What should I do? I m so confused right now, I really don t know how to deal with interpersonal rela

Heh....First improve your ability and value choice, and then establish a realistic goal, step by step to strive for it, don't be afraid of failure on the road, only failure can be successful. Be confident, be uplifted, want to live a good life, look up now....What are you afraid of and you won't die There are more people who suffer more than us But they don't complain Every day someone dies for a purpose Life is a temporary gift It's up to us to decorate him....Right, we don't complain about anything, it's better to ask for others than to ask for ourselves, what can you do if you are decadent and make people look down on you? What are you afraid of?

The idea is very good, you are at the crossroads of life now, you must choose a 'path' that suits you, and the most important thing is to choose a suitable 'path' for yourself.

Life is originally bumpy and changeable, there is no need to envy others, and there are many people who are far from you, so take a deep breath and relax, sometimes you are not the only one who is lonely and painful, you must believe and constantly encourage yourself to cheer yourself up, because only you can help yourself. Think about it, if you don't even believe in yourself; You still look down on yourself, so how can you let others believe and recognize you? Therefore, only by desperately overcoming the ups and downs, it is good to have a never-say-die mentality and an undieable mentality to encourage yourself to face everything.

Okay, don't talk nonsense, think about it yourself, and where to go; Give yourself a standard answer, which is to take a good life path, friends; Hope it goes well; Good luck!

Do everything with a purpose, don't be aimless!

The ability to live in the world and work in the individual is not directly proportional!

Only by highlighting your strengths can you get the affirmation of others!

If you can do everything, why can't you do it to the same extent as everyone else? Think about why! Only by finding the root of the matter can it be solved, the problem is yours, and the bell needs to be tied to the bell!

Remember, once you succeed, don't be proud;

Everything is difficult at the beginning, don't be discouraged;

Do what you can!

In fact, most people will be confused at some stage of their lives, because you have too much uncertainty and too much uncertainty about yourself and society. Therefore, people will have a sense of fear in their hearts, and they will not know what to do. This is all normal, but the problem is that you don't think of difficulties as too complicated and scary.

Because it's completely unnecessary, everyone wants to have smooth sailing. But in fact, there are a few people who have smooth sailing, no matter the greatest and most ordinary person in the world, he will experience many twists and turns in his life. More or less, this is what you have to experience in life, and it is also necessary for you to grow and mature.

So don't be afraid, and don't run away.

Always be optimistic, confident and positive. Study more and read more books. Work harder and communicate with others.

Good luck!

Dude, you can see how many people like you ask such boring questions. But first, according to the herd mentality of the Chinese people, you don't have to worry, so many people will be your companions; Second, you should know that it is useless to ask, and such things can only be solved by yourself in a down-to-earth manner. If the question is asked and others answer it, do you have a goal and not be confused?

For this kind of thing, there is only one way, that is, to stop being in a daze, stop being confused, stop being compassionate, stop feeling sorry for others, raise your feet, get out of the house, integrate into the outside world, and solve it practically. You know?

You lack a goal, and a big success is the result of many small goals being achieved.

Whatever you do first, there's always something to gain.

I'm even more annoyed and don't want to live.

1. Know where you are. The so-called seeking government in their position means that professionals should recognize their own position and do their own work well. In order to better get along with others and connect with work matters, it is also the first step in dealing with relationships.

2. Good at communication. There may be people who feel that they are introverted and unwilling to communicate with others, and it is okay to do their own thing. In fact, there is no job in this world that does not communicate with others, and may not communicate for the time being, but we must also have the courage to break the communication barriers, and a good communication method can eliminate misunderstandings and contradictions between people, which is conducive to the advancement of work.

3. Learn to praise others. Everyone is happy to hear others praise themselves, so as a member of the workplace, you must also learn to praise others. But be sure to praise from the heart, hypocrisy will only make others feel your insincerity, a kind compliment, may make you energetic at a day's work.

4. Be grateful. No matter what it is, you should be grateful when someone helps you. Gratitude to others and the sense of accomplishment brought by work can make you work harder in the workplace, make progress, and win the respect and support of others.

5. Be helpful, but also refuse appropriately. While it's good to be helpful, it's also important to learn to say no to others. If you can't help someone else, it's better to say no than to promise someone but not be able to do it.

Get along with others in a friendly way, but also on the facts, not to be untrustworthy, sincere can win the favor of others.

6. Be humane to things and people. It is inevitable that there will be some contradictions and misunderstandings in the workplace, and sometimes a quarrel cannot be avoided, which is normal. On the contrary, it just shows that a person is serious about his work, but he is not right about people, which is the key to dealing with interpersonal relationships.

As long as the problem is solved, it does not affect the relationship between people, so being a human person is also an attitude.

Interpersonal relationships are a mess, change the way you speak, lower your posture, hold an attitude of learning with an open mind, and even if there are some aspects of your work, you can humbly ask others for advice. Then you'll find that people will think differently about you. Because everyone tends to focus on the vulnerable."

The first step in building a good interpersonal relationship is to smile and greet colleagues in your workplace. At the same time, we should try to cooperate with each other when working, do not artificially build various barriers, and also carry out some beneficial private interactions.

