What to do? Does this affect the child???

Now you can only give birth to one. There is no regret medicine in the world. The bitter fruit is to be borne over a lifetime.

Generally, there is nothing to do, and it is really impossible to re-flow with logistics for inspection.

No, it won't. Don't worry, I've taken more medicine than you, I took more than 20 pills at once, drank a few bottles of beer, and gave birth to a child who is just as chubby, and very smart! So you don't have to worry about it at all.

Don't worry too much, I'm now 30 weeks +3, I go to bed at 10:30 every day, I get up at 6 in the morning, I have to go to work, I have a headache every morning, and I can only relieve it after the lunch break at noon. Pregnancy can be uncomfortable. Especially in the late stages.

On this issue, as an AI assistant, I can't directly observe what people are wearing near the school. However, I can give you some advice to help moms cope with this concern.

1.Communicate with your child: First of all, you can communicate openly and sincerely with your child to understand their views on what the people around them are wearing. This will help you understand your child's psychological condition and guide them to establish the right values and aesthetics.

2.Educate your child: Convey proper etiquette and behaviour to your child so that they know how to dress for different occasions and situations. Teach children to respect the choices of others, but also learn to protect themselves.

3.Strengthen family education: In family education, mothers can provide children with knowledge about interpersonal communication, mental health, etc., to help them establish a healthy psychological quality.

4.Pay attention to your child's mental health: Pay close attention to your child's performance and emotions at school, and seek professional help in time if you find that your child has psychological problems such as anxiety and low self-esteem.

5.Adjust your mentality: Moms also need to adjust their mentality, recognize that everyone has their own choices and aesthetics, and try to look at the clothes of the people around them with tolerance and respect.

6.Create a harmonious family atmosphere: Create a warm and harmonious family environment for children, so that they feel safe and satisfied psychologically, so as to reduce the impact of external adverse factors on children's mental health.

In short, in the face of the problem of people dressed coolly near the school, mothers should keep an open mind, educate their children to respect others and maintain themselves, and at the same time pay attention to their children's mental health and create a harmonious family environment.

From the secular life, the son of the dragon and the dragon, the phoenix and the wind and the mouse will make holes, what kind of parents, the child's personality and temper will be imperceptibly influenced by the parents, plus the environmental factors. Therefore, children may be more or less influenced by their parents.

Children's self-awareness is the process of continuous understanding and recognition of themselves, including the recognition and regulation of their own emotions and feelings, as well as the ability of self-evaluation and self-planning. Specifically, it includes recognizing one's strengths and weaknesses, observing and adjusting one's emotions, intentions, motivations, tempers, and desires, and self-discipline and reflection on one's own behavior. These are all important aspects of emotional intelligence education, and they are also areas that parents need to pay special attention to when playing with their children.

The development of a child's self-perception can be influenced by both parents and the surrounding environment. The guidance and help of parents to children is the key to cultivating children's self-awareness. Parents should encourage their children in a timely manner and create a play environment for their children to experience a new self through role-playing.

This is an important step in helping children develop self-awareness. Children are constantly growing, and parents should also look at their children from a growing perspective. The speed at which children are growing is amazing, and there is progress every day and even every minute.

All parents want their children to get the most space for development, but they often inadvertently limit their development, and prevaricate their children with words such as "you are too young, wait until you are older". Too much interference by parents in their children's decisions will only breed children's lack of self-confidence, cause children to doubt themselves and rely on their parents, which is very detrimental to the development of children's emotional intelligence.

First, we need to understand how a child's mental health is formed. A child's mental health is affected by many factors, including the family environment, school environment, social environment, etc. In the social environment, the social culture and values of the child, as well as their interactions with the people around them, can have an impact on their mental health.

Therefore, we cannot simply blame the problem on the clothes of the people around us, but should analyze it from multiple angles.

First of all, you need to consider the child's age and cognitive ability. If a child is still in their childhood, they may not fully understand the concepts of gender, body, and sexuality, and therefore are less sensitive to what those around them are wearing. For adolescents, they are in the stage of physical and mental development, and their awareness of sex and body is gradually increasing, so they may be more sensitive.

However, this does not mean that seeing people dressed coolly near school will have a negative impact on a child's mental health.

Second, we need to take into account the diversity of society. We live in a pluralistic society where people of different cultures and values have the right to choose how they dress. It is unreasonable to associate the way an individual dresses with a child's mental health.

We should respect everyone's choices while teaching our children to respect the choices and rights of others. This helps to develop tolerance and open-mindedness in children, enhancing their social skills and adaptability.

In addition, we need to take into account the impact of home and school on children. Parents and schools should provide good mental health education for their children, teaching them how to properly handle their emotions and interactions with others. At the same time, parents and teachers should also create a safe, harmonious and positive learning environment as much as possible, and provide strong psychological support for children.

Finally, if she really feels that the way people around her dress can have a negative impact on her child's mental health, she can consider taking the following steps: working with the school or community to organize mental health education talks or activities; Share concerns with other parents about their children's mental health, support each other and promote positive values; Teach children how to properly handle their emotions and interactions with others, and enhance their self-protection and adaptability.

To sum up, we can't simply link a child's mental health to the way those around them dress. We need to consider the child's age and cognitive ability, social diversity, and the influence of family and school from multiple perspectives to provide children with comprehensive mental health education and support.

