My husband wants to divorce me, and their whole family wants him to divorce me, what should I do?

Hello, it is recommended that you husband and wife first communicate clearly why they want to divorce, and whether there is no need to go to the step of divorce, after all, divorce is a matter between you husband and wife, which will involve a series of cumbersome and complex legal issues such as child support and property division.

If the communication is ineffective and really irretrievable, then there are two ways to divorce, divorce by agreement and litigation, and choose the most suitable method according to your marriage and your own situation.

1.The materials you need to prepare for divorce by agreement: your household registration booklet and ID card; Marriage certificate of the applicant; A divorce agreement signed by both parties.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition.

2.The materials you need to prepare for litigation and divorce: civil complaint, marriage certificate, ID cards of both husband and wife, children's household registration or birth certificates, property-related evidence, such as real estate certificates, motor vehicle driving licenses, etc.

When it comes to issues such as child support and property division, it is recommended to consult a professional matrimonial and family lawyer if necessary to protect your legitimate rights and interests to the greatest extent.

Legal basis. Article 1076 of the Civil Code: If the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

Article 1079: Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Since that's the case, let's leave. Because you really can't live together, what should you do? It mainly depends on how your husband is, if your husband doesn't want to leave you and wants to live with you, it is useless for the family to oppose it.

If you really can't be together and you have to divorce, you must also ensure that the division of property is beneficial to you. The two parties agreed that if it didn't work, they would go to court to sue. In this way, the court will fairly divide the property obtained at the time of divorce.

First of all, you must protect your own rights and interests, if their family, especially your husband, does not miss the love of husband and wife, and has to divorce, then you don't have to be too sad, and there is no point in keeping a marriage without happiness. When you get divorced, you must defend what you deserve, you don't have to fight for it if it's not yours, you must fight for it.

Then leave! What else can I do, the divorce is certainly not filed suddenly. If you think that you are not wrong and there is no need to change something, then it means that the other person is at fault. Isn't divorce better for you at this time?

If you don't want to leave, then you can only wronged yourself and change to what your husband or your husband's family wants.

First of all, look at the root cause of your husband's divorce from you, and see if it can be solved, you can sit down calmly and communicate once, and save it if you can. If your husband doesn't have any opinions and listens to his family, then there is no need to force him to stay, so that even if he stays, you will not be happy. Then talk about the conditions for divorce, to fight for favorable conditions for yourself, there will be after the relationship is gone, live well, work hard to improve yourself, don't treat marriage as everything, it's not that you can't live without anyone, you have to believe that you deserve better.

Then let's leave, the twisted melon is not sweet.

But you can't miss a point, and you can't spare no effort to fight for what you should strive for.

Since he doesn't even think about affection.

You don't need to be polite either.

I think you should get a divorce.

First of all, your husband and his whole family no longer approve of you being together, there is no point in you continuing to entangle, and you will only be hurt in the end.

Secondly, you have to get the greatest benefit for yourself under the premise of divorce, and try to seek as many possibilities for yourself as possible in the future, because no matter what your family is, the future road must be your own and be kind to yourself.

Finally, don't feel that what happens after divorce, no matter what age you are, you have the right to pursue beauty, work hard to enrich yourself, read more, study more, and improve yourself more. Meet a better version of yourself. You still have a long life ahead of you, and he's just a small part of your life.

Your husband is going to divorce you, their whole family knows that the key is why you want to be married, if your relationship has broken down, then the strong melon is not sweet, you might as well open it, the key depends on who is at fault, if the motivation is at fault, it is really a relationship breakdown, don't mention it. If you have talked to him with you in the past, if you want to make amends, you might as well correct your mistakes and see if he can forgive you.

Why did this friend get divorced and what conflicts did he have? What is the source of the contradiction? It is normal for marriages to have twists and turns, and it is necessary to find the root cause of the problem in order to find a way to solve it.

If it's his mistake, talk to him seriously alone, from love to marriage, there must be many sweet moments, and it is the best policy to solve the hairy belly with a gentle way and control your marriage.

If it is his family who maliciously stirs up trouble in the middle, then you should also talk to him alone, give him an in-depth analysis of the pros and cons, receive his heart to you, and then stay away from those who calculate you! It's right to let those people fail to achieve their goals.

If it's your mistake, then, reflect first, apologize sincerely to him, and maybe save the marriage.

In short, whether you can continue or not, you have to work hard to solve the problem first, which is what a strong person in life should do.

First, if you want to leave, you can negotiate and settle the formalities. Second, I think you may not want to leave, so think about having a deep talk with your husband, recall the vigorous love you had before, see if it can be irretrievable, review your past mistakes, communicate with his family once, see if it can be recovered, and hope to change. Go for it.

Your husband wants to divorce you, and their whole family wants him to divorce you, if the other party proposes a divorce, you can make some divorce requests, because the twisted melon is not sweet, and the divorce will be divorced, and it will be good to find a new one after leaving. Maybe it's better than my current husband. Even if you force it, it's useless, your life will not be very happy in the future, long pain is better than short pain, people have to look forward.

Leave it, even if you are together, life will not be easy. As the so-called twisted melon is not sweet, it is difficult to repair the broken relationship. Whoever leaves can live, so why bother to grieve yourself. Since their family has filed for divorce, you should have the upper hand in the distribution of property.

My husband wants to divorce me, and their whole family wants him to divorce me, what should I do? If your husband divorces you, the whole family will also ask for a divorce from you, proving certain things about you. Still doing something wrong.

