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I have always been a hedonistic person before I got married, and I can say that I was like this all the time before I had a baby, but after I had a baby, I began to change, and I can say that I was always a child before, and now that I have my own child, I have to grow up.
I finally began to reflect on my attitude towards life, my own way of life, and finally realized how difficult it is to be a parent. Especially after the baby is one year old, I began to feel the pressure, but the first thing I did to persist until now is not to work hard to earn more money, but to go home every weekend at the beginning, but to say that the child who left the mother is pitiful, and the mother who left the child is also pitiful, after I went to work, and the baby was in two cities, I was in Zhengzhou, and he was in Puyang.
After leaving the child, I really miss him very much, every day in the middle of the night to have a dream about the child, during the day to see other people's children are sad to death, but the first half of the month the child is to be weaned, I can't go back, half a month later, I see the white and chubby baby face yellow muscle thin, I don't want to leave again, but think about the current conditions are not allowed to sit at home and eat empty, and I don't want to be a full-time mother all the time, so I still left.
Since then, I have started to go back to see my children every week, our company is a weekend, so I have two days off a week, generally in order to spend more time with my children, I take the car back in the middle of the night, and come back in the middle of the night, which is very hard, but every time I think of leaving the child alone at home, I feel sorry for him, and then I want to cry inexplicably, so I am tired, no matter the wind or rain, I have to come back.
Because I am his mother, I should have been by his side, and I wanted to be by his side, but I didn't do it, so I had to work harder and strive to be with him for a longer time, and just like that, I have persevered until now, and I have not stopped for more than two years.
Another thing that only started this year, is to read a book for an hour every day, in order to accomplish this goal, I also bought a handbag, the big one can hold a notebook and two books plus some sundries, I am very satisfied with this bag, because I want to read the book to buy the bag in order to be worthy of my original intention, so I have always put a book and a notebook in my bag, at any time to record my deep experience, to complete my goal of reading an hour of books every day.
Every time I think about it, I also stick to this, sometimes I feel that my whole body is going to be su when I come home from work, and my whole body hurts, but when I see my bag, I think that it is so expensive to buy it so that I can read a good book every day, I am too sorry for my bag if I don't read it, I grit my teeth, I insist, I really insist until now, I now feel that my energy is really strong, as long as I think, I can do it.
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Make money, as long as it is to make money, no matter how tired and hard it is, you must persevere. The word money is the first place, and it is said that money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible. Many people will say, what do you do with so much money, you don't bring it with you in life, and you don't take it with you in death.
That's right, if I rain RMB on the balcony one day, I don't think you can rob it, you don't care about the money, why don't you come and get some for me.
In fact, in life, there has always been the law of crabs. What is the crab rule, you put a bag of crabs in a bucket, and they won't climb out no matter how they climb, not because the bucket is too high, but if one crab stretches out its claws and wants to climb out, the other crabs will try their best to pull it down. It's the same in life, if your family decides to do some business and hopes to get support from your neighbors, they will tell you not to toss around, this situation is very good, you don't have to worry about food and clothing, so it's enough.
The neighborhood doesn't want you to do better and better, they don't want you to move out of here for a bigger villa, they just want you to be like them, always be a group of frogs at the bottom of the well, and when they see that you want to climb out of the well, they will also work together to pull you down.
There are many people who ask me if it's worth it, my good youth is wasted on such things, first, I can learn from experience, and second, I can get an extra salary. Why should I stop? No matter how hard and tired you are, you have to persevere.
Shouldn't you be in your twenties shopping with your girlfriends, drinking afternoon tea, and going out to travel? I'm sorry, but I can't do these things until I'm in my 40s, and I believe yours in your 40s are living the life I had in my twenties. I have a large number of "Luo Zijun" to raise behind me, how can I give up.
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Stress is an intangible thing, invisible and intangible, it can promote growth, or it can overwhelm people. Everyone has a certain amount of pressure to a greater or lesser extent. However, stress is not terrible, what is terrible is the appearance of decadence in the face of pressure.
If you can't find a reason to stick with it, find a reason to start over, life is as simple as that. It only takes a little courage for you to turn your life around and start over. Life is too short to leave time for regrets, if it is not the end, please smile and keep moving forward.
Colorful clouds float in the air, naturally triumphant, but at most they can only be exchanged for a few compliments; Only by turning into sweet rain and taking root in the fertile soil can we create fragrant flowers for the world!
The road of life is not long or short, each section of the road has the scenery of each section of the road, and each section of the road has the responsibility of each section of the road. There will be wind and sunshine along the way, as well as rain, snow, wind and frost; There will be difficulties and obstacles, and there will be a flat river. We can't control what others think; We can't force others to do anything.
The only thing you can do is to do your own thing with all your heart, go your own way, and live well according to your own principles. You must be shrewd and confused.
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If you don't find a reason to stick to it at work, then you should change jobs, if it's another goal, then the goal can't be persevered, then change the goal, there are always some goals that you want to achieve.
