The more lonely people grow up!! 15

I feel the same way when I'm alone.

When I was a child, I didn't have to think about anything, I didn't encounter any problems, and my parents could help me, but when I grew up, the things in my thoughts were my own and couldn't be shared, and when I didn't have anyone around to guide me, I would feel very lonely.

Take your time, make some friends, try to speak your mind, not to ask others to agree with you, but to explain to others that this is what I think, and you'll be better.

When I was a child, I lived a carefree life, and when I grew up, I should be running around for my career, developing for my own future and destiny.

Believe me, loneliness is only temporary, maybe a few years, when you grow up, you will meet a lot of people, good people, bad people, good friends, fake friends, these need to be separated by yourself.

Try to die, and if you find that you don't have the courage to die, you'll live well.

During the day, I entertained myself like a madman, and late at night, my heart was bleeding, and I thought it was good to be lonely during the day, and I felt so lonely at night

February 14th is always the day I dread going out the most.

November 11 will always have my piece of the sky.

Me too, as happy as I appear to be, in fact ...

Nobody understands me, distressed.

Hey, like me, no one really understands what I'm thinking

No friends, no worries

Alone

Growing up to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

I don't think so.

To be precise, the more people grow up, the more accustomed they are to suppressing their truest feelings in their hearts, no longer crying or laughing, and begin to learn to think calmly, and begin to grieve for the future, so you feel very confused, which may be called growth! Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, and getting it may not last long; Losing doesn't necessarily come again.

Now that you have grown up, you must let yourself learn to change, dare to face life, dare to take responsibility, so that the beautiful side of life will be to you, everyone's life is not smooth sailing, the key is to see if you cope. Give yourself confidence, communicate with friends more, and find someone to tell you about your troubles, in fact, people grow up in love, family, and friendship, and learn to manage themselves. Treat others with yourself!

Treat your friends with the behavior of yourself, so that you will not be distressed and empty, growing up itself is a painful and happy process, I sincerely wish your friends a happy growth!

When a person grows up, he has to face a lot of people and a lot of things, and a lot of pressure increases in his heart for no reason; Occasionally stop and think about it, it's good when you were a child, you don't have to think too much about being carefree all day long, and you have a lot of friends to play with you; But when I grew up, I began to miss my childhood, and I felt that our current world had become complicated, as if I had become lonely. In fact, try to get yourself out, don't be trapped in your own circle, everyone has their own friends around them, communicate with friends more, talk to each other, and occasionally go outside together to make your mood better, and everything is not good when you are in a good mood

As we experience more and more things, we will gradually close our hearts. When we are young, we may play carefree with a lot of friends, without thinking about who is what kind of person, when we grow up, we will be able to distinguish who is worth socializing, who should be far away, sometimes we even talk to our parents to pick and say, the closure of the heart will make us more and more lonely, the shrinking of the circle of friends will also make us have nowhere to tell, this is inevitable, don't recall the beauty of childhood too much, this society is like this, this is the pain of growing up.

When I grow up, I will think about a lot of complicated things and become realistic.

The gap between dreams and reality makes people more and more lonely.

Not necessarily, what matters is whether your own heart is truly open. When we were young, we were very simple, so it was easy to make friends, but as we grew older and came into contact with society, people's personalities would change, and it was normal for children to grow up and have disagreements. It is important to stick to your principles and meet new people without forgetting old ones.

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Years later, you came back to me.

Insecurity fills your tired eyes.

Look at me and tell me too.

Do you still believe in fairy tales?

You once said to me, Every heart is lonely.

Every heart is fragile and delicate and longs to be touched.

When your heart burns bravely.

Forever will not back down.

The older you get, the more lonely you get.

The older I get, the more uneasy I become.

I also had to watch the wings of my dreams be broken.

I also had to retract what I had said and ask myself.

Where are your innocent eyes?

The older you get, the more lonely you get.

The more they grow up, the more uneasy they become.

Nor filial piety is not to open your parachute behind you.

I suddenly understood that the road ahead was not smooth.

Could it be that this change is inevitable?

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You once said to me, Every heart is lonely.

Every heart is fragile and longs to be touched.

Look at me and tell me too.

Your heart is still burning.

Years later, you come back to me, insecure and full of your tired eyes Look at me and tell me if you still believe in fairy tales You once said to me Every heart is lonely, every heart is fragile and longs to be touched But your heart burns forever and will never back down The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and the more you grow up, the more uneasy you become. I also had to see the wings of my dreams broken, and I had to take back the words I had said and ask myself Where did your innocent eyes go? The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, the more uneasy you grow up and have to open the parachute that protects you, I also suddenly understood that the road ahead is not smooth Could it be that this change is inevitable Years later, you return to me, insecurity fills your tired eyes Look at me and tell me if you still believe in fairy tales You once told me that every heart is lonely, every heart is fragile and longs to be touched, But your heart will always burn and will never retreat The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, the more uneasy you grow up I also have to see the wings of my dreams being broken, and I have to take back the words I once said and ask myself Where are your innocent eyes The more you grow up, the more lonely you are, The more I grew up, the more uneasy I had to open the parachute to protect you, and suddenly I realized that the road ahead was not smooth Could it be that this change is inevitable You once said to me that every heart is lonely, every heart is fragile and longs to be touched Look at me and tell me, Your heart is still burning!