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Your friend suggested that you get a divorce. Which choice is the right one? When everyone urged you to divorce, you chose to follow the crowd?

We often say that people on the outside can see the best of you, but sometimes the only reason they can see the best of you is because they are not fully involved in your situation and do not understand your concerns. In the eyes of most bystanders, marriage should be happy and happy, as long as there is one aspect of dissatisfaction, there will always be only one solution for bystanders - divorce. For bystanders, divorce is the quickest solution they can think of to solve your problems.

As for the consequences of divorce, bystanders do not have to bear it. They are only responsible for the idea, not the consequences.

Most of the reasons why you don't choose a divorce are based on realistic factors, children, finances, sunk costs, and what the man will do for you. All the choices must be known after you weigh the pros and cons, how to choose to avoid greater losses for yourself. At least in your opinion, divorce is really not an option.

You don't have to ruin your life for an outsider's point of view! My husband promised to turn back, how can I believe that he will really come back? The reason you are so worried and take your friend's words to heart is that eventually the problem comes back to your husband.

Isn't it true that a person cheats as they say it is, really?

This question, I believe that I am still a successful student of Chen Qingfan, and I am more qualified to tell you the answer: in this world, the essence of the so-called flowery man is really very rare, and those men who are labeled as "flowery men" and "flowery men" by us really want not novelty things, but want you to basically meet his needs in marriage Your husband lacks some emotional needs in marriage. He has been providing you with emotional and financial value, but you are simply not meeting his most basic emotional needs.

A man who is busy working to feed three children and an adult is not interested in "eating and drinking", but in earning enough bread. After all, his company won't bring you more financial benefits.

Of course, there are win-win ways to run your marriage, both to meet his emotional needs to be understood and to meet your need for companionship. But his heart is working, your heart is just complaining, not in marriage management but now that you have reached the stage of infidelity, you should think about how to get your marriage back on track. As long as you use your husband's guilt in the right way to get him back into the family, satisfy his needs again, and make your marriage work in a healthier way, his true self will come back.

I will think about it clearly, because the most important thing is the life of two people, the relationship of two people, and the affairs of two people cannot be decided by others, and they must follow their own hearts.

I would have chosen to divorce because if he treats me badly, being with him will only make me more uncomfortable, and it is not particularly good for me.

Discuss with your husband, as long as you feel that there is no problem with both parties, there is no need to divorce.

In this case, there is a dilemma, but if you take a closer look at the marriage, there is really no reason to stick with it. What should we do at this time? First of all, twisted melon is not sweet.

We've all heard that twisted melons aren't sweet. If neither of them has a reason to persevere, love life cannot go on, and persuasion from others is useless. Even after being persuaded by others, the idea of divorce is temporarily abandoned, but this life is tasteless.

Of course, in such a married life, I can't feel happiness myself.

If there is a conflict between two people, it can be resolved by two people. If he has someone out there, his heart is not in you. Then a short pain is not as good as a long pain.

Even if such a person stays, his heart will be gone, and you will not have a good time. If you love him, stand firm. After all, you've lived with him all your life.

A family will have its own family, but the husband and himself are the closest people in life. Mom can't, and neither can Dad. Only contradictions can be reconciled.

If you love him, stand firm. After all, you've lived with him all your life. All said:

A family will have its own family, but the wife and himself are the closest people in life. Mom can't, and neither can Dad. So only the contradictions can be reconciled.

Also, the people who love you want you to be happy, so you want them to see that you and your husband are happy together.

I think it varies from person to person. Unless he made a serious mistake, you can apologize to his parents. As for the other inconsequential aunts and the six women who are always involved, you can ignore it, and if your husband still loves you, he will explain it in front of the family, which is much better than explaining it yourself.

If they convince you to divorce because they have found a better home for your husband, I suggest you keep quiet. Love your husband as always, and let your husband decide the final choice according to his conscience. If she is still on your side, it is worth it for you to marry this husband, and you don't need too many people's opinions.

The most important thing in marriage is what the two of you think.

It is we ourselves who suffer in life because we simply simply do not have the determination to continue with the other person. At this time, it is equivalent to hurting each other in life. It is we who suffer in this kind of life, but outsiders do not feel the pain in our hearts.

A marriage without love cannot continue. Of course, two people who choose to continue their loveless marriage can only torture each other. This kind of pain and pain can only be experienced by those who are really in it.

So, since I don't love you, I can only turn around in style, let go of each other, and pursue a better life. When our marriage can't go on, don't listen to the persuasion of others.

will divorce the other party directly. It shows that there have been flaws in the lives of the two people. And the personalities of the two people are not compatible, so at this time I will divorce the other party decisively.

I'm sure I'll communicate with my husband, because after all, it's a matter between two people, and I won't impulsively divorce because of what his family thinks.

You must know that there is a kind of love in the world that is truly unconditional and unprincipled, and that is the love of children for their parents. No matter how the parents treat the child, the child loves and obeys the parents unconditionally, and your husband is such a child.

Marriage is never a matter of two people, but of two families, so it is useless to have feelings alone, it also involves money and family relationships.

