It s better to be an idler or a busybody

There is no conclusive conclusion, I want to be busy when I am too busy, I want to be idle when I am busy, but in this society, you want to be idle After 60, the premise is that your children are worry-free.

Live subjectively for oneself and objectively for others

Some people live for love and care

Someone lives for me and not for someone else

There are people who live to make others happy with our offerings

Some people live to experience setbacks, success or failure, and they will experience it to the fullest

There are people who live to live for the sake of living

Life is objective

Again, it was short-lived

So we have to live, because there can be no second life, and we have to work hard to achieve life, and we have to learn to enjoy life

When we live, we die, and we live for a few decades, and it's too wasteful and too long to think about what kind of person we want to live for.

I graduated and stayed at home for a year to get married, and I felt very happy at that time

After getting married, I stayed at home for another year. I felt useless

In '08 I decided I was going to go out and look for a job. For the sake of the family, for the sake of the children

Recently, my grandson came to spend his summer vacation here, and I was busy every day.

Someone asked me, why are you so busy? It's all retired, it's time to relax.

In this regard, my feeling is that people should be busy, live every day to the fullest and full of hope, and for themselves and their families, busy, on the contrary, is the best way to live.

Because, during the work period, every day for the work of the unit and the hospital, you can't be busy. After retirement, I suddenly get idle from my busy life, I have nothing to do, I feel marginalized, and I will inevitably have a sense of loss and loss.

If you can find something to do for yourself, so that the wheels of the forest brigade that have been busy do not stop all at once, let yourself feel that there is still residual heat to play, and you can also make some contributions to the family, then at least your psychology will be balanced, your mind will be relaxed, and it will only be good for the life of the elderly, and there will be no bad years.

However, after all, age is not forgiving, while being busy, you should also pay attention to your body and do everything within your ability, which is the scientific attitude A.

When will I return, be an idler, a piano, a pot of wine, and a stream of clouds. "This is Su Shi's prayer in "Xing Xiangzi Shu Huai". Indeed, in the face of the complex world of busy traffic and warbler singing and dancing, the idle and elegant idler's life is more attractive.

Who doesn't want to walk horses leisurely after the sun is warm, enjoy the flowers, drink a pot of wine, invite three or two friends, and do not get drunk or sleep and do not return. But in fact, how many people can live idlers? , I still remember, a poem that became popular on the Internet:

I have a jug of wine, enough to soothe the dust. "The short one. The poem touched me deeply.

A pot of turbid wine, a pot of sake, a pot of spirits, and a pot of astringent wine are enough to soothe a dry heart that has gone through vicissitudes and is silent. Since he couldn't be born and jumped out of the red dust, he could only find a little comfort for himself. This is not a passive escapism, but a kind of neutralization and hail clearing.

It neutralizes the worldly dust and the fireworks of the world, and achieves "being in the world, there is leisure in the heart." This kind of leisure in the valley world is just like Li Shangyin's"Leave the remnants to listen to the sound of the rain, "find the beauty and joy of life in the mutilation and dilapidation." On a winter day when thousands of mountains are vast and birds are completely uninhabited, he fishes alone by the river.

Not for fishing, but for fishing, fishing - a lonely and peaceful heart. This is a person who is not only an official in the court, but also a person who is indifferent in the wilderness.

In fact, it is not difficult to be an idler, but it is difficult to have an idle heart and a fun.

Each of us has a job to do. And each of us has our own characteristics and abilities, so each of us has a different job.

Even if it's the same job, because some of us have better capabilities. Or for some other reason, we will also be in some different positions than others. As a result, some of them are busier and some are more leisurely.

For those who have a more leisurely job. Of course, some people are very fond of this kind of family affection, because the leisure time will make them not to do too much work. This will undoubtedly make their work easier and make them feel happier.

But there are some people who are completely idle. If they are given a more leisurely job, then they may take the initiative to ask the leader to find something to do. Leaders who have such requirements for employees are of course very fond of it.

Therefore, when an idle employee proposes to find something to do with the leader, the leader will definitely agree to his request to do it and give him some new work. This will allow him to do the work better. It can also be recognized by the leadership.

In fact, there are some people who work more leisurely. They don't take the initiative to ask the leader to find something to do, and they take the initiative to share the work with the leader. This will make it easier for leaders to work.

And for these idle people, if they can share the work of leading and eliminating the balance, they will not only be recognized by the leaders. More importantly, it speaks volumes about their capabilities. After a long time, it will not only make the leader like him more, but also give her some space and opportunities to improve herself.

So for those who are in the workplace and are too idle at work. They take the initiative to ask the leader to find something to do, which is of course very good, because the leader is of course very fond of those employees who take the initiative to ask for work.

But if we can take the initiative to share the work with the leader, then we can reduce the pressure on the leader. And when we can do the work of leadership, it is a full proof of our own ability. This will not only be recognized by the leadership, but more importantly, it will also make our future development in the workplace better.

When people are idle, they suddenly feel that they have nothing to do, their hearts are empty, and they don't know how to put their hands and feet in **.

To find the answer to this question, you have to think about what you were looking forward to when you were busy, and you will finish it in your free time.

What to do in your spare time, you should ask yourself what goals and desires are rotten if you have a clear idea. Or idle clouds and wild cranes to empty themselves, or three or five friends to drink, or work overtime to enrich their abilities.

What to do in your spare time, everyone is different, I want to answer the omission, as long as you can make the color of life more bright, do whatever you want.