transformation in many places and frictional unemployment.

Increase, lack of a skill, service industry.

It has increased, but the increase in labor wages is not large, overwork, the environment for youth entrepreneurship needs to be improved, and entrepreneurship itself has capacity limitations.

Today's times are moving too fast. In just a few decades, the world and perceptions will change dramatically. It's confusing. The status quo of young people's marriages has also changed a lot. Dink, unmarried.

Contract marriage, same-sex marriage.

and other ways of marriage are dazzling. In the past, the marriage of the vast majority of young people could be achieved by the words of the matchmaker and the life of the parents. This is no longer the case, and the change and diversity of social interactions have made it more scarce and difficult for young people to interact with each other.

There has been a large increase, marriages have been postponed, in many places they have reached their 30s, and marriages are unstable, the divorce rate has increased, the cost of marriage has increased, and in many places the bride price is high.

As a result, money beats mandarin ducks and becomes a social problem.

At the same time, due to the change of environment and attitudes, young people lack a valuable sense of responsibility.

and a sense of mission, many people are just living, with no parents, no responsibilities, no life skills, and no ability to resist frustration, and many people live a lazy and parasitic life. As a result, marriage has become a very difficult thing. Self-centered, selfish and indifferent, without reverence, and lacking in cultivation.

This phenomenon will persist for a long time and plague young people themselves. and will hinder the progress of the country.

You will face very serious financial problems, and you will also encounter a lot of difficulties in life. There will be some loneliness, and there may be a situation of not getting married. There will be a youth crisis.

In the face of very serious workplace pressure, social competition, and the continuous advancement of technology, many industries will disappear and face earth-shaking changes.

You have to face loneliness, you have to adapt to your life, and you have to be independent. Most young people need to overcome loneliness.

<> "What young people lack most now.

Today's young people may lack funds and connections. resources and opportunities, etc. But what is most lacking is concentration. They are anxious and eager for success, and they are becoming more and more impatient with one thing.

Give today, and I can't wait for a good result tomorrow. As a result, concentration has become a luxury for Hongsun Collapse. If the short-term circle is not successful, they immediately adjust the square question, and lose the sense of accomplishment brought by delayed gratification.

If you are truly passionate, do you dare to devote a year of your time to focus on one thing. Wait until a year has passed, and then choose whether you want to give up or not. True love is regardless of the cost and consequences, if you just want to step up to the sky, then you can't even talk about success if you like it?

When you choose to focus, all the opportunities and resources will follow. Focus. It will be slow to watch, but slow may be a shortcut. In this age of impetuousness, concentration will be your shield against concentration.

Even if the spirit of struggle is not according to the era, there will be people who work hard in any era, but with the development of society and the progress of science and technology, everyone's mentality and direction of efforts have undergone tremendous changes, with the development of society, the mentality of young people is constantly changing, now there are indeed many young people are more decadent, and unwilling to struggle, afraid of hardship, which has a lot to do with family education, because now the living conditions of the family have improved, And the efforts of the previous generation have been greatly improved, in the eyes of many young people, there is no need to struggle, because they were born with very favorable living conditions, they would rather choose a more stable and comfortable life, and now the parents' thinking is also more doting children, unlike the previous parents, because the previous parents did not have the energy to pave the way for all the children, to solve any difficulties encountered in life and learning, all people are relying on their own ability to solve, So at that time, you could only rely on yourself to strive for a good future, and now it is up to your parents to help arrange it, overcome obstacles, and it is very smooth on the road of growth.

It is this comfortable environment that makes children less of the spirit of hard work, but it does not mean that all young people do not have the spirit of hard work, in addition to the family environment and education, it also has a lot to do with the social environment, because now every family will have such problems, resulting in mutual comparison, blindly following the trend, and feeling that solving problems for children is also the ability of parents!

After becoming a parent, of course, I hope that my children can go smoothly and live a good and happy life without any difficulties, but sometimes we also need to let go of the children's independent ability and the spirit of struggle, so that they know that they still need to rely on themselves in the future, and no matter how much others help, it is not their own ability!

It can be seen that family education is also very important.

Are you satisfied with your current job? I think the answer for most people is probably "okay, anyway, just give money to support the family". But with about a third of our lives spent at work, do you really want to waste your time in a makeshift job?

Maybe you've tried it before, but after changing jobs a few times and finding that you're not satisfied, you think that all jobs are the same, and there is no ideal job.

If you think so, you don't know yourself. Finding a job is the same as finding a partner, only by fully understanding yourself can you know what you need and what is suitable for you.

Next, I will talk about what the criteria for a dream job are.

What are the criteria for a dream job?

What do you think makes a good job? The answer for many people may be that there is more money and less to do and it is close to home. But is that really the case?

Salary and work intensity are only superficial factors. Surveys show that even if a job pays well and every day is easy, there are still people who feel unhappy because they don't get a sense of value from it.

The most important thing about a truly ideal job is that it can give a person a sense of accomplishment and find their own worth. In this kind of work, your talent can be fully utilized, and you can easily be recognized by leaders and customers. So how do you know if your current job is the best?

First of all, if you find your dream job, you should look forward to going to work every day. People who truly love their work, they don't get tired in their work. It's not the salary that motivates them to work, it's the love of work that comes from the bottom of their hearts.

If the job is not ideal, then the purpose of the job may be salary, and you look forward to leaving work every day when you go to work, and you start looking forward to the weekend on Monday.

Second, in your dream job, you are willing to give in to the work. Many people are forced to work at work, and all they think about every day is to finish the work arranged by their boss quickly, and then take time to fish. But people who really love their work will not wait for others to arrange things, they are willing to devote themselves to their work, even their own time and money.

In the end, you'll be proud of your work. When describing your work to others, do you feel disgusted or proud in your heart? If you are disgusted with your job and do not have any pride, then the job is not ideal.

If you are proud of your job and you enjoy your job, then there is a good chance that this job will be the ideal job for you.

I agree more, because this generation of young people has not endured much hardship, and it is understandable that they do not have the spirit of struggle.

I also think that the older generation is quite hardworking, and now most people are lazy and don't want to do anything.

No, but the form of struggle is different, which leads some people to see that our generation of young people does not seem to have the spirit of struggle.

It should be said that there is a lack of unity.

The fundamental reason for the phenomenon is that there are many people, because there are too many people, there are too few "footholds" for people, and even if there is a goal, it is very difficult to achieve it, just like today's college graduates, it is very difficult to find a job, if you do not have strong ability and strong patience, it is easy to fall.

The relationship between people is also getting weaker and weaker, and now people live in residential buildings, and they don't even know who their neighbors are, and they only care about their own interests, and they don't care about others and society anymore.

In the past, I also hoped for war, because then there would be a lot fewer people, but later, when I think about it, it's scary, how good peace is, although war will solve some problems and make people united, but it is not what we want.

Although there are many things about Japan that the Chinese hate, I think the Japanese spirit of unity is worth learning from.