My husband is developing in his hometown in order to take care of his parents, but I have to take ca

Updated on parenting 2024-07-27
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Of course not. Because taking care of your parents is a natural thing, it can be seen that your husband is particularly filial and worthy of entrusting him for life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think there is a need to divorce for this trivial matter, wouldn't it be better for you to choose a compromise plan and bring the old man to live together? Don't think about divorce just because of the little things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you can choose not to divorce him, and you can take your mother to his hometown to live, so that it can be more harmonious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think I should divorce him because the two of you are not very suitable. The people you care about the most are not each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Summary. If the wife has no obligation to support the man's parents, she is divorced.

    My husband is getting divorced, do I still have to help him take care of his parents?

    If the wife has no obligation to support the man's parents, she is divorced.

    Maintenance is affection, you can raise it or not, if the other party asks you to raise it, it is unreasonable.

    Hello teacher, we didn't divorce and change the spring marriage, my husband moved out after a quarrel with me, his mother broke her leg yesterday, and she called him ** and said he came back to take care of it, but he changed and left, and then he didn't care, and now he is not divorced and is in a state of separation, and let me take care of my mother for him, I feel that since I want to divorce, I have no obligation to take care of his family, but I don't know what to do.

    If you don't have to take care of it, your wife doesn't have this obligation in the first place, this is a moral kidnapping, even if you don't get divorced, you can not take care of it.

    And they have separated, which is no different from divorce, what can you do if you don't take care of it, there is no need to make trouble for yourself.

    The old man has no other children, so he can let other children go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hello friend, yes. If your parents are taken care of, then you can work outside the home. It's okay to discuss it with your siblings. If you don't deal with it, you can pay for it.

    Hello friend, you can have a feast. If your parents are taken care of, then you can go out to work. It's okay to discuss it with your siblings. If you don't deal with it, you can pay for it.

    Because it is the duty of every child to support their parents. If someone takes care of your parents. You can make some more money. It can allow parents to have a better life. You can give some money to the siblings who support your parents. As compensation.

    My brothers and sisters all said that they didn't have time, and my husband didn't understand, what should I do.

    But you can't do it alone. And your husband doesn't agree again. If you do it stubbornly, it will cause conflicts in the family.

    You can discuss it with your siblings. Otherwise, everyone will take turns to serve. That's fairer.

    After all, they have to support the elderly.

    But I need money, I'm paying insurance, and it's 8,000 a yearThey also said take turns, but what should I do if I have a problem.

    I have to work outside, what should I do.

    Then you also need to let your husband earn money.

    It's a shared responsibility. If you have insurance, you can also let your husband bear it.

    You can't put all the pressure on you alone.

    He didn't promise me, and I have been independent since I got married, which is too difficult.

    Maybe you're used to it. But if you don't get along like this, because two people have to share the burden when they become husband and wife. Zheng Xiao can't put all the pressure on a person in the world. Won't he give you his salary?

    So who chased whom before getting married? Is the personal relationship between the two tour brothers bad? Why is it like this after getting married? After two people get married, if there are difficulties, they will be the same. Blessed to share. Everyone knows that.

    If two people get married, they still have their own responsibilities. So what's the point of getting married? Your husband has a responsibility, an obligation to take on your responsibilities. A lot of them are common to talk about high.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Now that they have decided to divorce. I think you're ruthless and cut off all contact. Otherwise, it will be messy if the cut is not straightened.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He shouldn't go back because both of them are divorced and have no obligation to take care of his mother.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now that you are divorced, everything has to be cut off, and it is best for two people not to contact each other, which is the best way to deal with it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you have the idea of divorce, it means that you are unhappy and unhappy in this marriage, so why not follow the original wishes of your heart and divorce him.

    Women are all kinds of sensuality, scruples about this, thinking about that, but don't want to think about yourself, you are still young, do you have to spend the rest of your life like this? It's just so meaningless and fun. So don't put this kind of moral kidnapping on parents and children, they will be an obstacle to your divorce.

    The people who love you the most in this world are your parents, and you can be honest with them about your inner thoughts. Persuade patiently, believing that they all feel sorry for you and will finally support your choice of divorce. After all, it is their greatest wish for their daughters to be happy.

    Then there's the problem of children, after all, that's your own flesh and blood. I was reluctant to leave, so I went to the court to sue and tried my best to fight for custody of the child. In the future, I will do my best to give all my love to the child and give him a happy childhood and life.

    Maybe you will meet a suitable man who truly loves you, raising children and taking care of your parents with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At present, you have two choices: first, stay with people you don't like and barely make do; Second, wronged yourself to maintain a "complete" family for your children, so that parents do not feel sad.

    As far as I am concerned, I will firmly advise you to divorce. Because, no decision should be made in exchange for sacrificing your future, not to mention that your sacrifice may not be in exchange for the healthy growth of your children and the joy of your parents!

    People must change their concepts and ideas. Life is your own, don't be a puppet "at the mercy of others".

    People should think clearly, if they really want to take care of their children and parents, they must make themselves happy, instead of weaving one emotional lie after another. For them, this is a great deception.

    I have a relative who has lived in crying and crying all his life. How many times I want to divorce, but I am "stopped" by considering the feelings of others. She hasn't made the right choices in her life, and she hasn't lived her life to be herself.

