What happens when acute and chronic are together?

I always feel that people who are anxious and people who are chronic are together, just like Mars hitting the earth, and a little thing can happen at once. People who are anxious will be very anxious to complete anything when they encounter something, not to mention whether this thing is done well or not, while people who are chronic will always do it slowly, not in a hurry at all, and will always hand it in before the deadline of this matter, which makes people feel like they can't laugh or cry. And when these two people stay together, I think they will either do their own thing, or they will quarrel.

My boyfriend and I are one acute and the other chronic. I remember that some time ago, he applied for a driving school, and then waited for the information to be approved, and then as soon as I saw the text message that passed, I hurriedly asked him to make an appointment for subject one.

But he was unhurried and told me that it would take two days, and then I was there every day to urge him, and I was really impatient, so I went to customer service to make an appointment. If he doesn't make an appointment, I think he will have a cold war with him over this matter, and even quarrel! <>

Because I'm an anxious person, when I encounter something, I always want to get it done quickly, and then go to see what needs to be improved, leaving enough time for myself, while he first looks at what the preparation is and then goes to do it. So the two of us are basically two styles of doing things, but fortunately we haven't quarreled much, and we will try to take a step back to deal with problems, which is why we have been together for so long.

I think it's really tiring for people with acute children and people with chronic children, especially people with acute children, and he is so slow to do things, you don't say it, you don't say it, you don't feel uncomfortable anyway. It's better not to care about anything, so that you don't get tired.

My girlfriend and I are two people with completely different personalities, as the title says, one of us is acute and the other is chronic.

My girlfriend swallows everything slowly, but I'm the kind of person who is in a hurry. I don't know why we became best friends.

We were high school classmates and junior high school classmates, but we only knew each other for a year in junior high school. Because I transferred to another school. Later, I was admitted to the same high school and went to a new environment, and we only knew each other, so we "depended on each other".

She and I often had conflicts because of our different personalities, but we still walked together. Now I'll tell you how I got along with her.

1. When eating.

When we were freshmen in high school, we usually ate in the cafeteria. I eat very quickly, but my girlfriend eats very slowly, and I have to wait for her every time I finish eating. She herself felt embarrassed, so we didn't eat in the cafeteria after dinner, so we took the rice bowl and ate as we walked, and walked back to the dormitory from the cafeteria so that I wouldn't lose my time.

2. When walking.

At first, we walked at different paces, she walked slowly, I walked fast, but after we got along for a long time, everyone synthesized, and over time, everyone walked at the same pace.

3. When school is out.

When we were at school, I had to wait for her for a long time every night after studying at night, and then packing up and going back to the dormitory. She is always slow and methodical, book by book. Even pulling a zipper is swallowing slowly.

Sometimes I'm in a hurry, and I'm just urging her all the time. Gradually, after school in the evening, I would go first, or she would go first, and we rarely waited for each other anyway.

4. When you are in love.

My best friend is a very simple person, she never fell in love before college. Not to mention falling in love, she hasn't even looked at a boy more. Later, when she went to college, she met someone she liked.

She told me how she felt about the boy, but the relationship between the two of them had always been unclear. I kept encouraging her to confess. She is a chronic person and is not in a hurry at all, but I, the melon-eating crowd, are in a hurry.

Sometimes I get angry and think she's too useless. It's been so draining.

But then I thought about it, what right do I have to interfere in the affairs between two other people? She also thought about it, felt that what I said also made some sense, and made some changes. As for what happened later, hey, hey, hey, it's inconvenient to disclose.

In fact, it is difficult to meet someone who is consistent with everything about yourself. Friendship also needs to be accommodated, my girlfriend and I have completely opposite personalities, but we can get to where we are today, I think we can understand and respect each other, and tolerate each other.

Friendship does not mean that two people must be inseparable, everything must stay together, sometimes you can also think of some solutions according to the contradictions between two people, it is not necessary to stick together at all times, distance can also produce beauty.

No, one will die in a hurry.

One will die slowly.

Yes, it's not easy to fight.

Yes, it depends on each other's tolerance.

OK. Because people with acute and slow children can complement each other.

Acute people have a cheerful personality, more than women and wives, speak and do things outstandingly, have a wider range of friends, have a relatively big temper, and have a very strong concept of timeliness, their standard is to be able to finish the work faster in a short period of time, the faster the better, often they will not delay time, they will take advantage of others are resting, chatting time to catch up with the progress of work in a timely manner, will never drag a minute, can complete the day's workload earlier and faster before getting off work, However, if you are in too much of a hurry, it is often easy to lose everything.

Slow people are relatively introverted (not all slow people are introverted, but introverted slow people account for the majority and above), more than men and husbands, they rarely deal with others too much, talk and do things slowly, they will put most of the experience into the work, slow temper people, not easy to get angry easily, poor concept of timeliness, their standard is that I don't care about fast or slow, as long as the work is done before getting off work, But the same in the timeliness of work, they are easy to procrastinate, once the task is large and the work is not finished, there is no need to work overtime, especially for introverted and very introverted slow people they are more calm, more steady, especially as a chef, accounting, as well as copywriting management, as well as specialties, they will be more dedicated, more concentrated, they are better at thinking, they can learn a lot of knowledge through the process of others speaking, through the strengths of others to make up for their shortcomings, What the slow temperament wants is to be careful, serious, every step must be done in place, and it must be strictly controlled, and they have completely achieved this.

