After you and your husband quarreled, did you think about divorce?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Many times there is not much to do when husband and wife quarrel, it is the accumulation of some family trivialities that are released in a specific environment. Some families may quarrel a little more often, that's because everyone's personality is different, and there will be more pressure and grievances in their hearts. When husband and wife quarrel, women are mostly releasing their emotions, and at this time men don't want to reason with their wives, women can release their emotions without reservation when they quarrel, but they also need to know the truth of quarreling at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, since they can only become husband and wife when they love each other, so don't worry about it after the quarrel.

    A man after a quarrel should be generous, there is no hug that can't solve the trivial matters of husband and wife, an affectionate hug is an expression of your love for your wife, and it is also an attitude after your quarrel. A woman can have time to relieve herself after a quarrel to calm down the waves, but she can't take it seriously. The love of husband and wife is mutual understanding and supportive, and two people work together to maintain a complete family.

    I've been married for 9 years now. In the early years, my husband and I had a lot of fights, and there were even fights. First of all, husband and wife quarrels are not the fault of one person alone.

    Generally speaking, we women are relatively strong, and it is impossible to ask a man to be unconditionally good to him. But there are very few men who are really good to a woman, but there are very few men like this. The most successful thing for a person with a career is not career success, but the best thing that the work emotions do not bring to the family.

    If you quarrel, you talk about a lot of things once, and he listens to it and forget it, and you feel too lazy to talk about it, and the next time it will be a vicious circle.

    The husband and wife are inconsistent, and gradually there is no communication. If you don't communicate, the other person doesn't know what you want, and you don't know what the other person thinks. In short, one must know how to let things between families, and the other must know how to receive.

    Husbands and wives for a lifetime will inevitably bump and bump, husband and wife are to revolve around a family, for example, not for anything else, just for their own children, for their own children, both of them have to communicate well, the man cares a little more, and the woman complains less. Usually talk about more happy things, no matter who is in trouble, a little more encouragement, pay attention to each other, and believe that you will be reconciled as before.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course, there have been many times, I really want to leave this house immediately, and I want to divorce him immediately But when I am not angry, I suddenly think of the other party's good In fact, I also have a problem, I can't see my shortcomings, when I am angry, I can look in the mirror to see if my shortcomings are in **, whether the other party has tolerated himself a lot.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After quarreling with my husband, I don't actually have the idea of divorce, because it is a normal thing for husband and wife to quarrel with my husband, so after the quarrel, the husband and wife still talk and laugh, and the relationship is very good, and they don't want to divorce.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If I didn't think about divorce after my husband and I quarreled, after all, I couldn't ruin the relationship between my husband because of some small things, and it was possible that we would both consider some issues that would lead to the breakdown of our relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After my husband and I quarreled, I thought about divorce, but after the quarrel, I thought about divorce, and I felt that the two of them were very hot, and the personalities of the two people had changed and there was no love, so I thought about divorce

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After you quarreled with your husband, I thought I was going to get a divorce, but the angry one passed, and then I thought about his good feelings. This relationship still can't be let go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After my husband and I quarreled, I had the feeling of wanting to divorce, but if I think about it carefully, the world is as black as a crow, and it is the same as anyone I live with.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Many times the quarrel between husband and wife is not a big deal, it is the accumulation of some family trivialities, and it is good to pass it all at once.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I thought about divorce, but I was easy to be impulsive after a quarrel, so the idea of divorce was just impulsive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, you can't think about divorce just because you quarreled, so what's the point of getting married, isn't it in vain?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    <> have you ever thought of divorce after you and your husband quarreled? If it's all because of some trivial things, there are contradictions, and you want to talk about divorce at every turn, which is very emotional. Communicate more, find out the reason for the quarrel, and correct anyone's fault.

    In order for children to have a warm family atmosphere, tolerate each other more, understand each other more, so that children can grow up healthily under the care of their parents! If it really comes to the point where water and fire are incompatible, and divorce is just the right opportunity to give each other a chance to be free, then divorce! Anyway, I don't think it's a last resort, and couples should never divorce.

    Will you be able to find true love after you get divorced? Will you be happy? If you want to divorce as soon as you quarrel, you must be tired and disappointed after arguing too much.

    Another is that the mind is not yet mature. Aftertaste is a good paragraph in the stage of falling in love. After marriage, it takes running-in, communication, understanding and tolerance to strengthen the marriage.

