All my husband s relatives have called him to divorce me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    First of all, this is a very sensitive and complex issue that you and your husband need to face together. Here are some suggestions:

    1.Communicate openly with your husband: First, you should communicate openly with your husband and understand his thoughts and feelings.

    Ask him why his relatives asked him to divorce you and what he thinks about the issue. Through communication, you can better understand each other's positions and ideas, which can provide a basis for next decision-making.

    2.Evaluate your marriage: You need to assess whether your marriage is healthy and if there is room for redemption.

    Consider whether there are communication problems, conflicts, disharmony, etc. between you. If you think your marriage can be saved, then you can try to work it out with your husband to enhance mutual trust and respect.

    3.Seek outside help: If you think your marriage can't be saved, you need to consider whether you need to seek outside help.

    You can consult a professional marriage counselor or lawyer to learn about the legal process of divorce and child support. At the same time, you can also seek support and advice from friends and family.

    4.Stay calm and sane: Regardless of your decision, stay calm and sane. Don't be swayed by emotions and make hasty decisions. Remember, you are responsible for your future, so be sure to think hard and make the best decisions.

    In closing, I would like to emphasize that divorce is a very serious matter that requires careful consideration by you and your husband. If you decide to divorce, then you need to negotiate and properly handle issues such as child support and property division as much as possible to protect yourself and your children's rights.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The first thing you have to do is introspection!! People can not only get along with their lovers, but also get along with their relatives, relatives and friends, people live in an environment, and cannot live independently of the environment!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The final decision is up to your husband, you should deal with your husband instead of the group of three aunts and six wives, but you must remember to be pitiful to the end.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should first review yourself for anything wrong.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Summary. Truth be told, such a situation requires a comprehensive analysis. You haven't been divorced yet, and if their relatives are usually nice to you, and your man doesn't have a new girlfriend on his side, it's best to go for such an occasion.

    If it's not good for you, and they're not very welcoming to you, there's no need to go.

    During the divorce with my husband, should I go if he has relatives who are married?

    Truth be told, such a situation requires a comprehensive analysis. You haven't been divorced yet, and if their relatives are usually nice to you, and your man doesn't have a new girlfriend on his side, it's best to go on such an occasion. If it's not good for you, and they're not very welcoming to you, there's no need to go.

    We got a divorce certificate without telling them! Originally, I wanted to go to work the next day! But the child has a fever! I didn't go to his house with my big envy! His relatives have white things! me and his sister-in-law to go.

    What am I going to do! They don't know! And the kid's dad went to work! said not to go at home, others will talk about her! How am I going to say it.

    If you feel that you can't wipe your face, you can go home for a while, just say that the child is sick and no one cares, or let your mother-in-law go, and they can't restrain you anymore anyway.

    Closer relatives! I stayed for two or three days after I got the permit! The child doesn't burn! I said I was going out! That's what happened! They all want me to go.

    His dad is gone! His sister-in-law is gone! I don't know what to do either.

    How is your relationship with your in-laws? This premature trembling thing is to give face to their family, it is your right not to go, Lu Luo, see if they are good to you, and if they are not good, you can not go.

    It's ok for me!

    Then go ahead, just don't speak, find a reason to go home, give them face, and let them lie on their own. I feel like you're still very kind.

    If you are satisfied, please give a thumbs up, thank you

    They say no, others will talk about her!

    Well, it's true, so you're very kind, and you still think about them when you're divorced, and most people have long ignored them, and it's for the sake of the children.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear!

    The teacher thinks that when you and your husband first met, your relative said that maybe he did something that your husband didn't like, so he was prejudiced against your relative.

    My husband is always a wedge between my relatives.

    Good afternoon, dear! The teacher thinks that when you and your husband first met, your relative said that maybe he did something that your husband didn't like, so he was prejudiced against your relative.

    How to deal with my husband's discord plan.

    No. If I don't listen to him, he will divide my parents and relatives.

    It's all the people I know who he takes advantage of.

    I studied accounting, and he supported it openly and sabotaged it secretly.

    He doesn't want me to be better than him.

    Your husband doesn't want you to compare him, the teacher suggests here: maybe your husband only dares to pour bitter water in front of his family, which is also a reminder to you that you should be gentle and respectful to him! In addition, when a person belittles another person in front of everyone, he may be showing himself and discerning his responsibility!

    If the above situation does not exist, when you and your husband are alone, you should still talk to your husband about this matter, not everything needs to be told to others.

    My dear, the teacher here sees that you are a very ambitious woman, but her husband wants to turn you into a little woman who relies on him

    Are you there.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First: Relatives believe that "living a solid life" is more important than anything else.

    In the hearts of more "pragmatic" relatives, appearance cannot be eaten, and character is the most important! At the same time, he also believes that young people are motivated, as long as two people work hard, life will be fine after all!

    Therefore, height, appearance, and immediate economic income can be effectively ignored.

    As a result, most of the blind dates in the mouths of relatives are:

    Parents are really not prickly and down-to-earth people. The blind date itself is also honest, and he can do his duty and be willing to do his job in the future!

    However, in this relatively cruel competitive society, some people's steadfastness is obviously a close-up of "mediocrity" and contentment with the status quo.

    It's not that ordinary people are not qualified to talk about feelings, but a person who has no motivation to manage his life, and even his own life is to get by, how can he afford the heavy responsibility of marriage and love relationship?

