Would you rather be friends with smart people or be friends with stupid people?

One, I don't care if my friends are smart or not.

For me, it doesn't matter if my friend is smart or stupid, as long as it's my friend, whether he's smart or stupid, I'll always be good friends with him. Smart friends are my friends to me, and stupid friends are my friends. In fact, I think the most important thing about being a friend is to be able to tolerate me after knowing all my shortcomings.

I think this is the most important thing, but this is just my personal opinion, so I don't ask so much of my friends, I feel that as long as my friends understand me, understand me, and can comfort me, I think this is enough, and I don't care about the rest. <>

Second, it's hard to choose friends.

Why do I say that? Some people will be very strange about me, and think that they don't know why I say that friends are difficult to choose, but in fact, I think it is true, we never know what kind of friends we will meet in the future. When a friend comes, we may not realize that this person will have a good time with us in the future, and maybe we will find out after getting to know our friend and getting acquainted.

I didn't expect that one day we would be able to become friends, so this proves that friends are actually very difficult to choose. Sometimes we think that it is impossible for a person to be friends with us, but on the contrary, we just become friends with that person, and I think this is fate, so it is really difficult to choose friends. <>

Three, don't worry about friends.

Why don't you worry about friends, in fact, if you worry too much about friends, you will be divided, don't care about what your friend said, don't care about something your friend did, of course, if you do too much, then you must care. When I say don't care, I mean don't care about the little things. Sometimes because of a very small thing, falling out with a friend is actually very unworthy, because it is rare to meet a good friend, so if you can not worry about your friends, don't worry about your friends, you really shouldn't worry too much about friends, if you care too much, it will really hurt your feelings.

Fourth, cherish friends.

In fact, it is not easy to meet your friends, I think it is really not easy to meet like-minded people on the road of life, so you must cherish your friends, whether your friends are poor or rich, smart or stupid, tall or short or fat or thin, these are not important, the most important thing is your friend, he understands what you are thinking, and then even after knowing all your shortcomings, he can tolerate you, and always be the one who is silently by your side, that is enough, Other external factors really don't matter.

Be friends with smart people, because you feel very comfortable with smart people, and you don't have to say anything too clearly.

Of course, it is with smart people, and making friends with such people should also be affected, making yourself more and more excellent and smart.

I like to be friends with stupid people, because it will be very comfortable to get along this way; If you are with someone who is too smart, you feel that you are living in calculation every day.

I'm willing to be good friends with smart people. Because it won't be tiring to get along this way. When doing things, you can do more with less. Save a lot of time and increase efficiency.

Or willing to be friends with smart people. Because such people can understand our ideas very well, it is relatively easy to communicate.

I prefer to be good friends with smart people, because in this way my life and work will be smoother, and my mood will be happier and happier.

People like to make friends with smart people, which means that when they say the moment, they are very afraid of trouble. Because there are many people who don't understand the sophistication of human feelings, and they don't understand the euphemistic rejection in the other party's tone. So when you don't want to communicate with the other party, or what you want to do, the other party can't clearly understand your intentions, and you will feel very tired after a long time of photo drafting.

Because you will subconsciously accommodate the place. Make friends with smart people because the other party failed to do it, know your bottom, and you don't need to deliberately explain. It's also easier to communicate.

1. Smart people don't need to rely on the interpersonal communication mode of fishing in a big net to blindly please others, because they know from the beginning which people can and which can not be paid; They also don't need to calculate the "benefits" that each person might bring, because they have the ability to grind on their own. So, they only make the friends they want to make.

2. There is a sentence on the net celebration that is very suitable for taking You Wu as a QQ signature: "Smart people may not be unsociable, but they must love to be alone." ”

3. In addition to being a little "non-mainstream", this is actually not unreasonable, in fact, if we observe the smart people around us, you will find that they are all like this.

4. You can easily get acquainted with them, talk to each other, they respect your beliefs, and you understand their situation, but when you want to know more after eating and drinking, you will find that he will keep a subtle distance from you, intentionally or unintentionally, so that although you are familiar with each other, there is always a veil between you.

5. Smart people often rarely make friends, they are friendly with most people, but only have deep friendships with a few smart people of the same level.

Summary. Hello, there is a possibility that you are interacting with a person a lot right now. Good friends as bystanders Qing.

Maybe he thought you would suffer, so he sent this sentence. Of course, there are other possibilities, and you can ask your good friend directly, because your relationship can be asked directly.

Hello, there is a possibility that you are interacting with a person a lot right now. Good friends and friends as bystanders clear. Maybe he thinks you're going to suffer, so he said this digging sentence.

Of course, there are other possibilities for town reform, and you can ask your good friends directly, because your relationship can be asked directly.

What did he mean?

There will be the possibility I mentioned above. Specifically, you still ask his friend directly, you are good friends, and you seem to trust each other.

I like to be friends with silly people.

In fact, those stupid people are not stupid in their hearts, and if they were really stupid, they wouldn't be running around outside. So the reason why these stupid people let me refine this is what it looks like.

First, they don't like to care

Everyone wants to think about their own interests, and everyone wants everything to be beneficial to themselves. But it can't be that everything is so satisfying, there are always things that are harmful to your own interests.

