My roommates say I stink, do they deliberately find fault?

Updated on educate 2024-07-02
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Regarding the problem of roommates saying that you stink, first of all, you should not be too sad, and secondly, you should check whether you have fox odor in time? If there is no fox smell, then it means that your roommate may think that you are a roommate who does not like cleanliness because he has not seen you taking a bath in the shower area at school, so just say it casually!

    Who doesn't have a mantra yet? You can also say that your roommate stinks! That's it!

    Also, even though it's winter, it's better to take a shower every three or four days if you can, because sometimes your hair may become a little untidy due to floating dust on your head when you are a student! If you wash your hair once every three or four days, it can also make your hair shiny, and the fragrant smell of shampoo will mask some of the body sweat odor! A friendly reminder from your roommate may also indicate that your roommate really smells some sweat, and you don't feel anything because you are used to your own smell, so you not only have to wash your hair once every three or four days, but also soak your feet in warm water every day as much as possible to remove the smell of sweat!

    Clothes, especially underwear, should also be washed with laundry soap, stick to it, and see which of your roommates dares to say that you stink!

    If I can help you with my answer, please click! Have a good time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can go to the hospital first to check your body, if the doctor does not find that you have a disease and a bad smell, it means that your roommate is deliberately looking for fault. If you can't live peacefully with them, it is recommended that you change bedrooms.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe you can't smell it yourself, and if your roommates say that about you, then you have to check yourself and change yourself. But you can tell from your literal meaning that you don't have a good relationship with your roommates, and that's where you need to face it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Sometimes this may be a smell of the body, pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene, or say that they do it on purpose, you can find someone else to confirm it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    They have nose problems, and it is normal for students to go home on weekends to take a shower, and many schools do not have the conditions for bathing, and there is no hot water, so it is impossible to wash it in cold water. They are also hypocritical.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Take a shower once a week, and no one can accept it! Don't ask why, the current living conditions can still make you so lazy, naturally people won't like to say, hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Isn't it a little longer, isn't this washed every three days or so?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that if your roommate says that you stink, you must not be deliberately finding fault, it must be your problem, you must pay attention to hygiene and ensure good health.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Did they say that I stink, and they were deliberately finding fault? That's for sure.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If this is what they say, they are deliberately finding fault.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, that's a bit of a fault.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Among the interpersonal relationships of college freshmen, the most problematic is the relationship between classmates. Because the students in the class and dormitory come from different regions and different families, there are obvious differences in ideology, value standards, lifestyles, living habits, etc., and they are often prone to conflicts when encountering problems. Here are a few tips for dealing with dorm relationships.

    1.Try to share the same schedule as your roommates. When everyone lives together, it is advisable to have a unified work and rest time, and only when everyone is coordinated and abided by can we reduce disputes, eliminate friction, and maintain normal life order.

    2.Do not engage in "small unity". In the dormitory, everyone should be treated equally, and do not favor one over the other, and fight with some people while alienating others.

    3.Do not violate the "privacy" of your roommates. Everyone has their own secrets, and let's not try to find out how to explore the privacy of our roommates. Be sure to keep your mouth shut about the privacy of your roommates you know.

    4.Actively participate in group activities. Dormitory activities are an important form of bonding between roommates, and they should be actively involved and cooperated.

    Don't be naïve to think of group activities as boring and costly, and show disdain, because if you don't participate in such activities regularly, you will appear to be out of place.

    5.Others need help when they are in trouble, and they have to ask for help when they have something. When a roommate is in trouble, we should reach out to help. If you have any problems, you should also ask your roommate for help. Asking for help shows that you trust others, that you are able to rapport and deepen your relationship.

    6.Do not refuse snacks and feasts. When your roommate buys some snacks and gives them to you in the dormitory, it's best not to push them, and don't refuse because you are embarrassed to eat others.

    If your roommate invites you to dinner for a birthday or other event, you should gladly go too. Accepting an invitation from someone is a sign of respect for others.

    7.Don't be quick to talk for a while. Some people like to argue and try to show their ability by convincing the other person to make their roommates "respect" themselves; Some people are afraid of being looked down upon by others, or even expose their shortcomings and make personal attacks on others, and this kind of person who likes to be quick to talk and take advantage of his mouth feels too competitive and difficult to get along with.

    8.Get the chores done. The chores that each member of the dormitory should do not only mean doing their own work, but also doing the work of the group.

    The above points are all small things in daily life, if you can pay attention to do a good job, I believe that the children who have just entered the university will be able to feel the warmth and friendship from their roommates.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Okay, let me tell you, don't think about how to make your dormitory people understand, you say that what he put forward makes sense, this truth is unfair, right, and only you know, but you really want to be affirmed by other dormitory people, and at the same time you feel that they can't see the essence of the problem, in fact, if you want to get a refutation from everyone now, it is not practical, because they have preconceived ideas, and their subjective thoughts have prejudiced against you.

    You should get along with your sisters in the dormitory. Don't look at what happened before, and when you handle your relationship, they will naturally look at the problem from your point of view, or from a fair point of view.

