Really have a heart and eye for people to perform? What are the general manifestations of a cautious

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Simple and frequent, often do not know how to express it.

1. Sensitive, suspicious and grudgeful.

Such a person may be psychologically dark, think about everything very badly, think about the worst, a little wrong, unsatisfactory, immediately associate all kinds of bad possibilities, and then take their suspicions as evidence, and their suspicions as facts.

2. You can't suffer a loss.

There is a good saying, two people live a life, you can't encounter anything to understand, to get to the end, it's rare to be confused and forgetful, after all, there are too many unsatisfactory things, you have to get by, it's almost enough.

But a cautious man is always good at calculating, and he can't hide anything in his heart, no matter what he encounters, he must understand it, even when he sleeps, he holds back and endures. It seems that if I don't ask you for an explanation, I can't swallow the breath I hold on.

3. His subjective consciousness is too strong.

What does it feel like? There is no empathy, too good at misunderstanding people, and still immersed in their own world and unable to extricate themselves, no matter what happens, their own understanding prevails. It's like if you say something and it doesn't mean that, he thinks it means it and doesn't listen to your explanation.

Therefore, in some trivial matters, a cautious man is very good at misunderstanding people, and what words will immediately turn bad in his ears.

You say you're too busy, but he can hear it as an accusation; When you take the initiative to leave him food, he counts you down and asks him to eat leftovers; When he didn't keep food, he felt that he was redundant in this house.

4. Lack of responsibility and no energy.

When he encounters a little something, he feels that the sky is falling, he just feels that it is over, he doesn't know what to do, he can't accept a little loss and setback, and his mentality is very easy**. If you don't have anything in your heart, you can't do it naturally, it's no big deal, just have the courage to take it.

Especially in the face of life's changes, setbacks and difficulties, the whole person is disheartened, and if you experience a failure, you may never recover.

Very good at magnifying, obviously a little thing, after he said it became a big thing.

1) I care a lot about what other people think.

Cautious people have two characteristics: one is vindictive and obsessed with hatred, and the other is sensitive, will magnify some small things, and is easy to think cranky.

In fact, the essence behind it is still unconfident and excessive narcissism (the two are not contradictory), so a cautious person often cares very much about what others think of him, and even deliberately tests other people's opinions.

If a person is overly concerned about the opinions of others, his or her psychology must be unhealthy.

2) Easy to be jealous.

Jealousy and cautious eyes complement each other: because their hearts are not broad, they are easy to be jealous of others, and jealousy can provide motivation for "doing things".

And jealous people are actually easy to find, although they will not admit that they are jealous of others, but there will be many manifestations in daily life:

For example, they are not good at others, like to slander excellent people, slander their achievements, and even malicious competition that will harm others and themselves.

3) Likes to stir up right and wrong.

Cautious people are often good at juggling right and wrong, and it can even be said that they like to provoke right and wrong and like to see "chaos".

This is *** brought about by the careful-eyed personality, and it is difficult to change. If you look closely at the cautious people around you, you will find that what they like most is to fan the flames and sow discord.

So, if a person meets these characteristics, even if they don't show the characteristics of a cautious eye, you have to be vigilant.