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There is definitely no exact time for this kind of thing, because there are many aspects to be included, and the decisive factors are also different, including your own personality factors, the other person's living habits, and the things you both experienced, etc., will affect the time of your spiritual fellowship. The first is the personality of both parties, some people are extroverted, and whoever they chat with is like this, even if it is a person who has never crossed paths, in less than a few minutes, as if he has been an old friend with others for many years, this kind of person is called self-acquaintance. On the contrary, the kind of slow-burning player who always likes to close everything off himself, and it seems that it will take a long time for him to open his heart to you, and because of the relationship between personalities, it will take different hours for each other to get to know each other.
But even if you have a preliminary understanding of the character, you can't say that you are familiar with each other, this is a matter of time, some people like to hide their other side, and the character he shows may be to hide the other side of themselves, and this familiarity will be slowly reflected in your future interactions, or a year and a half, or three and a half years, or three and a half years, it depends on the people and things you have experienced between you, but I believe that true friendship or love can stand the test of time, even if it really takes three or five years, In the end, we can get to know each other, so what's the difference?
And I think the preferences of both sides will also account for a big factor, people with the same preferences, from the beginning there will be endless topics, so as to extend to trigger new topics, as long as the communication can further understand the familiar, on the contrary, people who can't find a common hobby, there is no direct topic to talk about at the beginning, and naturally understand each other for a longer time.
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Some people feel familiar with this kind of thing in a year, some people feel familiar in a day, but some people feel unfamiliar with you after ten years of getting along.
If you and your roommate see each other every day, eating, drinking, and lazing together, then you will feel familiar with him for about a week or so, and you will feel familiar with him for a month or so at the latest.
But if you don't have a good relationship with your roommate and don't like to talk to him, then you won't get to know him even if you live with him for four years.
But if it's your classmate, you can only see each other during class, and some of your classmates haven't even met for a semester, then you won't get acquainted with him for a year. There are even many classmates who just meet and say hello, and don't talk at all at other times, so you won't be familiar with him for a year.
If it's the ones who take electives with you, it's up to the two of you to get along. If she talks to you a lot, chats with you a lot, always likes to come over to play with you, and goes out to dinner with you, then you may be familiar with each other in a month.
If you know the kind of like-minded person and have a good time chatting with him on the first day, then you can get acquainted with each other in one day and become good friends later.
Some classmates feel unfamiliar with each other for ten years, and they won't even say hello when they meet on the road, because they don't have any common topics and don't have close contact, so they just know each other.
There are also some people who have been together for ten years but are still not familiar with each other's personalities. Because the two of them have never gotten along with each other, they are all just doing some superficial work. Others say that the road knows the horsepower from afar, and the hearts of the people are seen over time.
Some people are not at all what you seem, and you will never feel familiar with them.
Only when you feel that he will not tell anyone or even get angry about what you say to him, that is the time for you to get along with nature and get along.
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Getting along with others is a way of life that each of us must face in communication, life and learning, and you will inevitably get along with others when you do everything, so how to get along with people and get along with natural familiarity This is an art of making friends.
I believe that everyone must face a different individual, and you will get along with each other from different individuals, in your daily interactions, some people you will slowly become familiar people, become friends, become best friends, become best friends, and some people will become unfamiliar but meet and greet each other. This is the result of your getting along, some people you will feel very similar to you, and your views are more compatible, your hobbies are the same, you have a common language between you, so you will slowly accumulate feelings in getting along, will slowly trust each other and are very willing to stay with each other to do something they like together, and your relationship will naturally become deeper in the accumulation.
And some of you feel that you don't agree in all aspects after getting along, you like each other differently, and your concepts don't match, so it's difficult for your feelings to enhance and become natural.
So when you choose a friend, you should choose a friend that is compatible with your hobbies and your personality, so that you will have a common language and can develop a relationship with each other, and you will soon become natural and familiar. As the saying goes, good people gather like like people, so you don't need to have time to be sure of your familiarity, you should look for people who understand you and who can speak a similar and common language with you. You will naturally become familiar with nature, just like your own loved ones.
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I think it depends on what kind of personality you have. Some people are more lively and outgoing, so they can always get along with other people quickly and make good friends, while some people are more shy and introverted, and it takes a long time to get acquainted with people.
My friend and I are like this, he is the kind of very cheerful character, every time we go out to play, there are always a lot of people will come to talk to him, less than a moment can talk and laugh, chatting all over the world, so I can make friends very quickly, my WeChat circle of friends is not even a third of people. <>
I have to say that he has a lot of friends and a wide range of contacts, every time he has an urgent matter, he can always find a friend to solve it as soon as possible, and I used to envy his character and his good popularity. And I'm the kind of slow-burning type, people who don't know me will think I'm a little cold, or even pretending to be a little forced when sitting with me, but in fact, I'm just shy and don't know how to get along and talk to them. It's this friend of mine, and it's only been two years since we've known each other that we've become very good friends.
So familiar with a person, in fact, depends on your own feelings, if you feel like-minded with him, then there will be a lot of common language between you, you can quickly become familiar, if you feel that you are not speculative with a person more than half a sentence, but want to be friends, it will take a long time and effort, because you have to slowly run in with each other, slowly adapt to each other, reach the same height, in order to be able to communicate on an equal footing, and then to the heart-to-heart.
Getting to know a person sometimes doesn't take too much effort, as long as you have enough tacit understanding, you can get along quickly, and sometimes it takes a long time, maybe like a slow person like me.
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It depends on what the situation is, and it depends on the person, but most of them are getting more and more familiar with each other.
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, There are fewer unfamiliar situations, after all, if you don't look up and look down, you will feel embarrassed.
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