If because of these things, the family forces you to divorce, and your husband agrees, I believe that no woman will marry your husband. But the prerequisite is child support.

It is not that he doesn't want it, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't want it, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't want to pay child support.

If the husband and wife have a good relationship, after these tribulations, they can still choose to be together, then the two parties are really in a good relationship, but if the husband and wife finally have no choice but to separate after these tribulations, there is no way to do it, and all kinds of marriages may be encountered in reality. So it's very good that the two of you can really choose to be together, keep up the good work, as long as the two of you really love each other and work hard together, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.

The days are you and your husband, and it depends on you how you choose in the end, if you say that in this marriage, you have all the mental problems you have caused yourself, it is better to get out. After all, you're hurting. There is no need to judge right or wrong, this seems to be the first one I persuaded to leave, or you choose for yourself, don't listen to other people's advice, or that sentence, feelings, marriage, is your own.

If you can't get married for the time being, then, on this basis, it is recommended to relax too much attention to the child, after returning from work, you greet the child with a smile, and thank your mother-in-law for helping you take care of the child, and then concentrate on playing with your child, accompany your child, when you should concentrate on work, fully focus on work, and when you get home, you should focus on accompanying your child, completely focus on accompanying your child.

Finally, I will send you a word, know and then have a decision, set and then be quiet, be quiet and then be safe, be safe and then be able to worry, and then be able to get, things have a beginning and an end.

That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

Then leave quickly, both persuade and not discourage, since their families are like this, then what do you have to be nostalgic, even if you don't divorce, you won't have a good life, and decisively separating is the best choice.

You should follow your heart and then look at your husband's thoughts, and if your husband divorces you, then you shouldn't pay attention to such gossip.

At this time, you must think clearly, start from your own heart, and never listen to the opinions of others, your own destiny, and your own path must be in your own hands.

I think marriage is very sweet, but many people are actually very unhappy in the marriage relationship, if everyone is really unhappy, divorce is actually a better choice. My husband's family is persuading me to divorce him, what should you do at this time?

In fact, divorce is also a good choice, if the marriage relationship between two people has indeed broken down, or there is a person who no longer loves you in the marriage relationship, at this time the two people will be particularly unhappy living together. Two people continue to be tied together, in fact, it is not good for two people, so I think it is best to choose divorce if you can divorce, and the people in this person's family are persuading you to divorce him, which means that this man is no longer worthy of your trust, so you should think about it and weigh it yourself.

I think it's still necessary to listen to other people's suggestions, and now my husband's family is persuading you to divorce him, which means that their family can't stand it anymore, maybe this man really has some problems, so you should think about it clearly, if your own husband really has a lot of problems, and you find that your husband can't change this problem, then it is still recommended that everyone divorce. But before divorcing, you must listen to your family's opinions, you can explain your problems to your parents clearly, see what your parents say, you can refer to your parents' opinions.

In fact, divorce or not divorce depends entirely on your own thoughts, but I feel that my husband's family is persuading you to divorce him, in fact, there is no need for two people to live anymore, so the probability of two people being able to divorce is still relatively high. Don't feel any reluctance, because marriage is never a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.

You should stick to your decision, resolutely not get a divorce, and don't let others affect your happiness.

I think it depends on how you have a relationship with him, if the relationship is good, there is no need to divorce, if the relationship is not good, you can divorce.

The other party's family members all advise you to divorce, which shows that they are well aware of your husband's shortcomings and do not want you to suffer, so they should divorce as soon as possible.

If the other party really goes too far and makes it impossible for me to forgive, then I will definitely divorce the other party.

I think you should understand why your husband is impatient with you, instead of choosing to divorce right away.

The reason why I say this is because you are not sure why your husband is impatient with you. Is it because I have no love for you anymore, or because I am impatient with some things in life, so in such a situation, you should not choose divorce right away, and you have to figure out the situation. If you are sure that both parties are not suitable to continue living, you will choose to divorce.

If you blindly choose to divorce, you will regret it.

1. Understand your relationship clearly.

Only by having a good understanding of your marital status and love life can you make a better decision. It's not that you make up your mind to divorce when you see the superficial phenomenon, which will make you fall into a misunderstanding, and thus enter a predicament from which you can't extricate yourself. Many people don't know what their current marital status is, in fact, they are not attentive enough, as long as they experience it with their hearts, they can feel whether there is still affection between husband and wife.

Second, if it is because the husband is impatient with his lack of love, it is okay to choose divorce.

By experiencing it with your heart, you can feel whether your husband still loves you. If he is just impatient with you because of something and doesn't really want to live with you, then I think he still has love for you. In this case, you should not choose divorce, but choose to be considerate of your husband and work with him to overcome the difficulties in life, so that you can have a better future.

Third, the relationship is not easy to come by, and it is easy to break up.

Every relationship is hard-won, and it is even more precious to walk into the marriage hall hand in hand. Therefore, don't doubt your other half, or even doubt your relationship, because of a small contradiction, which will only make the other person feel infinitely sad and sad. If you don't have a solid emotional foundation, you will always live in a difficult situation in the future, so if you feel that your husband is impatient with you, you must actively communicate with him and deal with the problem in time, I believe you can still have a good marriage.