For example, what is your most sensible crush?

There is no such emotion as reason in the relationship, love makes people blind, especially secret love.

Actually, the person I had a crush on was also my classmate, and I liked him very much at that time.

Never hurt the person you have a crush on because of your own impulses.

As for the crush, in fact, it is easy to fall into a misunderstanding - that is, to lower yourself. My first love, I was too ignorant at the beginning, thinking that she was good everywhere, and her shortcomings were good. This feeling is actually very good, but once you go into the misunderstanding like me and lower yourself, then you will only get farther and farther away from her, and you will not be able to be together in the end.

Later, I met a girl who was a few years younger than me, she actually admired me a little, I also liked her, that is, I had a crush on her, and then I was not only good to her, but I also had to improve myself for her, and try to make myself the big tree around her, she was constantly growing, so you had to be more powerful to cover her. That's the ideal crush.

I like him, but I definitely don't say it because I don't disturb her life.

is to silently notice him, hoping that he can get better and better, and when he becomes better, he can pursue him with all his might.

A friend told me that she once had a crush on someone, it was our high school classmate, she had a crush for 10 years, 3 years in high school, 4 years in college, and 3 years after graduation, until the boy got married, she completely gave up, she said, that kind of feeling, really worrying.

secretly looked at the person he liked, and quietly hoped that he was good, rather than just blindly hoping that he could be with him.

Although I like him, it will not adversely affect her life, and when he is in trouble, he will also lend a helping hand in time.

The most rational crush on her is that she has her own plans, that is, she has a silent crush and doesn't want others to know, but every day she will have plans to peek at her and help her.

The most rational crush is that even in the end, he is unwilling to say it easily, and he has always been a silent follower.

The rational crush in my eyes is not to bother, but to silently wish her a better and better life in my heart.

Rational crush is to maintain the independence of one's personality, while having a crush on others, but also strive to develop oneself, study hard, make oneself better, and can say the crush.

The rational crush in my eyes is to have a good impression of the opposite sex without affecting oneself, because many crushes can't control their minds, blindly pursue, and are irrational.

The rational crush in my eyes is to hope that the other person will come more and more, but not to disturb the other person, so that it will affect the other person's life.

Personally, I think the most rational crush is to pay silently for the other party, be willing to be the person behind it, care about the other party, and care about the other party when needed.

Although we weren't together then, almost a decade has passed, and now I feel like the throbbing in my heart is still there. I feel that having such a person at a young age, even if it only exists, always gives you the power to go up. "

When I have a crush, I always want to wait for myself to get better, to be able to stand side by side with the other person, to be the same shining person, and then to appear in front of the other person. Some psychologists say that unrequited love is a process in which emotions oscillate between depression and ecstasy. It's like sweet torture.

From everyone's discussions, combined with my personal experience, one can't help but sigh at how apt this description is.

This feeling of unrequited love is to continue to love someone on the basis of not getting a response, and it is very likely to end in tragedy. So, why are so many people willing to choose unrequited love? When the object is the other half and is extremely good in one aspect (e.g., intelligence and outstanding appearance), people are still willing to silently pour their love into it, even if the likelihood of becoming a lover with him is slim.

In short, he's so nice that you don't care if you can be with him or not.

Others are willing to silently give their time, energy, and love because they feel that the likelihood of the other person responding to their wishes is high. It's hard to believe that most of the time, this feeling is inaccurate. In this case, the person who is secretly in love releases kindness and words, which usually causes some misunderstanding and thinks that the other person also has a crush on you.

However, they may just "not want to hurt each other". Therefore, the crush will always feel "hopeful" and unwilling to give up.

Loving someone silently without expecting anything in return will also bring a psychological self-emotion and happiness to many people. When people are immersed in a crush, the people around them may see them as romantic and tragic heroes, who enjoy such a kind of "silent giving" and "not loving". They fell in love with the feeling of "loving someone".

Like someone recalling their secret love experience, they will say, "I may not like you, but I like people who like you; I may not miss you, but I think of myself when I secretly love you. ”。

The most rational crush is that I will always pay attention to all your dynamics and will secretly visit you, but I will not do anything for you, because after all, this is a relationship that is destined to have no results, don't let yourself pay in vain.

The most rational crush is to let the other party see their own efforts, if I take the initiative to fall in love with myself, so that I can get the love I want.

The most rational crush should be to silently regard the other party as your goal, and then make yourself better.

Rational crush is to silently accompany another person to grow up, and in the process of crushing, you can also get small responses, and these responses can also encourage you to keep forging ahead, which is a very rational crush state.

You should have your own dignity, be able to keep your bottom line, express your love when you should express it, and strive for your love.

The most rational crush is to have a crush on a single and positive object, and make the other party feel emotional or even respond to him by constantly approaching and giving hints, and then naturally walk together.

Rational crush is comfortable, it doesn't make people want to escape or feel embarrassed, and everyone's feelings come together as naturally as it comes. There is no need to force or beg, of course, there will still be the kind of deer that is looking forward to day and night, this is the most beautiful and moving moment of the crush.

Rational crush focuses on grasp, but it's not that it's inaction, some little tricks still have to be had, create chance encounters, find opportunities to chat with each other, these are all good.

1. In the days when I liked you, I was in a hurry, and my IQ dropped a lot, I learned so much knowledge, and I heard a lot of big truths, but when I faced you, I still didn't know what to do.

2. When you pass by my heart, my heart will beat and flutter, I think the sound is quite loud, because it seems to jump out and follow you, you should be able to hear it.

3. If you have a crush on someone, you must understand that feeling. When you see him, you blush, you run, and you get up when you hear his name.

You will be the first to find him in a group of people, and you will be excited because he looks at you and you can't sleep, and you will be inexplicably sad. If one day he suddenly cares about you, you will narcissistically think that he likes you, and then mistake friendship for love, and when you are old, this will be what you miss the most.

Some crushes, deliberately let themselves not let this feeling overflow, but seem to be deliberately alienating that person. This crush is the one who understands people best, or is rational.

The most rational crush I have ever seen is that a girl is in an ordinary class in high school, and her crush is in the experimental class, this girl will look at him through the window outside his class every day and write him love letters, but she knows the gap between herself and him, in order to follow him, this girl enters the experimental class from the ordinary class through her own efforts.

After being admitted to the university, she can confess, but this is not the case, she thinks that the gap with him is still very big, and when she learned that he was going to be admitted to a certain university, she resolutely decided to take the same university at that moment.

Fortunately, they all got in in the end, and the girl successfully confessed, I have always liked you for so many years. seems to be a plain sentence, but it contains 7 years of affection, of course, he and her finally got together as they wished.

This kind of relationship has another reason that makes people think about it in the future, and it is full of good things, that is, you are also improving yourself while giving your feelings.

I am willing to meet a better version of myself for you.

The most rational crush may be to plant the seed of love in the bottom of your heart and slowly take root and sprout.

It doesn't interfere with other people's lives, but treats them as a kind of pursuit for yourself to become better.

Use the other person as a motivation to move forward and make yourself better.

Don't cause trouble to the other party, and you won't be jealous when you know that the other party has someone you like.

Keep your distance, don't disturb her life, just silently guard and protect her.

Silently pay attention, silently like, pay attention to everything about him, and chew all the joys, sorrows and sorrows by himself.

will not disturb each other's life, is the most rational crush.

Always stand in a dark corner and silently pay attention, and show up in time when the other person needs help.

In order to catch up with the person you like, make a plan and try to turn yourself into someone worthy of the other person.

The most rational crush doesn't bother, doesn't grieve, and just tells the person you like.

For the sake of the one who has a crush, I constantly improve myself.