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Anonymous users2024-02-13Strive for it, of course!! Nostalgia is a virtue, but new things are the goal of human development! Nothing in the world is exactly the same, which means that every second of life is different, and people are welcoming new beginnings every minute and every second!
If we are looking back at the past, then people's minds are bound, and life is not meaningful! Look ahead, let the past pass!
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Anonymous users2024-02-12It depends on which one you care more about, and which one you think is more worthy of love. If the previous one is worthy of your love, don't forget it since you can't forget it, and start anew. If it's not worthy of your love, give it up early.
Otherwise, the injury will be deeper. Now this, what do you think about you? Slowly, there will be feelings, forget the previous one, and the current one, maybe it will be better.
An old relationship needs to be replaced by a new one. Think about it carefully, don't let yourself regret it, cherish it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11What's right for you is the best choice. Giving up is not an option, but a method. What you get doesn't necessarily mean you can have it. Put it if you can.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Ask yourself about it, see if you like that one a little more, or if you compare that one to the type you like; Or maybe it's better for you to compare the next one! Then you know for yourself which one you are going to choose!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I don't know, because I can't say what I love.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Love is a two-way choice, since it is a two-way choice, then after the breakup, you can find a new object immediately, indicating that the person itself is in control, so there is no so-called new person to forget the old person Only the so-called difference between willing to fall in love and unwilling to fall in love.
The so-called use of new people to forget the old people is actually self-deception
Feelings are a process that takes a long time to cultivate. At the same time, forgetting a person is also a process that takes a long time to fade.
Using a new love to forget the old love, to put it bluntly, is a way to divert attention, replacing the longing for the old love for the freshness of the new love. But that doesn't alleviate my pain.
Maybe a momentary freshness can allow you to relieve the temporary pain, but as long as there is anything bad about the new love, you will compare him with your ex, completely deny all of him, and gradually fall into infinite thoughts.
So this method of using the new to forget the old is a lie. It's like something you liked at first sight, and no matter how good it is given to you later, it can't replace the former.
I think if the new person can help you get through the pain of the past, and you happen to have a crush on the new person, then this kind of time is not considered to be used, but to face it together. Like, it's sad that you didn't get into the exam, but suddenly you get the opportunity to study abroad, you will still be happy. So we're not really afraid of losing, but we're afraid that there's no better replacement.
As long as the new love is good enough and good enough, there is no old love that cannot be forgotten.
But if you just want to use the feelings of the new person to ease the sad period of your relationship failure, and try to forget the old one, you are really self-defeating, and you don't have to. The newcomer is innocent, and you treat the newcomer as a distracting chat partner and a substitute in the previous relationship, which is unfair to the other party and to yourself.
It's like you lost a baby dog that has been with you for many years, although a friend bought you a new one, but it is still not worth the old thoughts. Because some people have things that can never be replaced.
The best way is to replace the old love with a new one, which is the most realistic and possible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07I think this is also okay, when you have a new person around you, you will forget the old one, and it is easy to get out of the sad mood, which is very helpful for you to come out.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06I don't think this is the right thing to do, and it's irresponsible for your current partner to not be able to devote yourself to the relationship.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I think it's very normal, only by starting a new relationship can you forget the previous one that made you miserable.
Missing is a pain that breathes, it lives in all corners of the body! It hurts to hum a song of love, it hurts to read a message, and even silence hurts! Regret is also the pain of breathing, it is flowing back and forth in the blood! It hurts to regret not being intimate, it hurts to hate if you don't understand, and it hurts to see you if you can't see it! >>>More
I'll talk about my opinion from a boy's point of view, if the reason why a boy breaks up with you is because he can't forget his ex, I think it's a bit bloody, if you can't forget your ex, why do you want to start and start a new relationship, but when you enter a new relationship, you still can't forget your ex, and you break up for reasons that you can't forget your ex, which has to make the girl hurt so emotionally, it's already clear that the boy can't forget the ex's breakup with you, if I were that girl I would reply like this, I wish you and your ex well, happy and sweet with each other, just forget me, forget the memories and stories we used to be together, forget my love for you, we will not interfere with each other from now on, you and I are passers-by. That's how I came. >>>More
Keep your distance and be friends at most. If you really like her and care about her, as a friend, care a lot about greetings and companionship, and when she feels your warmth, maybe she will slowly let go.
It's a burden to keep a love that belongs to you.
It's also a burden. >>>More
You can see that she doesn't love you enough now.
You have to see her contradictions ... >>>More