Am I being self inflicted? Help me analyze whether he likes me or not

Updated on psychology 2024-07-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think girls sometimes don't do things well.

    In fact, boys are the most stupid in terms of understanding love, if you don't say it, then he won't know that you like him at all, and it's like a group of people to you, because boys analyze problems logically, while girls analyze problems more emotionally, so many things are based on their own emotional understanding.

    I'm a boy, and there was a girl in our class who liked me, and I didn't know it at first, but she was different from other girls in that she liked to copy my homework (every homework) and I thought she might want me to pay attention to her, or to say more (show me your homework), and I didn't know at the time that she liked me (I was stupid) and treated her like a class, until later at a class reunion (I didn't attend) she told a good friend of mine how she felt, Later, my friend told me about it, but because it was a long time (she had a crush on me for a long time, I didn't know), I now have other girls in my heart.

    So I'm like saying, if a girl likes a certain boy, don't be embarrassed, go and tell him, otherwise it's too late, and he may already be interested in other girls.

    Because I'm a boy, I understand boys.

    Let me tell you a secret.

    Boys are actually very easy to chase.

    As long as you are the kind of person who is more introverted, gentle, virtuous, quiet, simple, of course, good looking, and a little more active (boys like this), then you are successful 90, and boys are actually better at "talking".

    Finally, there is a trick just for your reference, I think you can be in a place where there is little or no one else, but you have to have him, you write everything you are going to say to him on the letter paper and fold the letter into a heart shape, go up to him and grab his hand and stuff the letter into his hand (hurry up and leave), I think he should understand the general meaning of this before he reads it, so that he can keep the letter (not let others do it), I think after he reads the letter, you should be able to have the answer.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In the chaotic era of high school, it is indeed a luxury to spend time thinking about ethereal love with a heart that is not very mature enough! But it's not that it's not normal to think about it, people are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless!

    Now that things have happened, then we can only face them calmly and analyze specific things in detail! And I can only make a superficial analysis of your problem based on your question supplement, in fact, it is more about you to grasp it well, because only you are the one in the game!

    If you meet him in the hallway and he doesn't look at you, it means that it is unlikely that he likes you, and in my mind, no matter how introverted a boy is, he will cast a favorable eye on the person he likes!

    He looks at you in the long jump, maybe it's just because he's curious about your long jump skills!

    He took the initiative to sit next to you during the event, and I think it's normal!

    Of course, my analysis can't rule out that he really likes you!

    In fact, every young man and woman has a different degree of psychological sensitivity to love, some people are more emotionally dull and have a purer heart; Some people mature early, are more sensitive to feelings, and have many more thoughts in their hearts than ordinary people!

    Once again, everything I said does not exclude that he really likes you!

    At present, your first task is to do a good job in your studies, and if you feel unworthy of him, then use your literary talent to conquer your sweetheart!

    When you're famous, I don't believe he'll be able to live up to his heart! As long as it's a guy, as long as he likes you, one day, he will confess to you! You are a girl, you should take out your due reserve and wait silently!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It takes courage to like, and if you can take responsibility for what you have done now, you might as well give him some hints to let him know that you like him, and if you don't try, isn't it more or less unfair to say that you are being amorous? It doesn't matter if he likes you or not, you only know after you try it, right, if he doesn't like you, it can only mean that your fate is over, don't worry, because the most important thing for you now is to learn. Also, he likes to read, and you can read more than him, so you will have a lot of common language!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm a girl and my experience is:

    Whether the other party's eyes pay attention to themselves or not is actually the courage to take the first step. But. Don't look at you as if he is paying attention to himself and then likes himself a little bit.

    Actually, it's okay for girls to take the initiative. I'm talking about the more shy type of initiative. But that's what you say.

    I think you have a chance. First of all, you can also respond to his eyes. For example, you can smile when he sometimes looks at you.

    It's effective. You smile at him. What if he's not interesting to you.

    I won't dare to look at you again next time. If so. Maybe a smile of yours can exchange his initiative back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have to trust your instincts, think about why he always looks at you, hehe, I'm embarrassed to say, I see those boys who make me feel like the eye have to look at them a few more times, let alone men, come on, by the way, when you see him looking at you, don't leave your eyes, keep looking at him, he understands, since you don't like to take the initiative, he understands that you mean and may take the initiative to find you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He should have a good impression of you, only a good feeling, not much of a liking. If you like him, you should try to take your steps and turn his affection for you into liking.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    High school student? Want this? It's not a big reason, you should focus on your studies now, and it's too late to graduate from high school and be admitted to college.

    Let's see how you feel about him. Loving someone is meant to be lived, not to be put in the heart. Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness.

    However, the distinction between primary and secondary is clear. Study hard.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't think too much, little sister, study hard, this is not something you can think about and do at your age and experience, let it develop naturally!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Child, I liked him and said to him, why do you want to do so much, don't say that I didn't remind you when you regret it.

    Love is something you have to earn!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Confession It's not easy to like someone, even if he doesn't like you, you asked, don't you understand in your heart? It's so uncomfortable for my sister to move forward boldly (I'm the same as you) and be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Typical appearance of a cool guy

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's take the initiative and give it a try.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Good. Good.

    Learn. Practice. Sky. Sky.

    Toward. Above.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can only say that she thinks you are a friend who can be friends, but unfortunately she can't give you love, so I really hope you can find your own happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She doesn't want to lose you as a friend, but she can't give you love, only friendship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The problem is still obvious, I just don't like you. No matter whether she is married for the second time or what, people should be realistic, first of all, if the eyes do not match, there is no premise for being together. And economic conditions are also an aspect that others may focus on, so when the other party has already expressed it clearly, it is better not to be so overturned.

    If you feel like you can't be a friend, stay away.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Feelings are not forced, you really need to start over.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's start with the answer, 1He doesn't hate you.

    2.Junior high school is not very sensible and does not understand thoroughly.

    3.He likes you but he doesn't love you.

    True love consists of two parts: the feeling of love and the feeling of companionship. And then let's talk about it little by little.

    Love is so complex and mysterious, you let me summarize it in one sentence is absolutely impossible, and even how many words I write may not be able to explain its mystery, I just write my own method, the method can be brief, but it also needs to be rigorous. First of all, we should say why we should pursue true love. Give the answer first:

    The pursuit of true love is what makes us happier. Well, don't you feel cheated. In fact, I don't think it's necessary to mention this question at all, just like everyone is living in pursuit of the best of life according to their own opinions.

    The pursuit of love in many of us can make us happier, as for what happiness is for each individual, maybe ever-changing, some people pursue love, gain understanding, some people chase a beauty, get vanity, some people chase a girl who can take care of people, get a good virtuous help. Wait a minute. As for what you say I think, I would say that love is capable of real spiritual growth.

    True spiritual growth is what makes me feel the happiest. Then we're going to get to the bottom of a few key concepts. What is good feeling, what is appreciation, what is liking, what is love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe it's because you've been intimate with other guys and you've started to really hate you. After all, you've been chasing him before, and suddenly you're on good terms with another guy, and most people will think you're empathetic (and maybe some people think you're shameless). I guess, my psychology teacher once said:

    Boys in junior high school are in the process of puberty, and they may sometimes have a crush on some girls and want to get close to her. But I can't express it, so I can only treat her in some extreme ways. "After junior high school, boys are psychologically mature and know what they need.

    Answer: 1I didn't hate you in junior high school, and high school just started.

    2.It's not fake, it's that you didn't know what love was at that time.

    3.There is no misunderstanding, it's just that his behavior confuses you.

    4.Liked, but not loved.

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