What would you do if you were bullied 5

I was bullied by my classmates when I was a child. Because I came from out of town and my accent was not right, the local children would bully me, ridicule me, insult me, and make you do some dirty work that others don't want to do, and if you don't do it, they will beat you up. Another important point is that I was also very poor at the time, so when I had conflicts with my classmates, the teacher always felt that you were a poor student who was to blame, so he would not make decisions for me.

What to do - there is no way, just one word, endure. You can't beat others, you don't fight yourself, and teachers won't believe you, and parents are too busy to make a living. Later, I slowly got together with a few classmates in the class who were poor at studying, and formed a small group, so that others would not bully too much.

When I finished studying, I didn't go back to settle accounts with those people back then, after all, time has changed, and it is better to settle the dispute than to settle the matter - hehe, I think that although I was just a child at the time, I was more shrewd in my way of dealing with people and things than I am now. However, one of my characteristics has not changed, that is, I only like to play and make friends with classmates who are not studying well.

These experiences since I was a child have given me some truths: 1. Only when you become strong and excellent, others will not bully you; Parents, teachers, and now including **, there are many times when they can't shelter you, or won't believe you at all. 2. Interpersonal relationships are very important, and groups will always have more power than individuals.

I haven't experienced any of this firsthand. Only hypothetical.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, if you are bullied, you should after: 1. If you are still underage and are bullied, you can tell your parents first, and we can tell the teacher on campus that this is not a small report, but a brave defense of yourself.

4) If you are bullied, what should you do afterwards?

Hello, very high search disturbance to reply to you, if you Shidan was bullied, afterwards should: 1, if you are still a minor, you can be bullied can tell your parents first, in the campus we can sell to tell the teacher, this is not a small report, but brave to protect yourself.

2, if the situation is serious, you can choose to call the police, Lu Duanjing's campus bullying is now widely concerned by the society, there was a news a few days ago, several underage young women beat another girl for no reason, and caused her physical and psychological harm early warning, although the perpetrators are all minor students in school, they were still sentenced.

3. If we are already an adult, we can choose to fight back if we are bullied, of course, this is also a bad way to cook socks, but I advocate that he should return his body in the way of others to prevent being bullied again, it is best to make him scared, so that he does not dare to bully you.

4. The second solution to being bullied as an adult: call the police, if you are not willing to use violence to solve the problem of Li Wei, you can choose to call the police, ** will regulate you, and the abuser may also be detained.

It's at school. At school, I went to contact the teacher to deal with it, I couldn't bear it, and the more I endured it, the more it was excessive.

What to do if you are bullied at school.

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Tell the teacher and tell the parents at the same time.

Children will eventually leave adults to live independently, and if children want to be able to face all kinds of conflicts in the future, from fighting to bullying, they must learn the following five things. Safe growth is more important than success!

We usually brush ** or around ourselves may encounter, two or three children, one of them aggressively pushing, slapping, and even kicking another child, and the bullied child may be so aggrieved that he clenches his fists, and he doesn't know how to fight back with tears that can't stop flowing. So the question is, should the child hit back when he encounters this situation at school?

Support the child to fight back, but I am afraid that the child will learn to be violent, and I am afraid that the child will be bullied and wronged if I don't fight back. If a child can hurt someone, then the other parent must have a problem in the parent-child relationship and educating the child, so what should be done? In fact, what is more important than calling back is that parents must do these five things.

First of all, the first one, the father can usually do more slapstick training with the child, and the slapstick training here refers to exercising the child's defense ability.

Second, don't beat and scold and yell at the child, the child has less self-esteem and self-confidence in the beating and scolding again and again, and he still doesn't dare to speak up at home, so he can't be expected to dare to fight back outside?

The third is to teach children to "quarrel", that is, to call for help, and when someone is bullying, they must say loudly: "Don't move, don't touch me!" You can't do this to me, I'm going to call someone. "It's a momentum to scare the other side.

The fourth is particularly important, to teach children a sense of boundaries, for example: "accidentally touch" and "intentional injury" difference, if it is intentional injury such as being slapped should be dealt with immediately, to establish the child's sense of self-protection.

Fifth, if you can't beat and roar, what should you do? At this time, it is necessary to teach children, find parents, friends, teachers, and find all the people who can be found for help, so as to avoid secondary injuries, and safe growth is more important than success.

Of course, I have been hurt in the workplace, and I often hear people say that in the workplace, there is no job that is not wronged, and every penny in the salary is angry, and for the sake of money, these grievances can be forgiven. But have you ever thought about how many of these grievances are man-made grievances, and how many grievances are bullied by others. So what should we do in the face of workplace injuries?

If it's between colleagues, don't choose to put up with it blindly after being bullied.

In many cases, because we are new to the workplace, we are not familiar with some things, and lack of experience, so we are often bullied by those old employees, in order to show their authority, let us not threaten them, or just see us ignorant, bully us, let us do everything; And they attribute the bullying to us to the punishment we deserve for our own incompetence, so let's not think that they are deliberately bullying us.

In such cases, we must resolutely say: no; But due to our lack of experience, many aspects also need their guidance, so we do not clash with them head-on, we can explain that some work is not done by us, learn to be tactful, although it is difficult for us to do the right and left, but the most basic etiquette to pay attention to, on the other hand, we need to work our own, strive to master the company's situation, as soon as possible to master the knowledge required by the post, only their own excellent, only have the confidence to fight.

Summary. Others bully you, you should not use violence to counter violence, first of all, don't be arrogant and unreasonable, otherwise you will turn yourself into another person who is used to solving problems with violence or become another arrogant and unreasonable person.

Someone is bullying you, what should you do.

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Others bully you, you should not use violence to counter violence, first of all, don't be arrogant and unreasonable, otherwise you will turn yourself into another person who is used to solving problems with violence or become another arrogant and unreasonable person.

Fight back appropriately, don't behave too softly or even let others think that you are a cowardly person, otherwise this kind of person may see you as a bully, harass you every day, and often bullies you.