My boyfriend is cold today and enthusiastic tomorrow, what s the matter?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    A girl said to me, "That's the kind of person I am." Actually, we can't say clearly, we are all conflicted. We sometimes suffer unhappy things, but we don't want to pass on this emotion to the people we like, so we choose to be silent and endure.

    In fact, we need more attention from girls at this time. A greeting, or just a silent accompaniment. So in the future, when your boyfriend is cold to you, you don't have to say too much, just accompany him like this and don't show unhappiness.

    He must have been impressed. When you don't speak, he worries that you are unhappy and teases you again. One thing is for sure, though, he likes you.

    Love can't stand the guessing game, the best solution is to tell him well, really! You want to believe me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I wouldn't mind, unless it was something I did together that made him angry.

    This mood, like the weather, do you know that every day is sunny?

    The table cares too much about the other person's feelings... Even if you love it very much, you have to leave some space for yourself, people are different from person to person, there is no need to stare at it so dead.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Today he is satisfied and does not need you. Tomorrow he wants to be very depressed, so he is enthusiastic. It's as simple as that. Don't believe you, ask him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girls' minds, boys, you don't have to guess.

    Now it is. Boys' minds, girls, you don't have to guess.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Men don't understand themselves, don't guess, take your time... You don't feel good about this ... And they told him ...

    I think he loves you ... Something will change ... What are the thoughts to say ...

    It's no problem if it's solved.。。。 Otherwise, it will go further and further.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    …The same goes for the people I like.

    Blowing hot and cold. It seems to feel.

    I like him more than he likes me.

    Everything revolves around him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't worry too much about it. Be optimistic, the woman must have been depressed for a long time, and the more she thinks about it, the worse it gets, and the man may just think: Hey, why did Barcelona lose again today.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you're definitely making him feel the pressure. Think about whether you are talking to another boy and letting him see it? Is it that you look better than him and make him feel afraid of losing you? But such a man is very reliable and very single-minded (I am). Dig haha! )

    To sum up: he loves you very much

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is one of the typical types of unacceptable boyfriends, the problem is mainly on yourself, you can try to change him, or to accept his personality, but when it's time to let go, you have to let go and not drag the mud and water.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After being together, why men are getting colder and colder to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Dear, this teacher can't give you an accurate answer now, because the teacher knows less about each other, but it can be seen from this incident that you have the determination to share weal and sound with him, so the teacher thinks that there is a high probability that you will come to the end. If you go through this difficult time with him, then the teacher believes that there is a more than 90% probability that you will come to the end.

    The cold boyfriend is suddenly enthusiastic. Is it that he has fallen out of love.

    Hello dear<>

    He is suddenly enthusiastic about you, and there are two situations. In the first case, you may do something, which stirs up some ripples in his heart, and then he is naturally enthusiastic about you. The second situation is that he may have done something wrong outside, and he may want to ask you for promotion or some help, so he is enthusiastic about you, and he hopes to get your help.

    Maybe, he said that he was doing business with money, and told me, I accepted it, maybe ordinary women can't accept him to accompany money, after all, it's a rural area, dear, you're right. Generally, it is more difficult to start a business from a rural area, and if you can choose him at this time, it shows that you love him very much, and it also proves that you are a person who does not care about fame and fortune, and you are willing to share hardships and hardships with him. Teacher wishes you all the best in the end.

    Teacher, can we come together.

    Dear, this teacher can't give you an accurate answer now, because the teacher knows less about each other, but from this incident, it can be seen that you have the determination to share weal and woe with him, so the teacher thinks that there is a high probability that you will go to the end. If you go through this difficult time with him, then the teacher believes that there is a more than 90% probability that you will come to the end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People treat you warmly. You react coldly. Guys definitely think you don't like him.

    If you like him too. How much of a reaction? He would.

    Chase you! And one more is. He doesn't like you very much.

    If I like you very much. She'll hold on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think your cold reaction has worn down the boy's enthusiasm ......You must know that the boy is attentive to you, but he never gets your feedback, and slowly he loses hope!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How normal it is that when others pursue you, they are enthusiastic, but you douse all their reverie with a basin of water, and everyone will be disheartened. So, even if you don't feel good about him, at least politely refuse, otherwise you won't even be able to be a friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If a guy is very enthusiastic about you at first, it means that he really has a crush on you, he really likes you, but after getting along for a while and finding that he is cold to you, it means that he may have found something, or you have hurt him, which is possible. You have to find the cause and fix it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The boy was enthusiastic at first. But you don't like people, and you react coldly. People really don't see hope, so they don't be enthusiastic. This is a perfectly normal thing. Do you regret it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That's cause and effect. Treat others as you would have them do unto you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's that he doesn't like you very much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you like him now?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. He pursues you on impulse;

    2. If you want to catch it, you can indulge it;

    3. Maybe he has something to do.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Respect for others is respect for yourself! Why are you cold to people? Everyone has self-esteem! When you hurt others, you hurt yourself at the same time, you know? So you see his coldness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Deliberately tested.

    Your boyfriend's attitude has become cold, and it is possible that he is deliberately testing you. Because in the face of love, boys will also have hesitation. He needs to know his place in your heart!

    So take the approach of suddenly becoming cold and see if you will take the initiative to contact him! Judge your own importance by this!

    There is a need that is not being met.

    Why is he cold after quarreling and reconciled, boys are always more naïve than girls of the same age! So if your boyfriend becomes cold, it's likely that he's being childish. There must be some requirements that the girl did not meet him.

    So he will take a sulky way to fight for his rights! It's like a little child treats its mother.

    In our emotional world, we have all been confused.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Boyfriend 100 for you and 100 for him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you quarrel, it's easy for people to reveal their true colors, and it is possible that you have made the other person feel uncomfortable or terrible! Summarize why you quarreled, what the reason is, open your hearts to each other and communicate well, if the misunderstanding is not solved in time, there will always be problems!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Tell you three reasons why you are cold.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    is suddenly very cold to you, that's the reason why he has been under a lot of pressure at work recently.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Is it just a little cold all of a sudden, or suddenly cold. There's a big difference. Sometimes it's just because you're in a bad mood. Or maybe something is going on. You can take another look. If it's still like this in a few days, I probably don't like you.

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