Experienced help me analyze the problem of parental quarrels!

Your mother and your father quarreled, first of all, because they married a husband who was not steely, and they felt wronged. Women are like this, although they don't have to change their too ordinary fate by marrying, at least they can't have a lot of troubles because of marrying, if this man doesn't have an advantage that makes him more proud, she will feel that she married the wrong person, very wronged. The second reason for the fight is because you "don't make steel", women are generally like this, if you don't marry a husband who makes you feel at ease, then your son can have a proud strength, and she will think that her life is worth it!

And you don't have this strength at the moment, she loves the child, so she can only get angry with her husband! As long as the husband is a little wrong, then he will think that his son is not successful because he does not have a good father and does not give his children a good environment. I think you're pretty direct, too, so I'm not so subtle in my speech, hehe.

Now the salary of less than 2,000 is indeed a bit low, you can make more friends who are practical and have ideas, this society, everything depends on your background and your strength. Study more, work harder, life can be more exciting, give yourself more opportunities while you are young. If you improve, your mother will be down-to-earth and balanced, and she will feel that she can't rely on her husband in this life, and she can't support her husband's blessings, but she can rely on her son to live a better life, and she has sustenance in her heart.

If a person has sustenance in her heart, she will not look for anger everywhere, she will no longer focus on finding fault with your father, and the relationship with your father will be eased.

Your mother thinks it's hard to live with your father, your dad doesn't work hard and doesn't fight, and he earns little money, so many years have been too hard, but your mother doesn't want to divorce your dad, so they quarreled, to be honest, women are all this problem, it's normal to fight, unless you have money, you won't quarrel anymore, let's be honest, how do you solve it in vain, you have money you see that they are still quarreling no, the poor family's family is also virtuous, my family is also virtuous, I don't care if you quarrel, It's better to be angry than to ignore yourself, you will be numb after a long time, I was 24 years old, they quarreled for 24 years, and there was no day of peace, they never cared about my feelings, I was used to it, so you feel it slowly, there is really no solution to this kind of problem except money can solve it.

Solve the problem from the root, don't you not make steel, then go to steelmaking, learn, and be motivated (of course, it is certainly not as comfortable as playing games), but there must be gains and losses, and there must be gains and losses, and there must be gains, you are learning, are they still embarrassed to make trouble? If it's still troublesome, it's your chance to get rid of them, but the attitude must be good, and the parents who are exposed to it...

You can let your parents try to understand each other, let your mother try to tolerate some of your father's small mistakes, try to communicate with each other, you can also try to take the initiative to enlighten them, and hope that your parents can solve the problem as soon as possible.

Don't play games if you're filial, people will have to face reality one day! Games are more important than parents

You can't solve the problems of your parents, because you can't live for them, but you can call them together for a meeting, say your opinions, it's their business to listen or not, you can also let them talk about their thoughts, dissatisfaction and other emotions in the process of chatting, maybe it's okay for everyone to say it.

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Hello dear! We'd love to answer for you. 1. If your parents are more emotionally intense, you can persuade the party who is more emotionally intense to let him or her say a few words and tell them that it is for you.

At the same time, if you know which side is wrong, you can reason with him or her, and then adjust it to them, be an intermediate lubricant, you must not lose your temper, because you are a junior after all, and you can't help one party to speak harshly about the other, it's better not to. In fact, it is normal for parents to quarrel sometimes, everyone has it, so you don't have to worry too much. 2. If they don't do this often, it proves that there should be no problem emotionally, as you are concerned, it is better to remain silent, and after two days, it will be fine.

3. If their cold war has not been eliminated, then, as the emotional bond of your parents, you can play an important role at this time, inquire about the reasons for their quarrel from the side, and then make some adjustments from it according to the actual situation. 4. When they quarrel, you say loudly: Don't quarrel, you always quarrel like this, I'm annoyed if you don't bother!

Have you ever thought about my feelings, why can't you say calmly, I want a warm and harmonious family, can't you do such a request? Or just slam the door so they'll understand that you don't like them arguing and that there's you, which is a very effective way to do it, but it's not the best way. 5. In fact, silence is my most recommended method.

Because no matter who you speak for, it is adding fuel to the fire, because they all think that they are right, as soon as you speak, the two are evenly matched, because of your joining, the balance will inevitably tilt, and the other party must feel more wronged, and it will be even more endless. So, you watch from the side, as long as your parents don't do anything, they quarrel with them, and when you're tired, it's fine. 6. You must understand that to be a child, you must grasp the boundaries of what a child should do.

Parental quarrels are the business of parents, and the affairs of the previous generation are solved by themselves! Of course, we are not psychologically comfortable when they quarrel, but there is no way, don't blame yourself for the reason for your parents' quarrels, so that you will be burdened with a lifetime of pressure, these things do not belong to us. Just tell them how we feel, and that's it.

If there is another quarrel, you can walk away. 7. If one of your parents tells you anything to the other party, you must politely decline! Don't stand among your parents and be the judge of the war between your parents, it will be counterproductive.

We can spend more time talking to our parents, we can also do more chores so that they have time to talk, and of course, we need to listen to their worries and let them know what the consequences are after the quarrel. Good luck with the problem