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Someone asked: People who usually don't contact you for eating, drinking, and having fun suddenly contact you to borrow money, will you borrow? I wouldn't borrow, and I don't think anyone in this situation would lend him money for the following reasons:
One, a person who usually eats, drinks and has fun, makes it impossible to trust him; Second, people who don't usually contact are no different from strangers, and it's normal not to lend him money; Third, unless you have too much money to use up, don't borrow money no matter how good your relationship isLet's take a closer look at this topic.
First of all, I wouldn't lend money to someone who wasn't serious at all because he was acting in a way that made it impossible to trust him. Food, drink and merry love is no different from idleness. For such a person, lending him money is tantamount to a waste, and he will lend him money unless he has a bad brain.
And why should I lend the money I usually save by frugality to someone who is better off than myself, and let others spend their own money to eat and play around, this is simply unreasonable. So not only will they not borrow, but they will stay away from such people in the future.
Secondly, put aside the person's usual behavior and don't comment, just say that he and you don't usually contact this matter, this kind of person who has not been in contact for a long time is the same as a stranger, and it is normal not to lend him money. Because we don't lend money to a stranger in our lives, we lend money and it is easy to not get it back. The "stranger" borrowed the money and walked away, and then there was no place to collect the debt.
Third, I don't think you should lend money to each other unless you have too much money to use up and want to do charity. Because the money you lend out is equivalent to losing it, and it depends on the other party's mind if you don't pay it back. Many people may never find anyone after borrowing money, and when you ask for money, the other party has been dragging it out, then you are passive, and your money is likely to never come back, which is tantamount to asking for trouble for yourself.
Therefore, a person who loves to eat, drink and have fun and usually does not contact you is even more unreliable and not worth lending him money.
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No, because this kind of person basically won't pay back the money he borrowed, and he doesn't know the purpose of the money, so he won't lend it to him.
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I won't borrow, this kind of person may not regard me as a friend, maybe they won't pay back the money they borrowed from me, and I will definitely find a reason.
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I won't borrow it, it must have been stolen, or I would have strayed into a pyramid scheme. I usually choose to call the police.
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A person who hasn't been chatting with you for a long time and suddenly asks you to borrow money may indicate the following:
1.This person needs money, and he thinks you're someone who can help him with his financial problems. He may have felt that you had a good relationship and wanted to ask you for help.
2.He may be having financial difficulties and need to borrow money, and he thinks you are someone who can help him. He may have felt that you had a good relationship and wanted to ask you for help.
3.He may want to reconnect, and he thinks borrowing money from you is one way to do it. He may want to restart his relationship with you, or he may think borrowing money from you is a way to restore contact.
Whatever the reason, if you don't want to borrow money or can't borrow it, you should tactfully decline. You can say that your financial situation does not allow you to borrow money, or that you already have other commitments and spending plans.
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If a person doesn't talk to you for a long time, and then suddenly asks you to borrow money, it means that he is in a hurry, or is. There is really no way, so he told you and asked you to borrow money, so he felt that you were a reliable friend, so he went to you to borrow money.
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It shows that there is a real shortage of money, and even people who don't often contact him have opened their mouths to borrow. Or rather, he found a lot of people, and you are one of them.
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Explain that this person is just taking advantage of you. So he didn't talk to you for a long time, and suddenly he came to you to borrow money.
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One possibility is that he may have been stolen, at this time you may have to be careful, the other party may not, he must do everything possible to confirm the person to make money when transferring money, and the other possibility is that he is really short of money in an emergency, and then has to open up to you.
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A person who hasn't talked to you for a long time and suddenly asks you to borrow money can only mean that he has already borrowed money from many people, and most of them have no one to lend him.
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It shows that this kind of person is unreliable, ignores you when he is fine, and comes to you when something happens.
The most important thing depends on whether the relationship between the two of you is good or not. A good relationship doesn't need to be contacted at all. The relationship is not good, and there is not much point in contacting every day.
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It may be that this person is really in trouble, otherwise, he would not open his mouth to borrow money like a person who has not been in touch for a long time. If you know this person, if he is reliable, you can also consider lending him a little. After all, when people open their mouths to borrow money, it is really difficult.
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I'll tell him I'm sorry you recognized the wrong person, I don't know you, my friends are in constant contact. I really don't know you or me. Don't think that I don't take my friends seriously, I've been cheated myself, and I can't swallow this breath.
I treat others as friends, I dig out my heart and lungs, you are in trouble, I try my best to help you, but in the end I have to bear the resentment for you, such a big fool, I did it once, it is enough, since you can't be a friend, then be a stranger.
I can say that I have always done a good job with my friends, and I will not hesitate to help others whenever they need me. I think I'm right about everyone, but how do they treat me? Look at me stupid and easy to bully, right, then I'm sorry, I won't serve.
When I meet such a person, I am unlucky. Once I went into a pit, I was stupid, and the second time I was incurable, and I wasn't stupid to that point. If you want to take advantage of my troubles, I'm not going to help you.
It is impossible for people to experience losses and be so stupid.
I introduce him because I think of him as a friend, and he deserves so much from me. A friend of mine in college we are in one class. The relationship is not bad.
It's not very good, but it's also difficult to help. I haven't had much contact since graduating from college. I thought he didn't need me as a friend anymore, and for a while I felt very sad.
Until he called me **, I was very happy that he hadn't forgotten me, it was me who drilled the horns myself, and he told me that he needed a sum of money and wanted me to lend him money. I also had a little deposit at that time. When he saw that his friend needed help, he gave it to him.
I didn't think about it so much, and when it wasn't enough, I asked my friend to borrow some for him, and he said a lot of words of gratitude to me. I'm also glad I can help him. He said he would pay it back to me in less than half a year.
