Can I afford this boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In your kind of dependence, any man is afraid. Everything will revolve around you, and the man will not be very tired. A man also has his own space, if you want us to have his space, then his space will be small, and he will be more miserable.

    I feel that your kind of thinking of sharing blessings and hardships will tire your boyfriend to death sooner or later. If he decides to break up with you, he will definitely not look back. So I think he said don't want Tsing Yi to break up, this person is still quite mature. It's also more emotional.

    But I don't think you're suitable, you need a nanny-type man. But such people are often incompetent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You should sit down and have a good talk.

    Tell him what you think, I actually think you're very literate!

    Since you are in love, don't give up easily!

    Once, my boyfriend doted on me.

    He would help me pick out the assassination when he ate fish.

    When I say I want to eat, he buys it immediately.

    I am not only dependent on him, but also dependent!

    In the end, he said I was not assertive. Not self-motivated...

    I think it's ridiculous!

    We broke up.

    In fact, the two of them still have to spread out their words.

    What you think, it's not that he thinks so.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you have to get your mindset right.

    I can't say anything for you.

    It's called a boyfriend.

    You say homework, and you ask your boyfriend to do it.

    I'm afraid this is a bit inappropriate.

    Doing homework is a help for your own learning.

    Why not do it yourself.

    Since you are holding hands, don't break up easily.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you're taking things too seriously, just because you used to think about how it feels like to be in a relationship but it's different from what you are now, or because you've only been together for a short time.

    He doesn't help you with your homework doesn't mean that he doesn't want to help you do other things, he just wants you to be independent in this matter, doing homework is also good for yourself, he hopes you can learn something by yourself, it's not right for you to only equate doing homework with helping you, doesn't he help you do anything else?

    I think from the situation you are together, the relationship is good, if the breakup is often on the lips, the relationship will definitely be bad, and the pressure to return is unhappy, and it is a matter of time before you really break up. In fact, I think your boyfriend is just a more mature and calm person, you don't need to worry about it like this, although this is the nature of girls, but it's always yourself who worries about it.

    You're not the only thing to do together, it's good to go out and play, he doesn't mention you the same question, don't think too much, if you really don't feel in love, you can only say that you don't love him enough, then are you with him because of loneliness? If you just want to find someone to help you with your homework, as well as carry things, buy food, etc., you might as well not want him to change to an absolute obedience who chases you, but then you won't be happy. And this is also on both sides, what have you done for him, have you washed his clothes, even including socks?

    Many people think that this is what girls should do, but if you don't do it, it doesn't mean you're not in a relationship. But I think the real reason is that you haven't been together for a long time, and it's good to wait until you've been together for a long time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    His words make sense, you can't ask him to do things like studying, you can ask him to help you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A man has a man's thing to do, a man will not put his feelings first, he will not soak with you all day long, you don't always want to do what he wants, he has to do it, you should ask him what he likes to do, and don't always blame him for why he doesn't help you, that doesn't help you, he shouldn't think about it at all, what do you want. If you don't make it clear, I don't think he can guess. And don't let your boyfriend think you're too clingy.

    Let him be restrained. That's the end of the game. Hehe.

    A breakup is bad for both parties, but the biggest damage is you. Let's sit down and have a good talk. Don't think about yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since two people love each other together, they should help each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other. The reason is not with one person, I hope you all have to reflect on it and solve the problems of two people together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In other ways, you can make him feel that you need him and make him feel happy!

    I'm also a college student, and I know that college assignments are generally very confusing, and a lot of them are just plagiarized by each other. My boyfriend is in our class, we plan to be together, I'm more dependent on others than the average person, more clingy, so I ask to be with him all day long. But men have a lot of their own things, and we can't make them feel uncomfortable or even miserable for the sake of our momentary happiness!

    We really have to learn to be independent! We're graduating in one year, so what if we can't be in a city? Can't you learn to be independent?

    Besides, learning is your own business, so why should you let others help? I regret it now that I didn't study hard at that time! I think it's important for a woman to be strong!

    We can use our own time to learn more about other things!

    This is just my personal thoughts, I don't know if it will help you!

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