Every parent attaches great importance to the education of their children, so in the process of educating their children, parents want their children to complete their studies according to their own steps, and parents hope that their children can find a satisfactory job according to their own requirements. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents will interfere too much with their children, and these parents will feel that all the decisions made by children are very immature, so only when parents help children show the way behind their backs, children can grow better.

If parents have this kind of worry, it will make the child feel that the parents do not believe in themselves, and it will also make the child have an inexplicable sense of powerlessness, and the children will not know what they can do, even if the child's academic performance is very good, but this will also make the child have no self-confidence, because the child does not have the encouragement of the parents, if a child does not have self-confidence, then the child will deny himself in all kinds of things, so excessive interference in the parent's child will lead to the child becoming less and less confident, This is very detrimental to the child's development.

Although the children are young, each child will have their own thoughts, and when they encounter problems, they also want to solve them through their ability to think independently. But if the parents suddenly intervene in the child's thoughts when the child thinks independently, this will make the child easily change his original thoughts, because the child's attention is very poor, when the child hears the parent's opinion, the child may rely on the parent's opinion, resulting in their own lack of opinion, and this can also make the child care too much about the parents' opinion, and often ignore their own existence, so this will lead to the child's inferiority complex.

On the surface, parental intervention in a child may seem to be a sign of parental care for the child, and parents may feel that intervening in the child may make the child's growth path smoother. But parents may not be aware of the unscrupulous and unscrupulous, behind the excessive intervention in the child, all are the fear and worry of the parents, because the parents do not believe that the children can do well, nor do they believe that the children have the ability to solve things independently, so the parents will intervene too much in the children.

It will cause serious wanton effects, which may cause children to become more and more inferior, more and more introverted, and children will be more timid when doing things.

It will make the child develop a particularly bad habit, and it will also make the child more reluctant to communicate with his parents.

It can lead to children paying too much attention to other people's opinions. After such a character is formed, it will make the child's life very tiring. Learn to let go and leave it to your child to handle it themselves.

If parents pay too much attention to their children, they will always feel that they are being watched and will always be afraid to do things. Don't dare to show up by chance. It has a great impact on the child's future and has a great impact on the soul. Bright shots.

The child's self-esteem is very strong, the child's ability to resist pressure will be very weak, and he hopes to be the most dazzling person in everything he does, and if he is ignored, he will be particularly lost, and his heart will be very fragile. I don't know how Xiao Jiandan gets along with others, he will become very proud and arrogant, and he will be very selfish, always self-centered.

It will make children timid, unassertive, self-confident, not independent, and overly dependent on others.

The child's heart will be very depressed, and there will be certain problems with the child's growth, and the child will not be able to be himself better.

What is the impact of parents paying too much attention to their children? After a long time, the child will become a mother's boy or mother's girl.

In terms of your child's mental health development, the main benefits may include:

Encourage your child to share. When there are two or three children in the family, they will naturally learn to share and enjoy the joy of sharing in their daily family life, for example, parents may buy different birthday gifts for each child, and they can share with each other with one more toy to play with, etc. The only child has a lot of resources at home most of the time, and there is no opportunity to exercise and feel the joy of sharing, and it will take more time to adapt to the win-win career and interpersonal integration in the future.

Learn to wait. Families with siblings have many aspects of life that require them to learn to wait, such as taking turns using toilets, scooters, computers, and even taking turns to sleep with their mothers. Because of waiting, children understand what the rules of order are, know how to cherish what they have, and are more patient.

These are not easy for only children to experience, only children often want what to give, give it will always belong to themselves without worrying about losing, such children are often easy to be impatient, lost, free and loose once they enter the group life, and the waste behavior is more serious.

Feel the affection between brothers and sisters. Children live together since childhood, accustomed to playing with each other, once separated will miss each other, between the children gradually understand each other's inseparable family affection, will take the initiative to maintain and manage sibling affection through words and deeds, the cultivation of these abilities is conducive to the formation of good interpersonal relationships and intimate relationships in social life in the future, in contrast, the only child has a lot less opportunities to perceive and exercise, in the future interpersonal relationship and intimate spine relationship is often less active, Flexible and congenial.

Learn to help and be grateful. The advantages of each child are different, some children have strong hands-on ability, and some children have strong language skills; Every child may encounter difficulties: unable to solve a certain math problem, skirt can not be zipped, etc., children in the process of long-term relationship is easy to form complementarity, experience the joy of helping others and the gratitude of being helped, and gradually learn to respect others.

It is difficult for only children to have the opportunity to help others, and their parents not only do not need their help to defend themselves, but also are willing to do things for them without asking for thanks, and in such an environment, children are prone to self-centeredness and apathy.

Enjoy having fun with your playmates anytime, anywhere. When there are more children, they will not always pester the adults in the family to play, and their siblings are the best playmates, and this benefit is most felt when they go out to travel. The children are together, communicating while playing, using their brains and mouths, and learning to fight better, and they are not falling behind.

While the children play together, the adults can do their own things: tidy up the house, read books, etc. Of course, children will also quarrel and even fight while playing, and adults need to mediate, but this is much easier to deal with than adults and children playing and breaking.

There are many benefits to having more children, but the premise is that parents must be loving, parents must be good at communication and be able to care for each child, so that the benefits of having more children can gradually emerge and enjoy the happiness and joy of a family with many children.