I didn't care that much. Half a year passed quickly, but he hasn't moved, my money doesn't matter, but my friend's money can't be delayed, call him ** and say it's empty, I understand what's going on, this is cheating, I still trust him so much, I haven't urged him to pay back the money. In the end, I had to pay it back to my friend with my own money.
Since then, I've encountered the kind of people who haven't been in touch for a long time, and after they have been contacted, they have asked me to borrow money, and they don't know each other. Since I didn't contact him before, don't contact him again. I'd be fine without you.
I will no longer be hurt by the so-called friendship, and I will also have heartache. Such a friendship is not worth cherishing, and if it is really a friend, I will not fail to connect. I can't bear to deceive my friends.
I can't afford such a friend.
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If you have a lot of money, you may be inclined to lend money to the other person.
1. If there is no difficulty, you will not borrow money, and if you are generous, you can help.
In the spirit of helping friends, after all, who can save face and borrow money from someone in a difficult situation? I believe that many people have the experience of borrowing money, when considering who to borrow money from, in fact, it is a process of measurement, the other party will consider borrowing money according to the intimacy of their relationship, at least when the other party borrows money from me, I should occupy a more important position in the other party's mind, so it is not appropriate to disappoint the other party for this attention, of course, the premise is that you can't borrow money to mess around
2. Look at character.
Since it is a friend, there is a past that can be traced, if the person has a good character before, and has a good reputation, you can consider, on the other hand, you can knock on the side to understand what this person is borrowing money for, if it is indeed a lack of money and urgency, it should be to help people. That's historical credit.
Let's talk about the situation of not borrowing money.
3. To borrow a friend's words, they have already borrowed from you, depending on where you are in line, try not to borrow at the bottom.
My friend said that there is a background to this sentence, that is, he thinks that people generally give priority to relatives and friends when they borrow money, and relatives and friends will only come to you after borrowing, and you still need so much to get here, and you may not be able to control the cost of helping him.
4. As the old saying goes, emergency is not poor.
There is a situation that is resolutely opposed to borrowing money, and one is borrowing money for investment, this kind of money is simply maliciously transferring risks, which is a very dangerous behavior. On the other hand, it is not recommended to borrow money to buy a house, and this kind of behavior is difficult to promise you anything, especially if you are all young people, you are at this embarrassing age, your friends are facing the situation of buying a house, don't you know that you are also facing the situation of buying a house Moreover, tell you with personal experience, it is very embarrassing to borrow money to buy a house, and when you repay the money, you may also want to buy a house, but the other party really has no money to pay you back, what else can you do? As a friend, don't you even have a friend?
In order for this friendship to last, it is better not to borrow money
But the words are divided into two ends, if it is indeed an urgent need for money, at this time to help is life-saving money, should help a handful, for example, I have experienced, my colleague's friend's wife gave birth to a child after first aid, the cost is very large, emergency borrowing money, at that time many friends have helped, and then although misfortune happened, but the colleague's friend while taking a child, while trying to repay the money every month, many people told him that he was not in a hurry to pay back, but people still tried to repay the money according to the agreement. So many times, it's not a matter of borrowing money or not, it's a person's ethics that is worth lending money to him.
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That depends. If he used to be a good friend, and his qualities are the kind of person he can trust, then he can borrow it. If you are a gambler, don't borrow it.
Even if you didn't play particularly well, but you helped each other, and people really encountered any difficulties, you can borrow it, but you have to figure out whether the money lent to him will help him or hurt him, don't even get into it yourself. If it's the kind of person who loves to borrow money from people everywhere, try not to borrow him.
When I was in junior high school, I had a male classmate who played very well, and when he was in high school, he was admitted to other cities to attend high school, and I stayed in the middle school in our county. Although he will go home during the winter and summer vacations in the three years of high school, he is not here after he comes back, but he goes back to his hometown in the countryside, so we have met once or twice at most in three years, and it is very short, at most an hour, although QQ has a connection, but in fact, there are very few, and I can't say a few words. After the college entrance examination, we didn't have contact, after he went to college, one day, he suddenly contacted me, he asked me if I had money, he said he was a little urgent and needed money, I didn't ask him what the specific thing was, I said, how much do you want, he said I can borrow as much as I want, I lent him the five hundred yuan on my body, leaving one or two hundred for my own use, he said he would pay me back next month, but I said, don't worry, wait until you have it, he didn't polite anything.
It's not that I'm not cautious, it's because I played very well in junior high school, and I believe in his character, so I lent it to him, and he took the initiative to return the money to me next month as scheduled.
There is also a friend, she and I have almost no contact after graduating from junior high school, but there is also contact, every contact is definitely related to borrowing money, and will say a lot of pitiful things, will say how difficult it is for themselves, but I have always been polite to refuse, not only because every time she contacts me just to borrow money, a few of our friends are often together Sometimes she borrows money from us all over again, and the difficulty of borrowing money to everyone is different, None of us lent her money, and besides, when we were classmates, we knew she was a fun-loving girl, so it was even more impossible for us to lend her money, let alone lend us ourselves.
When others are in trouble, we should lend a helping hand to help others, but we must also recognize the essence of the person, and we must also avoid the stakes. Although old friends haven't been in touch for a long time, so what? As long as this person is worth helping, then help others accumulate good karma, some people even if you are in contact every day, but if he borrows money and does not do the right thing, don't borrow, for example, play (gambling) and play (Bo), lend money to this kind of person to be prepared for the money can not be recovered, and in doing so, it is actually harmful to him.
Friends, don't be stupid, I'll tell you.
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