    I have a friend, a sunny and cheerful girl. When her love life was relatively smooth, she didn't show off how sweet love was. When there was a crisis in her relationship, she didn't have any entanglements, chose to divorce, and chose to leave.

    This is the right attitude towards life - to enjoy life to the fullest.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you and your husband will be separated for a period of time, and you can not explain it to your family during this time. Maybe in the process of separation, some of the unhappiness between the couple can be figured out, and it may also be possible to dispel the idea of divorce.

    In fact, separation is nothing more than to make you feel a sense of distance, and the so-called 'little don't win the newlywed' is this truth. You want to divorce your husband not because the other person has done something sorry for you, but because you feel tired of being with the other person for too long. It's better to keep your distance from each other from now on, so that you can't see each other for a long time, and then see if you miss each other.

    If you miss it, then start over with your husband, and if you don't see each other for a long time and don't miss it, it's also painful to be together, so it's better to make it clear with your family. As for the children between you, it will take time to accept the reality, and after a long time, the children will naturally respect your choice.

    The divorce rate is much higher now than it used to be, and many people will feel the same way as you. But some people choose to go on, all because they try to distance themselves from each other and live a separate life for a while. Therefore, you can learn from them, and after separation, you can think about whether it is really necessary to divorce your husband.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The Chinese text is broad and profound, from the subject of this title. I see three different meanings.

    1. Your husband wants to divorce you in order to support his parents.

    2. You have a bad relationship with your husband's parents and have conflicts, so he wants to divorce you for the sake of his adoptive parents.

    The most hateful thing is the second situation, which is too complicated, too tangled, no matter how you deal with it, you will be hurt and face this situation. Since this kind of thing has happened, there must be a reason. There is no misunderstanding or anything, the contradiction is because of the misunderstanding, and when the misunderstanding is solved, the whole family will be harmonious, and it only exists on TV.

    The reality is that there is definitely one party that is most at fault, and there are basically problems on both sides of this matterThere are very few innocent people. Where there is a cause, there must be an effect, the effect is born from the cause, and the cause is born and the effect is obtained, there is no love without a reason, and there is no hate without a reason. Cause and effect have been planted, and nothing can be quiet and void except for karmic fire.

    Since the matter has happened, you have to find a way to deal with it, and you must first examine whether your various actions are at fault, if not. Whether you want to go on with your husband or not, you have to share your experience with him.

    If he understands and wants to move on, he can also be given a chance. If he doesn't think so, there is no way to ignore this marriagePeople want to be decent, right? There's no reason to abuse yourself.

    If you do make a mistake, you have to admit it, and after admitting it, you don't want to break up and break up peacefully.

    If you want to go on, it's going to be hardIt takes a lot of effort to be recognized and recognized, and it will be a little humble and embarrassedMaybe one day you can be forgiven, the family is harmonious, and then it can be considered happiness.

    All of the above but depending on whether your husband is not a mom boy,If it's a mom boy, don't think about it so much, let's go, you will never be as important as your mom and dadIn their circle, you are even an outsider, while in the family, you may have always been in the role of a servant, a tool.

    Let's talk about divorcing you in order to raise my parents.

    This situation is generally an economic problem, how to say it, the reasons and complexity, unclear. Let's talk about how to deal with this problem.

    If you love him and want to continue, then have a good chat with him, talk about your future life, how to plan and use the economy, you can have a small goal and look forward to the future

    You love him, but you're tired and don't want to continue, so divide it, in fact, for this reasonThe man who files for divorce either doesn't love you or just doesn't deserve you.

    A woman can not expect a man to earn or support himself, but he must at least fight for the future of two peopleIf he doesn't have the courage to fight, work hard, and fight hard for you and your family, it could have been a mistake in the first place.

    Now that the mistakes have been discovered and the beauty is shattered, it's time to face reality.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, the other said that the hundred virtues and filial piety advocated by China are the first, but although it is the largest in today's life, due to the obvious improvement of the material level, many things can be done in addition to filial piety, including maintaining one's own marriage such a top priority, so since the husband made such a decision that makes modern people look more ridiculous, so there must be other reasons inside, in my personal opinion, it seems that the larger reason is due to the wife herself, It is not only because the husband wants to go back to support his parents, but it may be that the wife squandered the family's wealth unreasonably and refused to support her parents with her husband, which led to the conflict between the family and marriage and in the face of filial piety.

    But what I said can be solved, so we must actively communicate with my husband, and at the same time improve some of the economic misdeeds I have done, and at the same time, we must empathize and understand that my husband's filial piety to his parents is a particularly big thing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no perfect solution.

    It is possible to fight for the right to support children and persuade the elderly to accept it.

    1. Divorce by agreement. If the parties voluntarily divorce and reach an agreement on child support and property disposal, both parties may register for divorce at the original marriage registration authority or the place where one of the parties has a household registration.

    2. Divorce by litigation. If one of the husband and wife is in another country, and one of the spouses is unwilling to divorce, or is willing to divorce, but has not reached an agreement on child support, property disposal, etc., in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China and the Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China (hereinafter referred to as the "Opinions"), divorce proceedings may be filed with the people's court with jurisdiction in different circumstances.

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