A boy said he wasn t behind his back. What is the meaning?

Updated on society 2024-07-19
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It means not to talk about other people's shortcomings or other things behind people's backs.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    "Sitting quietly is always thinking about one's own faults, and gossiping is not about others. 62616964757a686964616fe78988e69d8331333431353237" means: to calm down, you must often reflect on your own mistakes, and then take right and wrong, good and evil.

    When chatting, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others, leave some leeway in doing things, and leave some virtue in speaking. This is an important method of moral cultivation advocated by Confucianism.

    The original text of "Aphorism Lianbi": Sit quietly and often think about your own mistakes, don't talk about people's faults, you can suffer for a person with lofty ideals, and you are not a fool if you are willing to suffer. Respect the gentleman is virtuous, afraid that the villain is not incompetent, take a step back, let the three minds be calm, if you want to make progress, you need to think about regression, if you start to think about letting go, if you are proud, you should not go again, where you should have more than one step.

    Translation: Always sit quietly and consider your own faults, do not discuss the rights and wrongs of others when talking to people, the person who can endure hardships is an ambitious person, the person who is willing to suffer is not a stupid person, respect the gentleman can show your virtue, sometimes being afraid of the villain is not incapable, if there is something proud, you should not be happy all the time, you should leave room for everything to do.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Meditation and often thinking about one's own faults and gossiping about others means to calm down and often reflect on one's own mistakes, and then to reject the wrong version and the right to be good and evil; When chatting, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others, leave some leeway in doing things, leave some morality in speaking, and speak badly not enough to lose one's life, but enough to lose one's virtue. There is no greater evil in words than slander. People's mouths should spit out the truth and good words, and do not make things out of nothing.

    This is an important method of moral cultivation advocated by Confucianism. The upper joint stresses strict self-discipline, and the lower joint stresses generosity towards others. Excerpt from Qing Jinying's "Aphorisms on the Wall".

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    "Meditation and constant reflection on one's own faults, and gossip about others" means that one should meditate quietly every day, and always reflect on whether oneself is at fault, and when talking to others, do not say anything about the rights and wrongs of others. This sentence tells us to do and cherish, learn to love and respect others, and be a person who knows how to be self-reflective and kind.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    "Sit quietly and think about yourself, and be idle.

    Don't talk about people. It means that when you are quiet, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and then you should think about it.

    Eliminate evil, for the sake of good and evil; When chatting, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others, this is an important method of moral cultivation advocated by Confucianism.

    Excerpt from Qing Jinying's "Aphorisms on the Wall".

    The upper joint stresses strict self-discipline, and the lower joint stresses generosity towards others. It means that when you calm down, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and then use right and wrong to eliminate evil for good; When chatting, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others, this is an important method of moral cultivation advocated by Confucianism.

    Shanglian said "The Analects of Wei Linggong": "If you bow to yourself and take responsibility for others, you will be far from resentful." That is, if you reflect more on yourself and less blame others, then resentment will not come.

    Han Yu further explained: "The ancient gentleman also takes his responsibility for himself seriously, and he treats others lightly. Emphasis on the week (strict and comprehensive) so do not slacken; Light to covenant (lenient and simple), so people are happy to be good.

    "Original Destruction") is linked to the source of "Wenzi Shangyi": "From ancient times to the present, there is no one who can do all his deeds, so the gentleman does not blame others." That is to say, no man is perfect, so the virtuous do not blame others.

    How do you treat others with generosity, regardless of whether they are wrong? Ming man Hong Yingming said well: "Don't blame people for small mistakes, don't make people selfish, and don't remember old evils."

    The three can cultivate virtue and also avoid harm. (Caigen Tan).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The meaning of this sentence is to think more about your own mistakes when you are fine. And when you're idle, don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sit down and reflect on your own mistakes, and when you talk to friends, don't talk about other people's mistakes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    From "Aphorisms and Connections".

    Explanation: When a person meditates alone, one should always reflect on one's own mistakes. When chatting with others, don't gossip.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you calm down, you must often reflect on your own mistakes, and then use zhi to overcome wrong, and do evil for good; When chatting, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others.

    Selected from Qing Jin Ying's "Maxim Lianbi", the upper joint talks about being strict with oneself, and the lower one talks about treating others with generosity.

