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Anonymous users2024-02-13Many relationships that have died before they enter into marriage have died on the chicken-and-duck talk, and you even suspect that you must have been blind and chose the wrong object, so that you are now facing a problem with no common language at all.
First, it's not that you chose the wrong person, if you don't understand the difference in the thinking patterns of boys and girls in dealing with emotional problems, you can change 100 people to talk about the same chickens and ducks. When a boy is faced with a problem, it is a filtered thinking, while a girl is an amplified thinking. For example, if you send a message to a guy and he doesn't reply for a long time, the last time you actually reply is that he has been working all day today, but what would the girl think?
Don't you have time to eat? Isn't there time to go to the bathroom? You can't reply to me with this time, don't you think?
Second, in fact, the boy is not saying that he doesn't have this time, but just that his emotions haven't switched over, he has been working at a high intensity, and suddenly he sees this message, you say he replied, he feels very perfunctory, because his emotions are not in place, you say he doesn't reply, he knows that you will indeed misunderstand, so at that time he hopes that you can give him a considerable understanding, so he filters out all the useless information, and wants to concentrate a time to communicate with you, But most girls can't wait for this time, more often it will be magnified, when he sends a message, you don't reply, and even think, what have you done at this time? Couldn't you just send me a message back when you have so much time? There are even doubts about you on this issue, so girls will magnify, magnify, magnify this invisible little problem, so how to solve it?
Boy, you must understand that as long as the girl sends you a message, even if you don't read any questions, send him a hug gesture, he also feels very warm in his heart, and she thinks you care about him very much.
Third, for girls, if the boy doesn't reply to your message, please stop your cranky thinking, he is really just moving bricks. When he really has time, you can confront him one by one, awaken his amnesiac mind, and he will tell you clearly what he was doing at that time, he just needs an emotional switch.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12In love, there are indeed chickens and ducks talking about this phenomenon. This is caused by the fact that two people can't talk together, and the two people have different views.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11If two people's three views are inconsistent, there will be a situation where communication is very difficult, sometimes it is easy to quarrel, and it is very difficult for two people to communicate.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Boys and girls have different ways of thinking, many times girls only focus on the surface, while boys will think about the inside, which will cause two people to quarrel all the time, and neither of them can understand who is saying.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09A rebellious silly chick falls in love with a ruffian.
She thought this was love. Vigorous, electric and flint. Even moths to the fire are not spared.
Silly chicks are so stupid. She tried her best to be nice to him, find him bugs, give birth, and wanted to give the duck a place in the chicken world.
She thought that the power of love was great and invincible.
But the duck's world is in the water. Besides, he is a ruffian.
He loves to take a dip in the water. With other hens. They chase. They rejoice. They are free.
The ruffian forgot that the silly smirk was waiting for him to come home. Also forgot about their love.
Silly chick thinks: I'm so good to him, why does he still like water? What's so good in the water?
Finally, one day, the silly chick dived. It wanted to know what was in the water that was attracting the ducklings.
The stupid chick dives beautifully. Like a swan. It finally understands that people who are not in the same world can never resonate at the same frequency.
The love she wanted at the beginning was just the love of the imagination.
True love is when a person says: Honey, look at those stupid ducks, there are fat insects buried in the grass and want to get wet and go to the water to catch small fish. The other immediately chimed in: "My dear, you're right! Let's have a full meal!
The ruffian has finally returned to his own world, and he no longer has to be bound by chicks.
He lived a free life again. I thought I was as happy as I was.
But why is there a little pain in my chest? Be.
That's his character, don't think about it, his character is like that, if you are guessing, it is estimated that you will break up without dividing, you love him to understand what kind of person he is, some people like the feeling of meeting, because he only feels happy when he meets, he thinks that he is only happy when he calls, he just has nothing to do, so it is a waste of time and money, more than accounting, or meeting is affordable, maybe you don't understand why he has such thoughts, you will think what age is now, Doesn't it have to meet to be affordable? But people are sometimes like this, before we didn't have a mobile phone, we can only increase feelings through this way of meeting, but now we all have mobile phones, but some people still like the previous way of meeting, they don't like to call you very much, and rarely meet, but they are on your heart, it's just that time does not allow them to meet often, and when you have time, when you are meeting, he is still happy to have fun with you, but everyone's way of expressing it is different, So don't guess, everyone's love style is different, don't think that he doesn't like you like this, it's just that he likes to meet to increase the relationship between you. If you don't like his way of falling in love, you can put what you want forward and see how he explains, because if you don't communicate, some things are difficult to solve, I have met this kind of person before, and I had the same cranky thoughts as you at that time, and later told him, he said that he liked the feeling of meeting, and he didn't feel it when he texted **, so he didn't want to text **, and then I thought maybe I was too worried, hehe I wish you good luck.
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