Therefore, I think that acute and slow people are suitable for together, slow children can change themselves under the leadership of acute people, so that he can meet the standards of acute people's needs, two people often run in together, each other is complementary, acute children can learn slow people calm and steady, chronic children can learn acute people timeliness, speaking efficiency, language expression skills, etc., make up for each other's shortcomings, and constantly improve themselves, so as to achieve mutual satisfaction conditions.

I think it's a good fit. This complements each other. If both of them are acute, then it is not a problem with different opinions, and it must be a little hot.

Isn't that good? Personally, I feel that it is a complementarity.

Look in what situation. Different situations will have different results.

Hello dear, yes. Because people with acute and slow children can complement each other. Acute people have a cheerful personality, more than women and wives, speak and do things outstandingly, have a wider range of friends, have a relatively big temper, and have a very strong concept of timeliness, their standard is to be able to finish the work faster in a short period of time, the faster the better, often they will not delay time, they will take advantage of others are resting, chatting time to catch up with the progress of work in a timely manner, will never drag a minute, can complete the day's workload earlier and faster before getting off work, However, if you are in too much of a hurry, it is often easy to lose everything.

Slow people are relatively introverted (not all slow people are introverted, but introverted slow people account for the majority and above), more than men and husbands, they rarely accompany the letter and regret to deal with others too much, talk and do things slowly, they will put most of the experience into the work, slow temper people, not easy to get angry, poor concept of timeliness, their standard is that I don't care about fast or slow, as long as the work is done before the next class, But the same in the timeliness of work, they are easy to procrastinate, once the task is large and the work can not be completed, there is no need to work overtime, especially for introverted and very introverted slow people they are more calm, more stable, especially as a chef, accounting, and copywriting management, Lu Zheng and specialties, they will be more dedicated, more concentrated, they are better at thinking, they can learn a lot of knowledge through the process of others speaking, through the strengths of others to make up for their shortcomings, What the slow temperament wants is to be careful, serious, every step must be done in place, and it must be strictly controlled, and they have completely achieved this.

Hello, chronic and acute tell us different truths. Chronic children teach us the importance of patience and perseverance. People who are chronically slow to do things are usually slow, but they tend to persevere with great patience and perseverance, and do not allow the hall to be easily disturbed or disrupted by the outside world.

This attitude is very important for many jobs, especially those that require long-term commitment and continuous hard work, and patience and perseverance to achieve good results. Acute tells us the importance of being calm and controlling our emotions. Acute people are usually impatient, impulsive and impatient, but they are often able to make quick decisions and actions, and are not prone to hesitation and procrastination.

This attitude is also very important for some jobs, especially those that require quick decision-making and response to unexpected events, and the need to be calm and control emotions to make the right decisions. Taken together, chronic and acute tell us that we need to adopt different attitudes and ways of acting in different situations, and we cannot generalize. When doing things, we need to choose the attitude and method that suits us according to the actual situation and the nature of the work, and constantly improve and adjust to achieve better results.

In reality, acute children often cry urgently, and chronic children can drive acute children crazy. In love, two personalities that are incompatible with fire and water may also be complementary in heaven. Without the urgency of the acute child when he meets love, the love of the chronic child may never be enlightened.

And in this world, only the chronic child can relieve the irritability and mania of the acute child.

Chronic people hate to catch up, but they are willing to speed up the pace for a person; What can be more testable than such true love, which hates wasting time, but is willing to waste all of it on one person?

But in love, some things are better left to the anxious. For example, confession, crush requires more courage than confession, even if they are shy when they meet someone they like, they will not be able to hold back their temper and want an answer.

And the chronic confession is more slurred, and the phone call with the person you like doesn't get electricity, the tornado of love has already blown across the border, and the success rate of the confession you still take?

People who are acute can be with people who are chronic, so that their personalities are more complementary, they get along more harmoniously, and they can be well integrated, especially after marriage, this performance is more obvious.

If both of you are anxious, maybe your family will be noisy, both of them have strong tempers, no one will let anyone, if you get married together, there will definitely be many quarrels and contradictions.

But if an acute child and a chronic child are combined, then at least your family will not be noisy, for example, the acute child wants to quarrel, and the chronic child ignores it and treats it with silence, so you can't quarrel if you want to.

Even if the acute child starts to stand on tiptoe, the slow person of the chronic child will smooth him out, so the acute child and the chronic child should be an excellent match. To put it simply, the combination of acute and chronic is a bit similar to the combination of overcoming rigidity with softness.

People with acute children and chronic children can actually be together, like some real couples I saw before also have one acute child and the other chronic child.

It is inevitable that two people will quarrel when they are together, that is, they don't look at each other so well, but they can also learn to be considerate of each other, and they can still be together.

Acute and chronic people can be together, and someone feels that these two types of people are still more complementary together, if two acute people are together, then in the end it will definitely be, because some things have different opinions and will quarrel with two chronic people together, it is also inappropriate, so acute and chronic people are more complementary together.