Friends who don t contact you all year round borrow money as soon as they get in touch

Hello landlord, for friends who do not contact all year round, if he contacts you to borrow money, then in this case it is recommended that you only need to think about it.

If your friend is really in urgent need of money, such as someone is hospitalized, etc., then in this case, even if you don't contact him, then if you were very good friends before, then you can find a way to give him a little money, after all, it is an emergency.

But your relationship was not very good before, and you haven't been in touch for a long time, so in this case, you can borrow money carefully, if your ability is limited and you have no time to take care of others, then in this case, you can directly tell him that you don't have money, but if your ability is enough, try to help when you need to help.

Therefore, we can't generalize about the matter of borrowing money from friends, and we still have to help when we say that we should help according to the situation.

There is really such a friend, who has not been in touch for many years, and suddenly contacts you, but when you open your mouth, you can borrow money, and you can use the excuse that you don't have money, whether you have money or not, don't lend him it, because after many years, people will change! You can't be sure of his current living situation, you don't know what bad habits he has, you lend it to him, and you can't contact him anymore, it's miserable.

Don't borrow, the routine is wrong, at least contact to often chat about the time and then borrow, how can there be a mouth that has not been contacted for many years to borrow money.

I'm trying my best to make money, why do you borrow money, I'll lend it to you, some people don't contact, a contact is to borrow money, when you borrow money, you are a friend, and when you pay back, you become an enemy.

If a friend who has not been in contact for many years borrows money as soon as he contacts him, then you should refuse and find a reason to excuse it.

Friends who don't contact you all year round, borrow money as soon as you get in touch You can excuse yourself.

Summary. When you don't want to lend him money or don't want to get too close to him, we have to have a force in our hearts to push it away from that distance.

It's okay to borrow money as soon as you get in touch.

Hello, I see your question.

It's true that there is nothing in a relationship, and borrowing money as soon as you get in touch makes you feel very uncomfortable.

I can understand your feelings.

How to deal with this matter? My advice is to keep a certain distance from this kind of friend.

Rejection is also a strength, a strength that you must have in the middle of your life.

When you don't want to lend him money or don't want to get too close to him, we have to have a force in our hearts to push it away from that distance.

Maintain a sense of boundary between the two of you.

That's all for me, I don't know if it can help you, thank you.