    In fact, there are really a lot of people who want to leave when they quarrel, including me. But after the quarrel, calm down and think about it, it's all for some trivial things in life. I just bought a sedan chair and a delicious one for you.

    turned around and quarreled over a trivial matter. We like the tip of the needle to say a word to Maimang, you and me. After the bickering, I thought about it, there was really no need to shout hoarsely in my throat.

    I didn't get a bargain at all. But five minutes later, my husband shook hands with me again. I told my husband that it was really not a family that didn't get together, and that a reunion would be in vain.

    Pathetic! Think more about how good the other person is to you! This is the day to live.

    Otherwise, you can only take the road of divorce. This has to vary from person to person, some people usually don't quarrel much, once they quarrel, it is a big quarrel, that is, the relationship is irreparable, there is really no way to get by, to the point of divorce. Some people are the opposite, three days of a big quarrel, two days of a small quarrel, quarrels have become commonplace, no one takes it seriously, a quarrel will say that it can't go down and get a divorce, no one will be anyone, but the anger goes down, there is always the person who is soft.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After every quarrel, there will be thoughts of divorce. Because of the trembling hole to cultivate for anger, the mood will be very extreme. But calm down and think about it, communicate well, there is nothing big about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Many people have had this thought, because after a quarrel, they feel that the other party is not good to them and hates this kind of life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, after my husband and I quarreled, I had the idea of divorce. Because it's easy to get angry when I'm angry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello, if you want to divorce, you can negotiate and settle it yourself, if the other party still insists on divorce, you can ask relatives and friends to persuade you.

    After a quarrel with my husband, I was dragged to a divorce.

    Hello, if you want to divorce, you can negotiate and settle it yourself, if the other party still insists on divorce, you can ask relatives and friends to persuade you.

    It's okay to say that you can't leave, you don't bother each other, don't see each other, and go back to the old house to live.

    According to the current law, he cannot be divorced immediately, and if he insists on divorce, he will make an appointment to register, and there will be a one-month cooling-off period.

    Is the Cold War good during this period?

    Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

    Article 1077 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority. Within 30 days after the expiration of the period specified in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration and Minji organ for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

    Of course, the Cold War is not good, and it is okay to calm down for a few days.

    He said that if he could not negotiate, he would sue.

    Why do things quarrel?

    Because he played cards too late, I scolded him for arguing to death, so he didn't go back to live there, and then he dropped things and dragged him to divorce.

    There are no other contradictions?

    No, the relationship has been bad before, and there is domestic violence.

    Even if you sue for divorce, as long as you don't want to divorce, you can't leave for the time being.

    Do you not want a divorce for the sake of your children?

    If the other party has domestic violence, if you sue for divorce, the court may grant a divorce, and if he sues, as long as you do not agree to the divorce, the first time you will not decide to divorce. And many times, if you want to divorce, it is impulsive, and it will be good to be calm and calm.

    Why did he want to get a divorce? Is there any other reason besides this quarrel?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a common thing to quarrel with my husband, sometimes we often quarrel because of some small things, but after the quarrel, we will have a cold war, but I have also been very sad, and I have also had the idea of divorce, that is because I am angry, but it is good if the anger is gone!

    In fact, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and when we quarrel and there is a cold war, we should be magnanimous, don't care, and we won't think about divorce if we want to open a little!

    My husband and I will be very angry when we quarrel in the first few years of marriage, and sometimes we will even file for divorce, but when the anger is gone, there will be no idea of divorce, if you also have such behavior, then you should let go of your temper, no matter what is unhappy, don't quarrel with him, he will not be able to make trouble alone, and he will not make you angry, then you will not have that kind of thought!

    However, within a year or two after marriage, you will have this kind of thought, and when he is three or five years old, he will see it, if he is quarrelling, you directly avoid him, let him quarrel as much as he likes, no one responds to him, and he will stop! But now I can see it, and I don't want to worry about him no matter what, so the disputes between the two of us are becoming less and less, and I won't have that kind of idea of divorce anymore!

    You can teach your husband a good lesson, so that he doesn't always quarrel with you in the future, no matter what he has to talk to you, even if there is a difference of opinion, everyone sits down together and discusses it, and the matter can be solved, which is not very good! If you quarrel with your husband like a divorce, then you should look away and don't worry about everything, not only hurt your husband, but also make yourself sad!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no couple in the world who does not quarrel, but quarreling too often will hurt the feelings of two people, and if they quarrel too much, their feelings will be weak.

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