    Shanglian said "The Analects of Wei Linggong": "If you bow to yourself and take responsibility for others, you will be far from resentful." ”

    The following couplet comes out of "Wenzi Shangyi": "From ancient times to the present, there is no one who can do everything, so the gentleman does not blame others." ”

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What I personally understand is that in life, we must always introspect ourselves, think about how to be a person and do things today, and do not do enough! so as to further improve; In your free time, don't often talk about the rights and wrongs of others, and focus more on what you want to do, so as to further improve yourself!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you are calm, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and do not discuss the rights and wrongs of others when you are chatting.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you do it quietly, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others when you are chatting.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. If you make a mistake in a word, it should be idle talk, not life;

    2. Explain this sentence: When you are alone, think about what you have done wrong, what you need to make up, and think about how to correct it. So as to achieve the goal of perfecting one's own body.

    And when chatting with others, don't talk about other people's mistakes, so as not to cause others unpleasant, not to mention, if you talk behind your back, there is no impermeable wall in the world.

    This sentence is about the truth of being a man, specifically.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People with high morals will never stop cultivating themselves, and they are also tolerant of others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be strict with yourself and don't play right and wrong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When meditating, always reflect on your own faults, and don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others! This is a method used by the ancients for self-cultivation to improve one's moral cultivation. When people are alone, they treat their hearts sincerely, are strict with individuals, are cautious about what they think and do, and value their integrity.

    Talking about others behind your back, but forgetting what you have done, deliberately stirring up right and wrong, and being laughed at yourself, is essentially without compassion. Being strict with oneself and being lenient with others is true wisdom!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    "Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, don't talk about others", take care of yourself, and don't meddle in things.

    Writer Yang Daxia felt that only by reflecting on oneself can one win growth.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Interpretation.

    When you calm down, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and then use right and wrong to eliminate evil for good; When chatting, don't talk about other people's gains and losses.

    The upper joint stresses strict self-discipline, and the lower joint stresses generosity towards others. This is an important method of moral cultivation advocated by Confucianism.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When a person sits quietly, he should always reflect on himself, and do not discuss the rights and wrongs of others when he is chatting.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is to think more about your own mistakes and what you can't do when you meditate. Usually talk with friends, don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Take care of yourself and talk less about others.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to stay in the beauty of the feathers, the beauty of the people in the heart, the boss, I am Manager Li, I am a little angry, it turned out that after entering the balcony after middle age, Iran added commissions today, and the pocket money was said. Sometimes there is something going on in the Yangtze River at six o'clock.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Meaning: 6 times in 6 days, the key is "long".

    On May 10, 2019, Alibaba ushered in the annual "Ali Day", which is a blessing from Ma Yun to employees when he celebrated his marriage on this day, saying that he should have the spirit of 996 at work and 669 in life.

    Every year on this day, Ali will hold a group wedding, open the "Relatives and Friends Day", relatives and friends gather in Ali Park, parents inspect the work, and the newlyweds accept blessings, which is a day for Ali people to show off their happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't overthink it. It's just a little bit faster. Ben is 666.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe I wanted to call 666 and played 669

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Human non-means the bad side of the person, that is, when you are gossiping in front of everyone, don't talk about the other side of someone.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The meaning of gossip is very simple, that is, to warn people, after tea and dinner, when they are leisurely, try not to talk about right and wrong behind people's backs. There is no impermeable wall in this world, and right and wrong will reach the ears of others sooner or later. If the unintentional messenger is straight up with what he says, you may be fine.

    But if the messenger wants to add fuel to the vinegar, then you are not a donkey or a horse, and as a result, you will definitely be affected by surfing. Non: refers to the right and wrong of things; Generally known as the argument of the tongue.

    It is mostly used to refer to bad things.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This refers to right or wrong, good and bad.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The meaning of this is right and wrong, good and bad.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When you sit quietly and alone, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and do not talk about the rights and wrongs of others when you are chatting with others.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Calm down and think about your own faults, and don't talk about other people's faults.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Meditation means that when you are alone, you should think about your own shortcomings and need to correct them.

    Talking about others means that when you get along with others, don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs, and know that people are terrible.

    This is a sentence to improve self-cultivation, which means that people should cultivate themselves and not talk about right and wrong.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't spend time criticizing others, spend more time improving yourself, and don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs when you are chatting.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When you sit, think about what you have done, and don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs when you are chatting.

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