Tell us about the people and things that make you feel that the routine is profound?

The farthest road in life is your routine. This sentence seems to be a joke, but it is true that people who have passed the road are deeply helpless.

I remember when I was in college, we were still young and didn't have so much social experience and scheming, however, after a blow, we realized that it was only for us. <>

Anyone who has been to college knows what the annual comprehensive assessment is all about, which is a ranking method that combines final grades and social activities, which is more representative than final grades.

So there will be a group of people who have average grades but participate in a lot of activities in school, and I thought the process was transparent, but I found that it was all a routine.

Some people can write their names on other people's awards, and some people can abuse their power to give themselves extra points, and everyone is working tirelessly for this, and I realized that this is the routine of their achievements?

Maybe, this is a small society, then the future routines will be more far-reaching, I can't do it while learning the routines of others, so learn to be smart and don't be tricked by others.

That's what I see happen to other people, about a guy and a girl who have been together for many years. Seeing that it's time to get married when you're not young, the parents of both sides have also seen it, but they can't get married for a long time. It's because the woman's family asks for a bit of a lot of bride price, and the man can't take it out at once.

Because it is not easy to get married now, the man still has to buy a house and a car, so he is a little powerless in the face of the high bride price, and he borrows wine every day to eliminate his sorrows. <>

But who doesn't want to marry love, who doesn't want to marry love, they have been in love with each other for so long, and they love him very much, and they don't want to delay their happiness because of some money. One day, the boy dressed up very energetically and came to the woman's house early, took tens of thousands of yuan, and wrote an IOU, an IOU for repayment. Every month, when he clocked in with his salary to the woman, the woman's parents felt that the young man was still very sincere, so they agreed to pay the bride price in installments.

In this way, the wedding went smoothly, and the two of them were very happy together. Every once in a while, the boy would pay his salary to the woman's parents' card.

Who knows that after only half a year, the girl will be in her mother's house when she hasn't played much, and as soon as she enters the door, she yells at her parents, I can't open the pot when I ask for money, do you want money or sell your daughter, and then you are ready to let us live. When the parents saw their daughter like this, they couldn't bear to ask for any more money, and the bride price was offset in this way. After all, it's a family now.

Now that I think about it, this is all a routine, the man has already seen through everything, set up a game, and let the bride price money be solved. also got married, this is a profound routine, and the routine is popular.

You need to be careful not to tell him all the secrets of your heart, it is likely that he will use what you have said to threaten you to achieve his own goals, do not have a heart to heart with such a person, do not believe what he says easily, it is best to keep a certain distance.

Be careful to keep an open mind, discuss but not argue, disagree but not be annoying. When interacting with people, there is no need to worry about gossip about you, so as to respond to all changes, nervousness and bad intentions are generally the reasons for the right and wrong behind the scenes. When interacting with people, be careful to put a lock on your mouth and don't try to say everything you want.

When you interact with people who are very deep in routines, be careful not to give too much sincerity, because they have a lot of hearts, so if you negotiate too much, you will not be able to get out of life.

I think that when interacting with people who are very routine, you must pay attention to yourself and have reservations, so as not to let yourself be hurt a lot in this relationship.

Don't have a thorough relationship with them. We must protect our own interests. Don't lose yourself by some people's words. Must have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Some things can be heard, and some things should never be listened to. And don't promise anything they say.

Look at the character, the poor character really needs to stay away immediately, and it is absolutely impossible to have deep friendships, even if the character is good, he is not harmful, but it has no effect.

Don't get involved with it. The tone of speech should be tactful. The person needs to be guarded at all times. Whether it is big or small, do not offend him. Don't take advantage of the person.

The first is to never have a deeper communication with the other person, and be sure to keep a safe distance, and don't talk about more private or workplace topics when talking.

When communicating, you must pay attention, be careful when speaking, resolutely do not say what you can't say, act according to your eyes, and don't show all your hole cards.

Dating women, with these "routines", women are your people sooner or later.

<>Maybe many people have encountered this situation with pins, and colleagues use words to deceive you. In this case, you can't take it lightly. Some people carelessly think it's okay.

As a result, if you don't pay attention to your words, you may be framed by your colleagues.

In fact, many formulas are fixed. For example, some people will ask you: What do you think of so-and-so?

How do you think about leadership and so on. If someone asks you, then you need to be careful. As long as you are cautious about these words, they can be easily recognized.