How to quarrel wisely with your significant other?

First of all, you must be clear about what the reason for your quarrel is, even if you are inexplicable and unreasonable when you first quarrel, you must start thinking about why you want to be so angry and want to do this battle.

Next, there are some techniques that can be used in the process of arguing, such as, 1. Control the time and number of times to turn over old accounts. This can't be done by not turning over the old account at all, it's too high-level, it's not that you can't turn it over, but don't turn it too hard, stop in moderation, every time you quarrel, if you can't help but turn over the old account, it's enough to turn it over once, and the time can't be too long.

2. Don't say "every time" and "you never" in general, just the time you turned it, say, "What happened to you last time", it's okay, so that the other party will understand, oh, it turns out that you didn't handle it well with me that time, then he can pay attention to it next time, but if you say "never" will completely beat this person to death with a stick, and the heart to change is gone, anyway, I am such a person.

3. When the quarrel is over, regardless of whether the quarrel comes to a conclusion or not, you can tell the other party that I am actually very afraid of your "don't love me anymore", "don't care about me anymore", "don't want me anymore" ......In short, you must show weakness, and don't say "I'm like this because I love you", the other party will resist fiercely, you call it love me, please don't love me! Whether it is a man or a woman, once they show softness and weakness, the other party's attitude will immediately be different.

But beware, if you don't think this way in your heart, it's useless to say it, because the other person won't believe it at all.

In the end, even if you just said this, you can't think about it, it doesn't matter, you must review it after the quarrel! Recap! Recap! Say the important thing three times!

Because if you are always angry like this, you will be controlled by your emotions and completely lose control of yourself, then how you and your other half will develop in the future will not be up to you. Therefore, the quarrel must also be clear, otherwise after this addiction, the next time it should be quarreled or argued, there will be no progress.

Is there any wisdom in quarreling? After a long time, I only know that I try not to quarrel with my other half. As long as one party retreats from this fight, there will be no quarrel, if it is a man, then he should tolerate the woman, the girl's character is like that, and she can't stand the grievances in her eyes, so the tolerance will pass.

It's good to find common ground while reserving differences, for example, your home needs to be equipped with an air conditioner now. However, the spare money on hand is limited, and your other half wants to buy a dressing table, and you can only choose one of the two. Then you quarrel over this matter, and you both feel that you have added a reasonable amount and don't want to tolerate it.

So at this time, as a boy, you should stop and not speak, and start to think about the nature of the whole thing, if you say that you have to buy an air conditioner, you have to have one in summer, but if it is another season, you can endure this for a while, and it is okay not to turn on the air conditioner. And then there's the makeup mirror, girls like to wear makeup, and then they have to dress up beautiful every day, so it's really important to have a makeup table, and your girlfriend is beautiful, and you have face when you go out, isn't it? So at this time, you coax her first, and then get angry and tell her to buy a makeup table first and tell her your analysis, and she will be very happy.

The second is the summer season, the house is hot and you can't sleep, and there are mosquitoes staring at you, so at this time the air conditioning is very needed, and the makeup mirror has endured it for a while, and it is okay to endure it. Now you still put away your temper and coax her in the past, coax her and tell her about your current situation, I believe that under your gentleness, sensible girls will agree, then the matter will be solved perfectly, every time you use this method when you quarrel, usually you can't quarrel.

There is no wisdom in quarreling, the best way is to give a slap and a date, and it is wise to end the quarrel in the shortest time and make the other half willing to apologize to you.

My husband and I rarely have a quarrel, and every time we quarrel, no matter what the reason is, no matter who is right or wrong, it ends with my husband apologizing. Although my husband is willing to apologize to me because he cares that I don't want me to be angry, I think I am the kind of person who uses wisdom to quarrel with him in a quarrel, and even if I am wrong, he can make him apologize to me willingly.

When we quarrel, the maximum limit I give myself is half an hour, and in any case, half an hour must end the war, otherwise after a long quarrel, I am afraid that it will be out of control, and it will not be worth it.

The momentum of the quarrel must be there, if you are strong, he will be weak, this is not the time to be louder, don't be in a hurry to quarrel at first, wait for him to finish what he should say, seize his loopholes and then start to reason with him, just talk about things, I'm afraid I was wrong at the beginning, and he was wrong in the end by holding his loopholes.

When giving him a theory, the speed of speech can't be too fast, and when he can't resist it, he can start to shed a little tears slowly, crying about his badness, remember not to cry, it is easy for women to cry annoying, and it is best not to cry half-crying. Men generally can't escape women's tears, and as long as they are used properly, tears are the best wisdom.

When the crying is almost over, just see that he has some remorse, accept it when he sees it, and know how to give him a step down. Anyway, every time I quarrel to see that my husband is ready to soften, I start to hum and chirp to give him a coquette, and my husband will quickly apologize to me when he sees that I am no longer arguing and giving him face, and this quarrel will pass.

If you're really wise, don't solve the problem with a fight. When there is a problem, the two should have a good chat and solve the problem, so why do they have to quarrel?

I think the best love should be that you are happy with each other, and you also know how to understand each other and know how to tolerate each other, so that your love will feel happy. If you do quarrel, then you can't say nasty things so that the conflict between you doesn't intensify.

The most important thing in a quarrel is to grasp the timing. Two days ago, my husband and I quarreled, when I realized that he was going to slam the door in the next second, I immediately bounced up from the sofa, ran to him and kissed him with tears on my face, and then quickly ran to the bedroom to bury my head and cry, and after a while, he took a wet towel and squatted in front of me, wiping my tears while apologizing to me.

You should quarrel with your other half like a joke and let him enjoy it.