I suspect that my sister has psychological problems, so I asked Mr. Ji Xuesong to help me

Yes, your sister didn't see your dad, so have you observed your dad's reaction?

For biological parents, it is impossible for children to be calmly indifferent!

When I was a child, my father was often not around, so every time he came back, I felt a stranger to him! Some felt that he was sacrosanct and very majestic. So there are always few words in front of the father! But the more contact I had with my father, it became more and more natural!

I don't think we can rule out the possibility that your sister had too little contact with your father! But this should not be a psychological problem! Maybe there's a knot in my heart!

I'm not a teacher, but I'm taking the liberty of it.

I think there are several possibilities:

1. She inadvertently discovered something her father did, and what her father did affected her, so she adopted this method of escape.

Second, she did something wrong, and she was afraid of being discovered by her father, so she avoided her father everywhere.

3. There was a misunderstanding with my father and I didn't want to see my father.

A 14-year-old girl is in adolescence, and this process affects her thinking, her actions, her character. It is recommended that you find an opportunity to have a good talk with your sister, do not ask questions, and be kind to them. Or find your mom to figure it out.

Don't let this matter affect your sister's character.

Presumptuous: 1. Are you two new sisters, that is, are your sisters and your father's biological sons?

2. Either your dad did something wrong that affected her.

3. What misunderstanding happened.

This kind of thing will happen, basically 90% of the problem is in your dad, it's not that he doesn't have a problem, but you don't find it, and if you look closely, there will be clues!

Adjust your mindset.

Just communicate with friends of the same sex often.

The way is to let yourself give up this mentality, can you, okay?

Your brother is not mentally ill, I was the same as him when I was 19 years old, maybe because of adolescence, after I found a job I liked in my 20s, there was nothing left, I feel that your brother is because of something in his heart, but he is unwilling to tell his family about it, in fact, he has nothing at all, this is the rebellious psychology of adolescence, it should not be a big problem. My advice is to let your brother choose a job that he likes, or follow his hobbies, it will be better.

Your brother doesn't have a nervous disorder, and adolescent children are like this, and it's inexplicable and unreasonable!

You will not be sacrificed, because only dying for the people is called sacrifice.

Obviously, what is happening to you is a series of anxiety and hypochondriacal symptoms, and even though the medical examination shows that there are no physical problems, you will still be in the agony of daily fear of illness.

These symptoms are a psychological illness (rest assured, not psychosis) that is painful and wastes a lot of medical bills.

Come to the psychiatric department to take a look, psychiatrists have a way, don't shy away from doctors!

I'm afraid of death, and I have it too.

But I'm more afraid of being alone, so let's get in touch with the outside world.

It is recommended to do volunteer work, preferably not for the purpose of making money, the main purpose is to let you experience what life is like in society, let you know how to get along with people, and improve your social adaptability and communication skills. From now on, it will not be so hard to enter the society in the future. I am preparing to do this to improve my ability to survive and adapt to social life, to meet different people, and to increase my social experience.

However, you should choose your volunteer time wisely, according to your own wishes, don't make yourself too tired, just focus on participation. It will definitely benefit you a lot, there is no harm but good.

You should see a psychiatrist You have severe hygiene symptoms.

If you don't hurry up and see the consequences, the consequences are unimaginable.

Oh, it's not like that, I'm fine if I don't take a shower for half a year, you're too scared to death.

It's safe to say that you don't have any psychological symptoms. However, your character does have to take some responsibility for these encounters.

You are in a very difficult period in your life, and during this period, you will feel more and more that all problems need to be taken care of by yourself, and no one can really help you, which is the attribute of independent life, and it is a situation that you must face.

For a long time, your life has been terrible, there are no intimate relationships, no academic success, no psychological support, and anyone in this environment will experience suffering and struggle, and this situation is a breeding ground for self-pity and self-resentment.

I don't have a recipe for getting you out of your current predicament right away, but I know that there is always an end to it, and life always moves towards the open field, which is the nature of life.

Lack of emotional support from friends and loved ones, lack of effective and adequate interpersonal resources are the most important problems you need to solve at the moment. You're alone.

Success in the graduate school entrance examination carries too many expectations for you, it is a sign of your academic success, the basis for you to give up a sunny life, and the premise for you to rebuild your confidence. The expectations are too heavy.

Alone and laborious, how can there be no reason to be invincible?

You can't put all your eggs in one basket", this is the life strategy of the wise. And your life is all put into the "basket of graduate school entrance examinations".

Even if I didn't pass the exam, I persevered to the end, and I think I was successful, at least I overcame my cowardice. "It's your pride, as it should be. It's just that any fight in life is like a war, you have to have more support and resources correctly, you have to gallop at the same time, and you have to defend fiercely while attacking.

If the environment is too harsh, people will feel sad. Life is suitable for talking and laughing, and it is not the case for those who have achieved great things in ancient and modern times.

