What should I do if I want to divorce my husband and take care of my children and parents?

Since you have the idea of divorce, it means that you are unhappy and unhappy in this marriage, so why not follow the original wishes of your heart and divorce him.

Women are all kinds of sensuality, scruples about this, thinking about that, but don't want to think about yourself, you are still young, do you have to spend the rest of your life like this? It's just so meaningless and fun. So don't put this kind of moral kidnapping on parents and children, they will be an obstacle to your divorce.

The people who love you the most in this world are your parents, and you can be honest with them about your inner thoughts. Persuade patiently, believing that they all feel sorry for you and will finally support your choice of divorce. After all, it is their greatest wish for their daughters to be happy.

Then there's the problem of children, after all, that's your own flesh and blood. I was reluctant to leave, so I went to the court to sue and tried my best to fight for custody of the child. In the future, I will do my best to give all my love to the child and give him a happy childhood and life.

Maybe you will meet a suitable man who truly loves you, raising children and taking care of your parents with you.

At present, you have two choices: first, stay with people you don't like and barely make do; Second, wronged yourself to maintain a "complete" family for your children, so that parents do not feel sad.

As far as I am concerned, I will firmly advise you to divorce. Because, no decision should be made in exchange for sacrificing your future, not to mention that your sacrifice may not be in exchange for the healthy growth of your children and the joy of your parents!

People must change their concepts and ideas. Life is your own, don't be a puppet "at the mercy of others".

People should think clearly, if they really want to take care of their children and parents, they must make themselves happy, instead of weaving one emotional lie after another. For them, this is a great deception.

I have a relative who has lived in crying and crying all his life. How many times I want to divorce, but I am "stopped" by considering the feelings of others. She hasn't made the right choices in her life, and she hasn't lived her life to be herself.

I have a friend, a sunny and cheerful girl. When her love life was relatively smooth, she didn't show off how sweet love was. When there was a crisis in her relationship, she didn't have any entanglements, chose to divorce, and chose to leave.

This is the right attitude towards life - to enjoy life to the fullest.

Then you and your husband will be separated for a period of time, and you can not explain it to your family during this time. Maybe in the process of separation, some of the unhappiness between the couple can be figured out, and it may also be possible to dispel the idea of divorce.

In fact, separation is nothing more than to make you feel a sense of distance, and the so-called 'little don't win the newlywed' is this truth. You want to divorce your husband not because the other person has done something sorry for you, but because you feel tired of being with the other person for too long. It's better to keep your distance from each other from now on, so that you can't see each other for a long time, and then see if you miss each other.

If you miss it, then start over with your husband, and if you don't see each other for a long time and don't miss it, it's also painful to be together, so it's better to make it clear with your family. As for the children between you, it will take time to accept the reality, and after a long time, the children will naturally respect your choice.

The divorce rate is much higher now than it used to be, and many people will feel the same way as you. But some people choose to go on, all because they try to distance themselves from each other and live a separate life for a while. Therefore, you can learn from them, and after separation, you can think about whether it is really necessary to divorce your husband.

What should I do if I want to divorce and give up my children? Including the following aspects: 1. Especially female friends who want to divorce their husbands and are reluctant to have children, because of all kinds of reluctance, women will be worried and in a dilemma; 2. I am afraid that divorce will affect the child's mind, and I am worried that the child will not be able to adapt, so I have not made a decision for a long time 3. I am worried that I will not get the custody of the child after the divorce, and I can't see the child often, it will be very painful and more difficult to choose.

4. I am worried that the other party will reorganize the family after the divorce, and the stepparents will treat the children badly, and I will feel distressed and blame myself, and I will not be able to make a decision for a long time. If the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, you can consider divorce, but the children can not be ignored, but many couples are also worried that divorce will affect the physical and mental health of the children. If it has reached the point where it is unbearable and you have to divorce, this time can only minimize the damage to the children.

Even if you don't get custody of your children after divorce, you can still watch your children and care for them often. I believe that friends who want to divorce will think more about their children, and they will not snub their children under the pretext of not having custody. The absence of custody does not mean that there is no visitation right, which is a right and obligation granted to parents by law.

Legal basisArticle 1078 of the Civil Code: If the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposal, it shall be registered and a divorce certificate shall be issued.

Summary. Good morning, in this case we may know that the child's idea is from a good starting point, give understanding, and at the same time let him see that the divorce is not what he thinks, it can be better, for everyone, not worse.

My husband wants to leave the house, but the child does not agree with me divorcing his father.

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Good morning, in this case, we may know that the child's idea is from a good starting point, give understanding, and at the same time let him see that Zhaoho's divorce is not what Minhe thinks, it can be better, for everyone, not worse.

He thinks it's not good, right?

My husband didn't care about the family, he didn't ask, he owed me fifty or sixty thousand yuan, let me pay it back, I wanted to leave him, and use the child to pressure me, the child didn't agree with me, and said it was a shame.

Yes, how old is the child.

Maybe you should talk to your child and let him know what is going on.

Pressure on his dad.

Let him adjust. You can also try it first.

Give the problem to your husband.

And so it is. The main thing is that I don't have a decent house now, it's still a mud house, and we rent a house to live in.

yes, it's hard.

I want to leave is for the sake of the child's future thoughts.

He may have only heard part of the truth about his father.

Yes, let him know that.

You're doing it right. Talk to your child first and tell him what the future might look like.

My husband has been in prison for five years, I have waited for five years, and I have been out for three years, but I used my credit card for 50,000 or 60,000 yuan.

What might he be like if divorced.

That's right. It's really too bad.

Didn't he have a job.

The problem is that he knows how to drink if he doesn't do anything.

Yes, he did poorly as well.

Children should know.

You can't blame what your child thinks.

Tell him the truth.

Convince him in this way.

We must also be resolute. Divorce.

Summary. The younger brother may need to be judged by factors such as the conditions of your parents and the long-term living party.

In fact, as parents, we adults are more looking forward to the better growth of our children, so we must follow the wishes of our children. Of course, if as a mother, the boy is willing to follow his father, He Songque's mother will be more sad, of course, whether he follows his father or follows you, he is your child.

I am the eldest in the family, my brother and I don't want to be with my mother, my mother has a bad personality, I want to ask if it depends on the child's wishes in terms of custody.

If the child says that he will not go to his mother, what will the law say?

How old are you and your brother?

I'm 17, my brother is 11

You will respect your wishes at this stage.

The younger brother may need to be judged by factors such as the conditions of your parents and the long-term living party.