In the relationship, some people will choose to use the new person to forget the old one, what do yo

Love is a two-way choice, since it is a two-way choice, then after the breakup, you can find a new object immediately, indicating that the person itself is in control, so there is no so-called new person to forget the old person Only the so-called difference between willing to fall in love and unwilling to fall in love.

The so-called use of new people to forget the old people is actually self-deception

Feelings are a process that takes a long time to cultivate. At the same time, forgetting a person is also a process that takes a long time to fade.

Using a new love to forget the old love, to put it bluntly, is a way to divert attention, replacing the longing for the old love for the freshness of the new love. But that doesn't alleviate my pain.

Maybe a momentary freshness can allow you to relieve the temporary pain, but as long as there is anything bad about the new love, you will compare him with your ex, completely deny all of him, and gradually fall into infinite thoughts.

So this method of using the new to forget the old is a lie. It's like something you liked at first sight, and no matter how good it is given to you later, it can't replace the former.

I think if the new person can help you get through the pain of the past, and you happen to have a crush on the new person, then this kind of time is not considered to be used, but to face it together. Like, it's sad that you didn't get into the exam, but suddenly you get the opportunity to study abroad, you will still be happy. So we're not really afraid of losing, but we're afraid that there's no better replacement.

As long as the new love is good enough and good enough, there is no old love that cannot be forgotten.

But if you just want to use the feelings of the new person to ease the sad period of your relationship failure, and try to forget the old one, you are really self-defeating, and you don't have to. The newcomer is innocent, and you treat the newcomer as a distracting chat partner and a substitute in the previous relationship, which is unfair to the other party and to yourself.

It's like you lost a baby dog that has been with you for many years, although a friend bought you a new one, but it is still not worth the old thoughts. Because some people have things that can never be replaced.

The best way is to replace the old love with a new one, which is the most realistic and possible.

I think this is also okay, when you have a new person around you, you will forget the old one, and it is easy to get out of the sad mood, which is very helpful for you to come out.

I don't think this is the right thing to do, and it's irresponsible for your current partner to not be able to devote yourself to the relationship.

I think it's very normal, only by starting a new relationship can you forget the previous one that made you miserable.