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It seems that he really loves you, it doesn't matter where you live, as long as you live with the person you love, you can cultivate happiness!
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He left home, do you know how he felt in his heart? If you love him, why embarrass him, just be happy together, the house is so heavy, you can live in it.
Hope your problem will be solved.
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His financial ability is limited, and your family situation is not particularly good, as the saying goes, a lame donkey and a broken mill don't want anyone, accommodate each other a little, so that everyone is good, if you have to, there will be unpredictable results.
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I think this man is not mature enough, but he loves you enough, a true love is not easy to come by, but many times it will change because of the reality of the situation, fish must live in water, water is not enough to live as difficult as fish, the reason is the same.
I had the same situation as you, and she chose her own home, but also for my future, she gave up this love, but I understand her and understand why she did it, it's not that I don't love her anymore, but I think it's difficult for two people to maintain if there is no easy love, and with a "1" of the home, everything can continue to be added, otherwise it will all be "0".
Girl, if he really loves you, you have to ask him if he has considered the difference between falling in love and getting married.
Falling in love can be a simple life, but getting married takes a lifetime of time and effort to run our family. Think about it, let him think about it, and if you want to work hard, you have to rely on yourself
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Marriage is not only about love, Miss, please realize the problems you will encounter after getting married, people's lives are constantly solving problems. You are like this now, the two families are stiff, and it is usually good to say, what should you do if you celebrate the New Year's holidays? First persuade your boyfriend to go home and adjust the current family conflict.
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Shouldn't. When we first got together, I thought about sticking together every day, and as I spent more and more time together, I would find myself very confused and overwhelmed. At the beginning of the year, I went back to my hometown and met my current boyfriend, so I decided to stay in my hometown to work.
After two months of looking for a job, I still wanted to go back home, but then because of an accident at my boyfriend's house, in order to make him not work hard, I decided to stay.
Life here revolves around him, he likes to play games, and I don't like it, I also thought about trying, at the beginning we will keep a little space for both sides, he plays games and I watch TV at home in a daze, but every day only I have a melancholy feeling at home, you want the other party to accompany you, and then he also reduced the game time to accompany me.
I was very upset in my heart, but I wanted him to accompany me, I quit my first job in my hometown, at that time I said, I want to go back to the city where I know my friends, he disagreed, and the second job resigned for other reasons, and now I am unemployed at home, always urging me to work from time to time, don't I want to, I always can't help but cry when I sleep and take a bath.
In the end, I quarreled because I wanted him to accompany me, and then he got impatient, and complained to his friends about my annoyance, saying why can't I find some hobbies of my own? At that time, I was actually very sad to hear him like this, all my hobbies and all my friends were gone at the moment I was with you.
I also know that I know that I can't go back to my life, but I am not reconciled to the present, if I can turn back time, I will choose to return to a place I am familiar with, not to fall in love is because two people are happy together, if two people are together is painful, it is better to be a single dog.
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I shouldn't leave home for my boyfriend, because my boyfriend can be found, and there are only two parents, and I won't give up my family because of my boyfriend.
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If you think you can have a better development with him, it is okay to leave home, but if you are a child and abandon your family in order to be with your boyfriend, it is absolutely not allowed.
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Yes, you shouldn't stay with your parents all your life, you have to learn to grow up, and if your boyfriend is someone you feel you can trust for life, then you can leave home for him.
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No, the boyfriend is not a husband yet, even if it is a husband, it may not be reliable, let alone a boyfriend, in comparison, parents are much more reliable than boyfriends.
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Of course not, home is your eternal harbor, and you will break your parents' hearts by doing this. If you have a dispute with your parents about this, you should have a good conversation.
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No, don't be stupid girl, when you reach a certain age, you will find that the best people in this world are your parents.
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No, your parents raised you since you were a child, and you have suffered a lot along the way, and you leave home because of your boyfriend, they will be very sad, you can talk to your parents well, let your parents accept your boyfriend.
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I don't think so, because home is the most important thing for me, and if you don't have parents, you won't have yourself at all, so don't leave home for your boyfriend.
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No, family affection is the most important emotion in the world, and you can't leave home because of a momentary impulse, unless you have to leave home when you get married in the future.
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To sum up: your boyfriend loves you more, his mom hates you, and his dad is a little more neutral and slightly biased towards his mom.
All things considered, you don't have any advantages, and your boyfriend's love can't match the affection of his parents. Unless his mother has the possibility of changing her attitude towards you, if you don't have the confidence to change her mother's attitude towards you. The only thing you can do is to break up while you're young and find a man whose mother doesn't hate you.
This is a sensible approach, because the longer it drags on, the worse it will be for you, and generally speaking, few men will turn against each other because of their girlfriends and family, which is rare. So when you drag on for a few years, you have to be forced to leave, you can't get a penny, you are old, think about you at that time, I think you should have a decision now. People, be sensible, don't do things that you know you can't do, miracles are called miracles because they rarely appear
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Don't be afraid, be hard, because you always have to face that she doesn't like you now, it doesn't mean that she will never like you, so you have to be brave, care about her with a normal heart, in short, it's just like usual It's useless for you to hide from her, you always have to face it, you avoid her, she won't like you all of a sudden, right? So it's up to you, there's no need to be afraid, and it's not that you are going to die, you should treat yourself when you see her, and that's okay with your mother
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There is no good way, you can only wait, as long as you love him, you will stick to what you believe.
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Divide it. It's painful to go on like this.
For you who have just started to fall in love, this blow is not small, so you must be psychologically uncomfortable now, and you want to find a place where no one is alone to cry, but you will still miss her, you now have two ways to alleviate the current uncomfortable psychology, one, completely forget her, go to another woman, devote yourself to loving another person, two, look at her with peace of mind and don't get married, but you don't want to torture her with another man in terms of sex, so that you will be more uncomfortable, as soon as she gets married, It's that she's sorry for you, you will slowly forget her with the passage of time, that's all there is to say, I hope you can get out of the uncomfortable psychology as soon as possible, I wish you happiness!
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