    It can be said that a person who is willing to be mediocre is a denial of his own life.

    If, a person with good qualifications in all aspects, is finally combined by a blind date with a "mediocre" object, this must be the wrong thread for Yue Lao to drink too much!

    Second: the cognitive limitations of relatives.

    In real life, there are many kind-hearted relatives who just hope to pretend to be hidden and let you enter marriage and love quickly, so as not to be "left". So, Zhang Luo "pushes you out".

    It's just that, many times, the kindness of relatives often turns out to be bad, which makes you unhappy!

    For example, relatives may not be very familiar with each other, and they will blindly introduce them to you when they know that they are single. Even, some elderly relatives, buying groceries or going to the park, heard that the children of elderly "friends" were single, and immediately matched ......

    In the early years, relatives were matchmakers, and most of them were familiar with the relationship between the two sides of the relationship.

    However, the more current it is, no matter how old the matchmaker is, he will only introduce and get to know each other and "be done". Next, it depends on the wishes of both parties on the blind date!

    So much so that your relatives saw that you were single, so they just found you a bunch of "applicants" and let you be admitted on the basis of merit!

    It's a pity that the cognition and circle of relatives in the hall are limited, and the people introduced are difficult to satisfy!

    Why are many single people reluctant to have too much contact with their relatives now? It's because once a relative knows that he is single, he will be extra enthusiastic to help "select". For the sake of politeness, the blind date is one after another, and it's over!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. After accepting the divorce case, the court will notify the defendant in accordance with the procedures, send the prosecution materials and summons to the defendant, and summon the defendant to appear in court to participate in the litigation in accordance with the law. If the defendant does not come, he can be tried in absentia and sue for divorce for the first time, and the basic judgment will not allow the dissolution of the marriage.

    2. One year after the first judgment takes effect, if the defendant still does not appear in court and is tried again in absentia, the judgment will generally grant the dissolution of the marriage.

    Article 1079 of the Civil Code [Mediation and Litigation Divorce].

    Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and the solution is ineffective, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for at least 2 years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as the statutory flexible conditions are met, if the other party does not cooperate, it can be tried in absentia and finally divorced. Orange fingers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your relative's husband does not agree to the divorce and refuses to appear in court, a default judgment can be filed. A default judgment refers to a litigation act in which a party does not appear in court without a legitimate reason or leaves the courtroom in the middle of the court, but the court still does not suspend the trial of the case, and the court investigates one of the parties, examines the evidence, and reviews the litigation materials provided by the parties who do not appear in court. If your relative has no evidence, the court will generally not support your relative's request for divorce or other requests.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are two ways to divorce (dissolution of the marriage relationship): one is that if the two parties can reach an agreement on issues such as child support, property disposal, and dissolution of the marriage relationship, they can be dissolved through divorce registration, which is often referred to as divorce by agreement. Second, if the two parties cannot reach a divorce agreement, and one party Duan Meng insists on divorce, it is necessary to file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court, and the people's court will hear and make a judgment in accordance with the law, which is often referred to as litigation divorce.

    After the people's court accepts the divorce case, it will conduct a trial and judgment in accordance with the law, and the default judgment will generally not be applied, except in special circumstances

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She wants to divorce her husband, if her husband does not agree, if the husband and wife really can't get by, then one party agrees to the divorce, and if the other party does not agree, you can go to the court to sue for divorce, and the court will suspend the judgment according to the specific circumstances of the parties. However, the time may be a little more disturbing to Governor Yin, because the court has to go through the process, and if you want to divorce as soon as possible, a divorce by agreement is still the fastest.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The key is to see whether the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, and there is evidence to prove it, if so, after investigation, the court is very likely to divorce the absentee brother after investigation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Divorce, first of all, is a negotiated divorce, as long as both parties reach an agreement and agree on child support and property division;

    If the negotiation fails, you have to go to the court to sue for divorce, and it is possible that the hand or the defendant will not appear in court, but the court will also make a judgment based on the plaintiff's statement and evidence.

    The basis for a divorce is a breakdown of the parties' relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sue for divorce, only to know that the court wants to accept it, the court will notify the other party to ask to come, if the other party does not come, the court will directly default the judgment, as long as the court decides, that is the effective divorce judgment, and the divorce certificate has the same violent effect, if you really want to divorce, the husband will be divorced if he does not agree.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it is a domestic violence court, it can be decided to divorce, if it is a lawsuit for emotional breakdown, her husband does not want to leave, it is difficult for your relatives to prove the breakdown of the relationship alone, there is no way to prove the breakdown of the relationship alone, the court is not slippery and will judge the divorce in absentia.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the divorce by agreement fails, there is only a lawsuit for divorce. Don't be afraid that his husband will not crack and be absent, and the absence will only be more detrimental to her husband. For example, court mediation, court debate, etc. If he refuses to appear without a valid reason, the court will rule in absentia.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to leave the rock and get married, you can go to the court to sue for divorce if the other party is absent, it will not affect the court's judgment, the key is that you have evidence to prove that the relationship between you and the couple has broken down.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the husband and wife really can't pass the judgment, then one party agrees to the divorce, and if the other party does not agree, they can go to the court to sue for divorce, and the court will make a judgment according to the situation of the parties.

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