Solving your dilemma is not a matter of tactics, it is a matter of strategy.

Even if I didn't pass the exam, I persevered to the end, and I think it was a success, at least I overcame my cowardice, and in your own words, it was OK.

It will be good for you to spend more time with your classmates and friends, participate in more group activities and manual work, and fill yourself up!

This is indeed bad news, and no man is indifferent to it. And this pain will continue for a while.

This is a traumatic event for men, and the appearance of uncontrollable imagination and the search for details to prove it are all internal attempts to repair this trauma, and although it is painful, it helps to repair the trauma to a certain extent.

Although I can feel your anger, grievance, and humiliation at the moment, I really don't have a elixir that can make your pain disappear immediately. There is no way for you to forget, you can only gradually digest and melt this pain, whether you will continue or break up.

It's a nightmare, but there's always a time to wake up.

I wish you a wonderful and happy life!

There is no grass at the end of the world, as long as you look carefully, there is always one better than her.

From there you have to get up there.

You think so. That's because you feel like you're a guy. You should be tall like a boy, right?

You always feel like people are laughing at you. Actually, that's a personal factor in your mind. Don't think so. Actually, no one is so boring and hateful.

I'm from Nanjing. They're all southerners like you. Tell you a secret!

I'm 162, and I'm full of fluttering! (Allow narcissism for a while.) Hey hey *0 *).

My husband is also 162Ten and ten people said that my husband was short, and ten and ten people said that I was at a loss. I was with him, and I didn't dare to wear high heels.

Only those thin shoes can be worn in winter. Because cotton or running shoes or boots are very high. I'm cold.

But I don't mind! I just love it! (Ahh )

Let's talk about my husband. He never felt inferior. He thought that his brothers were all taller than him.

.- Forget it if you are taller than him. He also likes to bring out all his brothers who are taller than him.

It creates a stark contrast. You say, why is his mentality so tenacious!

Hey. I'm just looking at his mentality...

He didn't have time for me and often didn't see me. He told me that men should put their careers first.

Women, I always feel that my husband is not around, and I am bored and thinking about it. But he's very responsible. Yes, he is very optimistic, plus he is a man with strong ambition and great ambition. That's why I've always believed in him!

Handsome guy. Don't feel inferior! In the words of my husband:

When you are tall, you can eat? Take out the ability to ask others to serve you! Hey.

Don't let a group of big men bow their heads and shout your brother! And there are many people older than him who still call him brother!

So be it. You. Don't feel inferior! Make achievements for them to see! Let them serve one by one.!

For the sake of the fact that we are all southerners, plus I have written so many original faces, give it to me. (*Hee-hee.......))

I'm guessing, if you think it makes sense, do it.

First of all, you must face yourself squarely, and don't feel that you are shorter than others, which will cause psychological suggestion "I am shorter than others" so that you will never be able to get out of this vicious circle. Then, try to participate in activities (which you are good at) to make others feel that you have a lot of good things about. Make a few more friends (good for your studies, etc.).

Slowly, I won't focus on being tall, so it will be fine over time! ~

And I'm not Teacher Ji Xuesong, I'm also a student!

I wish you a speedy victory over yourself!

Confidence conquers everything.

I'm a woman, and I'm very short, 150cm, so according to the standard of 160cm or more than 165cm, I am also far from the standard of the public.

When I was a child, I was ridiculed for"Japanese Shorty", but I am very confident, I don't admit defeat, I study very well, and I behave well in the world. I learned to appreciate the good in others, I was serious, cheerful and optimistic, and now I am a university teacher, and my students love me.

So you have to be confident, you have to look up to yourself, you have to like yourself. If you don't like yourself, how can you make someone like you?

When I have low self-esteem, think more about those celebrities who are very short but very accomplished, such as Comrade ***, he is not tall, but he has wisdom and courage, and everyone respects him.

This society still depends on ability.

It is recorded that Napoleon's height was 162 cm

Of course, there is only one Napoleon in the world, but the IQ level of small people is not lower than that of tall people, and height and shortness are affected by many factors such as genes, nutrition, genetics, eating habits, and geography, so everyone is born at the right time, a suitable environment, and a suitable opportunity, cherish their youth, be kind to themselves, and be kind to those who treat you well, and you will find that everything is fine!

It's not your fault that you're short, so why bother?

As the saying goes, condensed is the essence, as long as you can reflect your greatest value and radiate your own bright light, everyone will think you are very tall, this is true! Learn from Comrade Xiaoping!

Can you do it?

Believe in yourself ———I can".

It's okay if you're not high, brother, you should work hard, use your success to show everyone, you are the best, and having the ability is a hard indicator, it doesn't matter if you're not high!!

If you do a good job in other areas, others will look at you differently, don't care too much about other people's eyes, and concentrate on your own business

Napoleon was 155 cm tall, Mussolini was only 160 cm and Hitler was only 165 cm tall.