I can t live the life I want, and I don t know what to do

Sometimes after a woman wants to be stronger, others will not dig deep into your soft soil, strong is not difficult to get along with, but when you are not wrong, you don't have to wronged yourself, you have to say it, and you don't want to quarrel with the other party, you just need to express it, and how the other party wants to react is the other party's business, including in-laws and aunts, once a woman is soft, she will be looked down upon, not why just because you are an outsider, and an outsider who can't make them useful, of course, will be dissatisfied with you, No one will admit that they are wrong. At least he won't be very generous to admit that he is wrong, unless he needs your forgiveness, you are too soft now, so no one looks up to you (your mother-in-law's family), so you must tell yourself that you have to do what you want to do, the only thing you have to consider is only your son, you have to do what you want to do when your son is taken care of, as for the in-laws, aunts, and husbands Don't care about them at all, they want to be angry, want to stinky face, want to say ugly things, let them be, you just need to take care of your son, Many times later, people just see that you can't do without your son, and you look very soft Of course, they will want to bully you, not to mention your mother-in-law's family Seeing that your husband has become bad Of course, the fault is all on your head, they haven't thought about it, if your aunt is really good How can she get divorced, she should be very capable of taking care of her family, isn't it, of course, divorce is not necessarily a woman's fault, but even if she is a divorced woman, she should understand how helpless a woman is under marriage, and she doesn't understand why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman, So now the only one who can help you is yourself, if your aunt has a bad attitude towards you, you just need to reply to her lightly: You have also been someone's daughter-in-law Other people's wives, you should know best, a woman lives in the embarrassment of her in-law's house, isn't it?

Then don't pay attention to her, let yourself have the ability Be brave how you want to live your life, maybe, so that you can make your husband look at you differently, and make your aunt and in-laws dare not underestimate you.

Go out and find something to do by yourself, it's not a good choice to take the civil service exam now, being an office worker will have less troubles on this, how can life be so easy, although you have these troubles at home, but you are not short of money, and some people who are short of money, their pressure seems to be greater than you, every family has a difficult scripture, see how you think about it, you don't have so many troubles if you want to open it, Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult, if you don't dare to say your thoughts, your mother-in-law will think that she is right, She still thinks she's the head of the family, and she should command you, hehe.

Everyone wants to do what they want and live the life they want. But the front roll shroud reality does not allow it. In addition, the ideas of people at each stage of growth will be different with age and experience, and the life they want to live is also different.

For example, when you were a student, you wanted to get good grades, and you wanted your teachers and classmates to like you; After entering the society, you want to have a good job, you want your boss to appreciate you and reuse you, you can find a girlfriend if you want to find a sweetheart, and you want to have a house ...... when you get marriedYou can come what you want, you can have whatever you want, everyone wants such a day, but this.

Everything, everything.

In reality, you need to fight for it yourself. If you want to increase the probability of success, you must first improve your own quality and ability, so as to create good competitive conditions for yourself and gain a foothold in society. With this, it is the cornerstone of realizing your dreams, otherwise it will be empty talk.