Respect and adapt to the organizational environment, such as leadership style, company culture, management philosophy, etc. Each organization has its distinctive personality characteristics, in the long-term run-in process gradually formed a stable style, is the role of many employees personality convergence, on behalf of the personality characteristics of most employees, some are based on the personality characteristics of the leader, can be called the personality of the organization, so if you want to get the recognition of leaders and colleagues, you must first figure out the style of the organization, and constantly adjust your temperament and habits according to the style of the organization, adapt to it, slowly integrate into it, and find a harmonious feeling. Otherwise, if you have always been bossy and insistent on yourself, it will generally be difficult to integrate into the organization and be recognized, so you will not be able to cooperate well with colleagues, get more job opportunities, and establish good interpersonal relationships.

Therefore, it is very important to recognize and identify with the personality of the organization.

In short, you should be kind to others, take the initiative in your work, communicate with others and speak softly, and help others to help others, so that it is convenient for you to be with others and yourself, and after a long time, your interpersonal relationship will be good.

To learn to respect others, mutual respect, two people will be willing to make friends with each other, to be honest, not to deceive friends, to be loyal to friends, no one wants the person around them to be a **. Don't harm others and benefit yourself, people have a certain degree of interest relationship directly with each other, and if you want to handle interpersonal relationships well, you can't do that kind of thing that harms others and benefits yourself. Do this, and your relationships will get better and better.

I think you can be a little more enthusiastic at work, and you can take the initiative to lend a helping hand when your colleagues need help.

If you want to do a good job in interpersonal relationships, I think the most important thing is to treat people with sincerity, only if you are sincere to others, others will be sincere to you, so when you think you have difficulties at the same time, you can be proactive.

To be able to do a good job in interpersonal relationships at work, the first and most important thing is to take your work seriously and be able to complete your tasks well. When you have the ability, you can also help others, do your own things as much as you can, do not ask for returns, and do not worry about your colleagues, you will gain a good colleague relationship.

Your specific situation is not clear, first of all, we must look at the problem, which aspect, is to speak, or to be a person, and then to take targeted measures or methods for the problem to improve, in short, to respect each other, understand each other, communicate with each other, this is the key.

To do a good job of their work, the best way to communicate with each other is to exchange courtesies, there are far and near, for those who are helpful to their careers, they must be more popular, and for those who always destroy their own things, they must stay away.

You just need to participate in more group activities among colleagues to strengthen your relationship.

When the company organizes a group event, you must participate, and you can also organize a party of colleagues in the company yourself.

During the holidays, you can also travel with everyone. Try to help others as much as possible at work.

Just by doing this, you can make your relationship very good.

Relationships are very important at work. Be sure to have a good relationship with your colleagues. Leadership relationships.

Building good interpersonal relationships is very important for your work and development. First of all, we must treat people with integrity. Speak kindly.

Secondly, you can help others as much as possible.

If you want to do a good job in interpersonal relationships in your own work, first of all, you must learn to be humble to make people progress, pride to make people backward, to be approachable, when others are in need, take the initiative to help others, but also take the initiative to greet others, in this way, others think you are a good person, will naturally be willing to make friends with you.

To do a good job in interpersonal relationships at work, first of all, you must be diligent in your work and do your job well, secondly, when others have difficulties and need help, you must actively help others, and thirdly, don't say bad things about others behind your back, if you treat others sincerely, others will naturally be sincere to you.

If you want to do a good job in your own interpersonal relationships at work, the first thing is to take the initiative to praise others. Make others feel that you are respecting him, not belittling him, so that your relationships will be very easy to get along.

If you are in daily life, at work, your emergency relationship is a mess, then it means that your emotional intelligence is not very high, at this time you must let yourself in the process of getting along with people in daily life, talk less, do more, only in this way can you not offend people, get along with people, to be sincere, to consider the problem from the other party's point of view.

If you want to do a good job in your interpersonal relationships at work, you must first be gregarious, try to get along with your colleagues, and not be too independent, so that everyone will not alienate you.

Interpersonal relationships at work are to try to talk less and do more, others are kind to you, you should also treat each other gently, try not to offend people, maybe the relationship is not so good, at least others will not ignore you, will not exclude you, can help others as much as possible, let others owe you favors, so that the relationship can be better.

I feel like I'm a bit like you.

Let's learn more about how others socialize.

Character determines everything, I hate myself a little negatively, the ruler is long, and the inch is short. Don't lose sight of your most precious self.

Dealing with people is not like each of us writing and reading in school, but from childhood to adulthood, we have been learning how to behave and how to grow into adults.

Regarding the toast on the wine table, you don't have to worry too much about this, no matter who you eat with, I don't think you should be too restrained, if you are very restrained, others will also feel unnatural and uncomfortable, just eat and drink, and it is not good to make everyone nervous. Just say what you can and don't be too pretentious. If you really don't know what to say, then listen carefully to what everyone has to say, and then you can have a topic to talk about.

In fact, society is a good university, you will meet all kinds of people, and you will also learn how to deal with people. Even if you don't do it, you will see a lot, and you will naturally learn how to behave with your ears. It's the same for everyone, you don't have to be afraid of other people's eyes and words, and you don't have to feel shy.

When you don't understand, listen to others, and you will learn quickly.

If you've learned a little bit of experience in society, you don't have to stay at home, because that's just going downhill. It will be better to learn more in society, you will be more mature and sensible, and you will naturally speak. How to speak and behave is not something that can be taught to you in a piece of text, and when you mix for a longer time in the future, you will find that you have more and more advantages in yourself Come on, little brother

First of all, be generous, you may be shy because you think too much, in fact, it is just a psychological factor, your thoughts are not other people's opinions, the main factor that causes these problems is because you are not confident enough, you need to give yourself psychological hints, feel that you can do well, even if you can't, you can learn, no one is born perfect, solving the psychological burden is the main thing....Come on....