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Anonymous users2024-02-12In today's society, the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships is very important, and we say that emotional intelligence should be more important than IQ to a certain extent. Some people feel like icebergs, but in fact, those who look like icebergs, I think they should also want to be able to socialize better. So what should people who are prone to give people a sense of distance do to submit social skills, let's talk about it briefly.
Appearance
In fact, sometimes there are some people who are judged by their appearance, such as everyone wears casual clothes to a party, and you are dressed in a straight suit and tie, and you stand there cool and make people feel difficult to approach at first glance. And we generally think that it is difficult to approach even a particularly beautiful woman. It's not your fault that you're pretty, but you can spruce it up a bit.
For example, the kind of eyebrows that are raised up look colder. Bend down a little bit to make it look a little softer. Start with your clothes and makeup to better blend in with the crowd.
Take the initiative to chat with others
In fact, many people have some social barriers, and I feel that many strangers will also be a little self-isolated, and I don't know what to say, but I have a good chat with very familiar friends. If it is easy to give people a sense of distance, you can also break this sense of distance and take the initiative to communicate with others, for example, ask about something, have a beginning, and it will be easier for the subsequent communication to progress.
Respond with a smile
We often try to talk to some people to see how the other party reacts, and if the other party answers coldly, we may not want to communicate with her anymore. If you want to make yourself look like you don't have a sense of distance, for example, when you ask someone a question, be sure to smile and respond enthusiastically. In addition, you can also ask a rhetorical question, so that you will not be speechless for a while, which is very embarrassing.
Therefore, if you want to make yourself look more friendly, you must start from the heart, be willing to communicate with the people around you, and be willing to answer other people's questions. Or take the initiative to break the sense of distance between each other, so that the social skills will become stronger and stronger.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Some people are more withdrawn, the life circle is very simple, there are not many close friends, and people are part of society, no one can completely get out of social interaction, whether it is daily life or work, all need to go through the channel of socialization, and some people do not know how to reduce the sense of social distance they give to others.
Communication and communication are ways to reduce the sense of distanceUsually you can talk more about family life and life with some friends, although these things are inconspicuous, but you can make others feel that you value him, which is an important step to make friends with your heart, increase personal affinity, develop strengths and avoid weaknesses, and let others understand your inner world.
Interpersonal communication is one of the normal things that each of us needs in our social life. According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, each of us must have the need for love and belonging, as well as the need for respect, these needs are the psychological basis of interpersonal communication, without normal interpersonal communication, we always inadvertently put our own problems into infinity, when we make mistakes or make a fool of ourselves, we always think that people will notice, but in fact, this is not the case, maybe we will notice it at the time but we will forget it immediately afterwards. No one pays attention to themselves as much as you do. >>>More
I feel very uncomfortable, after all, there is a social barrier, which to a certain extent means that you are not very good at dealing with people, then this means that it is not easy to make friends, which is a little lonely, and there is not very good at talking, many times I don't know how to offend some people.
Take a good rest and think about what you want!
I feel that I have a communication barrier, I think you can participate in more group activities, and then slowly let go of yourself, let yourself dare to speak, you have to change, or you will suffer a lot in the future professional career.
We all know that it takes a process to move from school to society, so what you have to do is to change your mentality and do your best. No matter what you do, you have to stick to it, just start, what will not be normal, seize the time to learn, to accumulate, to enrich yourself. Talk to your colleagues. >>>More