Then in this case, some people will do something for their own benefit, but some people will think, forget it, it's not a big deal.

Most of these people are stupid people, they don't want to care, they don't want to get angry, they don't want to be sad. Maybe in their hearts, they think that friendship is more important, and these external things are not so important.

It's still relatively easy to get along with such people, there is not much pressure, and I feel very comfortable. I think many people will feel this way, because in the eyes of such people, everything can be passed, and it is not a big deal.

But smart people like to play their own cleverness, to protect their own interests, and may hurt their friends, but they don't care about all this, so naturally they don't like it.

Second, stupid people are easier to get along with

They don't show other people's faces all day long, they don't keep a straight face all day long, on the contrary, they smile every day, and they give a warm smile to everyone they see.

No matter what kind of relationship it is, whenever a stranger gives me a smile, I feel warmer and happy in my heart. Naturally, if you get along later, you will be willing to be friends with such people.

Now, I have a colleague at work, who is smarter, who sits in the manager's seat, has a straight face all day long, and does everything as if others owe her. also treats other colleagues there like maids, alas, it's dislike to think about it.

In order to avoid serious harm to myself, I decided not to talk to her much and not to be friends with her.

3. Stupid people don't have scheming

Now everything is full of routines, and people's hearts have become complicated. Thinking about it, I feel scared, can't this world be simpler?

Those smart people can play around with a little brain, and finally get the benefits they want, but what about others? can only bear all the hurt, it's really loveless.

Let's not talk about how stupid people can protect their own interests, but at least they don't think about harming others, they don't think about calculating others, they treat others sincerely.

I'm not stupid or smart, I don't think about who I want to hurt or calculate, and I don't want others to treat me like this, so I like to get along with stupid people in my heart.

The first thing to note is that smart people and scheming people are not the same type, and secondly, I like to make friends with smart people.

Many people don't like to deal with people who are too smart because they think that people who are too smart are very scheming, and making friends with this kind of person may be exchanged for the fact that he is calculating you. So everyone would rather make friends with stupid people.

Indeed, how cute a stupid person is, whatever you say is what it is, it will not refute you, it will not calculate you, only you will calculate his share. You are together, what you do is up to you, and he just listens. Be unconditionally good to yourself and listen to yourself unconditionally, this is a real good friend.

But don't think it's too selfish, in the eyes of stupid people, you yourself are the "smart person".

I like to make friends with smart people, because it's very simple to get along, I don't need so many roundabouts, I know that the other party's bottom line is in the best place, and I can really make friends.

Because I know that the other party's bottom line is in**, I won't step on it. When you get along, you won't make each other angry in the name of joking, and the other party can understand what you mean in one sentence, and you don't need to explain it with a dry mouth. A lot of stalks, the other party can understand that point, and I won't feel embarrassed when I say it.

If you need the other person's help, you really need it, not because you are too lazy to do it, or simply what the other person is good at.

For me, smart people are not only high IQ, but also emotional intelligence.

It will be easier to get along with smart people, and if everyone's ideas are the same frequency, there will not be so much trouble in communicating. However, choosing friends is not simply a matter of being smart or stupid, the most important thing is whether the three views match.

You have to think about this on two sides. First of all, if it's a friend in life as a heart-to-heart friend, I think it's not bad to be a silly friend. A person will feel very humorous, very funny, and he will be very happy to talk to him, or he can talk to him about any unhappy things in the future, and then it will be more enjoyable to go through that stage.

If it's a collaboration, I think it's important to make friends with smart people to have a comparative advantage. In the future cooperation or motivation, we can. Discuss something together.

It means that we make friends in many cases not for you, but for you. Do you and your friends get along, do you have common interests, do you have a common language, do you have fun together?

As the saying goes, when people live in the world, their mood is the most important. I have a silly friend right next to me. His IQ is high, but his EQ is terrifyingly low.

From time to time, he would come up with a few "famous quotes" that made us laugh.

I like to make friends with smart people

Because I'm her stupid friend, hahaha......

Personally, the reason why I choose a smart friend is because I think we can learn more from smart people. It's not that silly friends aren't worth associating, but it's easier for silly people to learn from smart friends.

I like to listen to other people, especially about their views on things, their code of conduct, interesting things they have experienced, ......Wait a minute. I think a good friend is like an interesting book, she can bring you many interesting experiences, teach you many new or profound things.

Of course, not every friend of mine has to be so funny, but they have to be kind, and I don't like to be friends with people who have character problems. So, in fact, making friends doesn't have much to do with whether she is stupid or smart, as long as you like this person and want to make friends with her, then many things are not a problem.

Because you're just friends with this person, and people haven't found fault with you yet, so I don't think it's better to find fault with too many others.

But whether you play well or not is another matter. This still depends on the magnetic field and the outlook on life, values, and worldview.

Moreover, a smart friend will know my needs, and the communication between us will be more direct and convenient, and we will not be unable to find a point in the circle.

In fact, silly friends are also very cute, they are generally relatively simple, and they can cleanse your soul between contacts, and you can always find cute flashes in them. So if you have a silly friend, please don't hurt her.

But ......It's been a long time since I've met someone more stupid than me. It's sad.