    If a person has a prejudice against a person, with the accumulation of time, it will slowly develop into a kind of unpleasant look at you, according to what you said, the people in the dormitory have also been prejudiced against you, you should speed up the pace as soon as possible to deal with the relationship with the dormitory people, or they will be affected by the person you said after a long time. If it really develops to that point, you won't be able to gain a foothold.,Sisters in the dormitory, you can first have a good relationship with two people in addition to ta.,You can develop the relationship with one of them.,And she will make the relationship iron.,Naturally, the other one will also change your subjective impression.,But if you have the opportunity, try to deal with the relationship you said about ta.,After all, we're still happy together.,Talking about heart-to-heart quilts,Face can sometimes be exchanged for a good life., You're watching it yourself, hehe, good luck!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can go to see a movie called Mean Girl, and I'm sure you'll get something. I promise. I also had the same problem, for example, a girl in the class always spoke ill of me behind my back, and then I slowly got on good terms with other people, and then when she said bad things about me, others would take the initiative to speak for me.

    You can also try to have a good relationship with other roommates, don't feel that other roommates are in the same league with her, because they are not as scheming as she will be fooled, after you and other people have a good relationship, they will naturally help you talk, but I suggest that you have a good relationship with the woman on the surface, know who she is, just keep it in your heart, otherwise you will have to live together and look down and not look up, so it's too annoying to mess around. If she is taking advantage of you, you should try not to have any financial connection with her, such as borrowing money or something. Don't get too annoyed.

    The main thing is to do a good job in your own studies. Everything else is nonsense.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's nothing. She shut you out, and you shut her out. I think the other two people in the dormitory are also clear-eyed people, and they can understand it when they are so old, but they just don't say it.

    You can use your original attitude towards other people, don't be too good, don't be too bad, the roommate you said is too stingy, you don't need to pay attention to this kind of person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I used to have a college living life, and I had conflicts with my roommates at that time, but now I think about how stupid it was then, and now that I graduated from college, I still miss each other very much, so don't worry too much about some things, after all, living on campus is short

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a good idea to use language arts to return her words to her in a different way, but the language still has to be hidden, or it will make people feel superficial, if you return the original words, for example, a boy in my class yelled at a girl -- I fry you female horse The girl replied -- I fire you dad This sentence is obviously not right and I was laughed at afterwards This is an example from my high school years ago I've been out of school for years Remember!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hehe, to keep changing in response to all changes, this kind of person you open up and say, whatever, the more you endure, the more she yin you, so you should say it directly is the most effective, I have seen a lot of this kind of person, or even the people I met are not as good as a hair, you don't have to be afraid of anything, her number of paragraphs is not high, if you can't get it, then continue to talk.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ask him what he means Why is this two people drinking and catching up on old days Friendship intention to tell him You still care about this relationship If it's gone, it's also his fault No, no one cares about anyone Emotional matters are not forced When it should be good, it will naturally be good [Don't lose yourself] He is ruthless What should you do [A person's dignity cannot be lost].

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's tangled and complicated.

    You ignore her, and you're done. If she's really excessive, you're going to have to have courage in the case. Give her a slap in the face. She dared to return the lip and slap her face.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To deal with such people, it is necessary to deal with them by force. She was warned for the first time. I guess she wasn't convinced, and thought you were scaring her.

    The second time, without saying anything, take your unwashed milk cup and smash it on her head. And then you say, I have warned you. Clapping both hands.

    This time she is completely convinced, and you are in a happy mood. Other roommates will come to you from now on. I've been in this situation before, there's no other way, it's the only way.

    I'm a gay man though. I think it's a unisex approach. Finally, may you be happy every day!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's better to put patience first, this society is too chaotic now, the school is very messy, and the other party is not good, maybe a group of people will be called to beat you.

    So try not to pay attention to her malicious provocation, if it really doesn't work, you can seek the help of the teacher (ask the teacher to help you change the dormitory) or parents, I believe that the eyes of the masses are bright.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are too many such people, as long as you have a clear conscience, ignore him as he does.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The isolation tactics adopted are to get along with other people in the dormitory, and isolate her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be yourself, let others say it, and don't care too much about what others think. I feel unhappy and I can't lose it, this little thing.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't pay attention to her, after a long time, others will see who she is.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Can you take a moment to come and talk! (Private chat at the bottom) The things of life should be taken seriously, whether she made you insane first or did you make her sick first, come on, I won't read your so many words.

    That's okay Pull it over and beat her violently, if she wants to, you accompany her every day, such a person can only deal with it like this, and think about your own problems.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you're a boy, I'll recommend three solutions to you! 1. It's a fight! If you can't beat it, you have to fight, and you won't turn your face if you beat it.

    Let them know that you are truly special than them! Then maybe you'll become good friends2, be polite and make them disappear--- to put it bluntly, when they don't exist, remember to be polite and disappear them completely. Of course, this requires a realm!

    You'll be lonely ,...3, it's a trick! Try to be humorous, and when you encounter principled issues, you have to add a little seriousness to humor, and you can even add a little revenge insult! Pay attention to the subtlety of the language and let it have an aftertaste.

    This has a lot of consequences......

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't bother to know right and wrong, I hope the landlord will see a little bit Just think like this, it's impossible to bite the dog as long as you put your own thoughts right Sometimes it's better to be silent than to say too much It's right to prove it to yourself with actions It's right to live for yourself, not for others to see. In fact, what kind of specific implementation do you want After all, the relationship between people is very delicate And it is alive Ever-changing If it is Russia, Russia will find an appropriate opportunity to directly pick out the words while everyone is there, but there are also habits in this way Roommates who can really understand After all, people nowadays are not stupid If it is really her thorn, I believe they can see As for who they want to believe, it is not in the control of Russia Russia's answer still can't give the specific plan that Er wants But I still hope that the landlord won't be entangled in this kind of thing, it's really not worth it.

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