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Most of today's young people are more impetuous, and they generally don't feel any problems getting along with friends outside. But as soon as I get home, it's different, I just say anything, I'm not afraid of offending my relatives, and I don't care if they will be sad, because I'm your child, no matter what, you're my relatives, and if I say anything that hurts you, you won't leave me because of it. So, that's why you won't have too many conflicts when you get along with others outside, and when you get home, there will be a bunch of family conflicts, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, in fact, the problem is that this problem arises, and we all know that the other party will not leave us.
I think the words that hurt my parents the most are: I don't need you to care. Usually my parents always like to take care of us, and they like to ask what we did when we went to **.
And as children, we don't like others to always ask us questions, we think it's really annoying, how can there be such a verbose person. So when we get upset, we say things we shouldn't say. <>
Once, I went out with a friend, and after I came back, my parents always asked me if my friend was **, when did I meet you, and you all went to ** to play today! I feel speechless, why do you ask people where they live and what their names are, and you'll understand? So I said:
You keep asking what you're doing with all this useless stuff. Mom said, "Isn't it just asking?"
You'll do it, and it's not going to be good. I suddenly burst into a sentence: I don't care about you, who I hang out with, you know that I just go out to play, why do you care so much.
Mom was very sad and stopped asking, and rarely asked this kind of question in the future.
When I grew up and became sensible, I realized how unfilial I was before. So, don't say something bad to hurt your parents' hearts.
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In fact, as long as you complain about your parents, most of the words you say are hurtful, especially these are the most serious.
1.You're so annoying- This is usually said in an impatient situation, maybe the parents are talking to you at the time, you are just saying something casually, but the parents are old and will think that their children are tired of themselves when they hear this.
2.I told you you don't understand eitherHowever, maybe after we say it, our parents still don't understand, and we will always let ourselves explain for a long time, many times, in order to stop wasting words and tongues to explain, we will say such a sentence, and then we will always break the hearts of our parents.
3.Can you leave me alone- Children who still live with their parents may not have time to tidy up their rooms when they are busy, or they may not tidy up at all because they are lazy.
At this time, it is often our parents who sort it out for us, but when something is put in another position by our parents and we can't find it for a while, this sentence is often blurted out.
4.Okay, okay, I know, hang- The only thing parents are concerned about is whether we are doing well outside and whether we have wronged ourselves, so they will always take the initiative to ask about our situation.
Maybe when you come, you are working, or you are partying with friends, etc., but often when your parents tell you to rest more and eat on time, you always take the initiative to hang up your parents' ** impatiently.
Do you know how disappointed the parents on the other end will be when you hang up**, and they want their children to take the initiative to call ** back.
Parents have gradually grown old, and they are no longer the big trees that could shelter themselves from the wind and rain when they were children, they have begun to slowly age, and they are becoming more and more verbose, but they will never be as strong as before.
A child's unconscious words may make them sad for a long, long time, but I hope that the children of the world can love them as our parents loved us when we were children.
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If it were me, all I could think of would be that I'm grown up and don't need you to care about me!
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The 4 words that hurt your parents the most, you must not say them, treating your parents well is the greatest blessing!
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<> "The 5 most heartbreaking words for parents, don't say it."
If you're not annoyed, don't have anything to do with me, just hang it up.
You are not allowed to enter my room or touch my things.
You don't understand this matter from you, don't ask me, it's annoying.
How many times have I told you, I don't want you to do it, and if you don't do it well, it will add to the chaos!
It's okay to say a few words, if you don't speak, no one will be dumb for you.
There is a kind of regret called: the tree is dry and the wind does not stop, the son wants to raise and the kiss does not wait, some words can not be taken back, good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June.
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1. Why don't you treat me well, love deeply, hate deeply, if you are ruthless, I will be unrighteous. 2. In fact, it has always been family members who have fallen into the well, and those who have helped each other have always been friends, and they are very disappointed in their families. 3. Despair, any difficulties in the past are disappointments!
This time it was desperate. Disappointment in yourself, in your family, and in everyone! I didn't expect this year to be like this, I don't want to survive, it's over, what else do I have to live?
4. No regrets, no hatred, just disappointment, disappointment you are not what I want. 5. I really don't understand, should girls choose marriage casually because of their age? For the first time, I was disappointed in my family.
Special! Disappointed! 6. Work and family are always difficult to take care of.
It is not the leader or the family who is disappointed. Your family is disappointed in you, and no matter how good your work is, you are autistic. The leader is disappointed in you, and he is not responsible for his family.
7. It is not difficult to see people carrying burdens: how others raise their parents is unfilial; It's not as good as itself. 8. There is no one in this world who lives easier than others, but some people are shouting to the heavens and the earth, and some people are silently holding on.
9. Lao Tzu is really tired, I don't need you to teach me how to be a man. I didn't teach it when I was a child, and I grew up talking about the philosophy of life. Trust in your family will only bring disappointment again and again, you10, sometimes people can't be too kind, you have to know how to stop in moderation, you are too kind, it will only make people think that you are weak and can be bullied.
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Have I ever been hurt by a word for a long time? Then this one is definitely there.
For example, I was once sentenced: If you don't do housework and study, what else can you do? It's been a long time since I've been hurt.
This sentence actually. It may be more common in families, because it may be more normal for parents to get angry sometimes. In the families I have seen, this is the case, because if you don't do the housework, then you may say that you are not filial or lazy or something, which is what your parents think.
Moreover, in the post-00s generation, there is indeed a relationship between them and their parents. There are some generation gaps or some different perceptions. And parents may be influenced by the older generation, and they will feel that reading is the only way out.
To be honest, I think reading in my mind, he is indeed a good way out, and he can get you very quickly. Crossing a class, let's say you used to be a farmer, then you learn to become a merchant or become a merchant by studying. Intellectuals, or not professors, etc.
Learned people. But reading is not the only way out, for example, you may have some business acumen, or you have more perseverance, you can make your own outstanding achievements from other aspects, but your parents don't think so. They say that reading is the only way out, and this sentence has a deep impact, so we often clash with them.
At home, it probably is. We may play for a long time, so parents may see you when you play, and they will feel very angry because they are working hard outside, and they may be very angry when they see you playing very leisurely. And then at this stage, for example, in middle school or high school, then there is a lot of competition, because everyone may not just learn them in school.
There is also the possibility of enrolling in cram schools outside of class, that is to say, you may be in class six days a week, and you may have to write homework one day on Sunday, so the competition is very big, you are excellent, others will be even better, then this competition will be very great, not that you don't work hard, but that you work hard, and others will learn from the dead. So his parents are not. I know this too well, and they will often compare you with other people, for example, other people who are so good at reading, and you can't, if you study and do a little bit of housework, it's okay, so this is also very, very hurtful, this is something I can't get out of for a long time, because at that time I was powerless to refute, I do think that I can't read.
Then I feel sorry for them. But this one has to go slowly. Look at it, learn to be tolerant of yourself, and be kind to yourself.
Because everyone is constantly being chased by others on the road of life. Sometimes it's okay to give yourself relaxation, but what? You must do what you want to do.
That makes sense.
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