If you recognize that you are wrong, you can talk to your husband. You will correct it. If it is your husband and their family who bully you and insist on a divorce.

Or if there is something else hidden, then in that case, it doesn't hurt for you to divorce. Why did you get divorced?

If my husband and his whole family want me to divorce him after getting married, it's better to divorce. Persevering will only increase the troubles and suffering. However, you also have to reflect on what you have done badly, managing a marriage requires both parties to work hard and be tolerant, and you should respect the man's parents and get along with your own family.

If your husband and his family support him to divorce you, you should divorce quickly, this man and this family are not suitable for you.

I think the marriage must be managed well, if they all want to divorce, then you must also know the reason, if it is really your own fault, then you must sincerely apologize to your husband. After all, there is still communication between husband and wife, and through good communication, your relationship will be eased.

Marriage is maintained by both parties, unilaterally can not be maintained, if your husband wants to divorce and their whole family is against it, there is still hope for your marriage, you have no good way in this situation, your marriage is difficult to keep.

My husband wants to divorce me, and their whole family wants him to divorce me, what should I do? There is no good way, he asked their whole family to support the divorce, you will leave, you should get what you should get with the law, live yourself, the marriage can't be maintained, you can't force it, everyone is against it, so can your marriage still last? Divorced people are not so terrible, and they will live their lives well in the future.

My husband and his whole family want him to divorce you, so you still leave, but you must arrange the children, and then you must reflect on yourself, what did you do wrong, so that your husband's whole family hates you so much, if you have a mistake, you will be exempted, the road in the future is still long, and you will try to do your best.

Then resolutely and decisively leave, and fight for your own legal rights and property, if the pressure is too great.

If that's the case, then divorce, there are defects in the matter, either his whole family supports divorcing you, or his whole family supports divorcing you, ending this marriage, starting a new life, correcting his shortcomings, it is your things that others can't snatch.

Leave. Because your husband no longer loves you, your marriage has ended, and your husband's whole family wants him to divorce you, which means that you are not liked and recognized by their whole family, so you can only leave.

You have to figure out what the real purpose of your husband's divorce is from you, if he has a mistress outside, there is no need for you to live with him. If there is no affection between you, sometimes you can save your marriage, but if he is determined to divorce you, and with the support of his family, there will be no happiness for you to live again, so it is better to divorce.

The whole family wants you to get a divorce, so there must be something, and you decide whether to divorce or not. In short, don't grieve yourself.

If your husband wants to divorce you, and the whole family wants you to divorce, it means that the marriage of the two of you is really not suitable for being together, because there may be some problems that cannot be solved, and it causes everyone very pain, and divorce may be the best solution

If their family agrees to divorce you, it must be that they are not satisfied with something you do, or that something is out of line, then you can only divorce him, there is no other way.

This means that you can't stay in this house anymore, you and your husband have no relationship at all, let alone their family, since they are all like this, now your only way out is to divorce your husband and find happiness elsewhere, where the loess is not buried, and women are all a family there.

If your husband is going to divorce you, and the family is supportive of his approach. Then the chances of you trying to keep it are very small. In the face of a person who doesn't love you and a family full of opposing voices, such a home will not be happy if you stay, so choosing to leave may be the only way out.

In this case, it means that the contradiction between you and his whole family is relatively large, and the estrangement between each other is deeper, which is often difficult to resolve.

Your husband and his family agree to your divorce, which shows that you have no status in the family, you should self-reflect, why did this happen, in this case, you don't have to force it, the twisted melon is not sweet, whoever leaves can live, and breaking up is also your best choice.

Thank you for having me, Buddhist, October 29, 2021.

1.First of all, we need to analyze the reasons for the husband's divorce. If it's just a little thing, we can keep our husbands.

Of course, if something happens to the bank that cannot forgive the other party, the reservation will not have a big effect on the multi-state tone. 2.If you make a mistake first, such as cheating in a marriage, then it is normal for the husband not to forgive.

If you have to get a divorce, you have to deal with the joint property. 3.If the court thinks that there is affection between the two and does not judge that the divorce of the two is okay, he will sue for the second time in the future, at this time the court will pay attention to the judgment that the two have a greater chance of divorce.

4.If the two cannot avoid a divorce, we must rationally think about what to do in the future, as well as the custody of the children and the joint debts of the joint property. Introduce the way to get your husband back:

For the sake of the child, let the husband think about it If your husband and wife have children, and the children, and he loves the children, then you can let him think about the children, after all, even if he doesn't love you anymore, he still loves the children. Unless the parents are sure that the child is not his nuclear feast, few parents will not love their children, if this situation really happens, there is little hope of redemption, maybe you can just let go of your feelings and start a new life, because this relationship is meaningless. If he still loves your child, then it is easier to persuade him, after all, the impact of divorce on the child is very great, not only affecting his study and life, but also more likely to affect the direction of his life.

Change Yourself You can change yourself appropriately because you may have many shortcomings, and it is because of these that your husband divorces you. He really can't stand you. He thinks it's easy to get along with you, but it's easier, but he can't understand what you're doing, which makes it difficult for him to get along with you anymore.

You can make some appropriate changes to make him realize that you are not as good as you used to be, so that your relationship can ease up. Understand the cause and then redeem You can start by understanding the cause of the whole thing. Although he can't divorce you because of one thing, there is always one thing that he can't stand anymore.

You can understand this reason and then change accordingly so that his attitude towards you can be softened. At this time, it's easier to talk about your problems.