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There is no reason for you to persevere, so your heart is very tired, so since you don't want to stick to it, you should stop the loss in time and do what you should insist on, so that you will not be tired.
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A passage from Liu Yong is very suitable for you, and I will send it to you:
You can go without climbing a mountain for the rest of your life, but you must have a mountain in your heart. It makes you always climb to a high place, it makes you always have a direction to struggle, and it makes you look up at any moment to see your own hope.
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There's no reason for me to keep going, I'm so tired, huh? If you want to feel tired, then you have to give up this thing or this work and look for a new job that makes you feel good.
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Don't think about anything, just eat, drink, sleep and sleep, or cover your face with a quilt, cry, and vent all your emotions, I have had such a time, but life is not because of someone or something, walk over, you will find that everything in front of you is nothing.
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There's no reason to stick with me, I'm so tired, and you have to look at it from your point of view. If you want to be wide on the other person's footsteps, you will understand it when you think back and forth, and you will not get tired.
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In order to become a better version of yourself, in order to become the person you like, in order to live the life you want to live, these are all reasons for you to persevere. If you have a problem, solve it, and things will get better.
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Don't you have a reason to keep going? I'm so tired and tired, I think no matter what difficulties you encounter, so as soon as you grit your teeth, it's over, and you have to persevere.
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Do you have a car, a house, tens of millions ,...of savings, and a harmonious and happy familyThere's no reason to keep going, isn't it enough for you to work hard.
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I think you have to adjust your mental state, in fact, that's the way it is in life. You often encounter some times when you are disappointed and have no faith to persevere, but you can't give up, as long as you don't give up, I think there will be a moment full of future after all.
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There is no reason for you to persevere, so I advise you to take a good rest, rest yourself, let your body release, and then decide whether you want to stick to it later?
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Why isn't there a reason to keep going? Think about your loved ones, think about your loved ones, and your family, all of which are reasons to keep going.
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If there is no reason for you to stick to something, then of course you should choose to give up. Or choose a new thing you like. That way, you won't feel tired.
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Even if there is no reason to insist on it, then you can consider considering your parents, it is not easy to raise you so big.
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There is no reason for me to persevere, I am so tired and tired, I can't persevere, think about the person who gave birth to you, think about the person who gave birth to you, and figure it out, sometimes people are sometimes sober and sometimes confused, and if you figure it out, continue to work hard.
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Many people feel this way a lot of the time, and as long as they get through this time, they won't think like this. This is also a test of life! If you live, you have to keep going.
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If there's no reason to keep going, what do you think you're in? If it's in terms of feelings, then you can take a look at the two of you and discuss things well, and see if there is a problem. What is the solution?
If it's career, set a new goal for yourself. Or a different job.
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There is no reason for you to persevere, this sentence is not a reason in itself, even if you don't have a reason to persist now, then why not find a reason for yourself to persevere, set a goal for yourself, let yourself achieve this goal in the shortest possible time to reflect your own value, let yourself live a better life in all aspects of work or family, if you don't set a goal for yourself, you will be at a loss all day long, and you don't know what to do.
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There is no reason for you to persevere, your heart is so tired, at this time, do you think about the people who love you the most, what about your parents, you didn't raise them well, so you ended your life in a hurry, and your life is a good year, just begun.
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There is no reason for me to persevere, I am so tired and tired, if this is the case, you may be too pessimistic, you should think more about your family, your parents, so that you will have a reason to persevere.
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There is a reason for me to persevere, I am so tired and tired, I think then you have to think about your own happy life in the future, then you must persevere, for your own happiness.
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There are actually many reasons for you to persevere, although it is very tiring, but it is possible to grit your teeth and get through, well, success will be in front of you immediately.
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Stress is something you can't see. It can neither be seen nor touched. It can promote a person's growth or make a person breathless.
Everyone has some stress to a greater or lesser extent. However, stress is not terrible. What is scary is the decadent expression in the face of pressure.
Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Let's live happily and healthily!
If you can't find a reason to stick with it, find a reason to start over. Life is so simple. With a little courage, you can change your life and start over. Life is too short to have any regrets. If it's not over yet, move on with a smile.
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Then don't insist, do what you want to do, and then your heart will be more relaxed.
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Then don't insist, give up, give yourself a vacation, trim well, and travel lightly!
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With the passage of time and the age of each day, living in this real society often feels endless pressure and exhaustion, and often has a feeling of being overwhelmed. In a short life, I have gone through almost a quarter of the rest of the journey, maybe I have achieved a little, maybe I still have nothing, but I all have the same feeling: I feel deeply tired of reality.
Many times there will be the idea of giving up, but when I wake up, I drag my tired body and devote myself to real life with the strongest enthusiasm; Endure the suffering brought to us by reality, force a smile and say that this is a tempering for us, we always experience the suffering given to us by the years and may not be able to live as we want, life is so tired, why are you still insisting?
Are you so tired, why are you still persevering? Many times it's not that we don't want it easy, it's that the pressure of survival weighs us down and we can barely breathe; The reason why we are still persevering is that many times it is not that we still insist on the original dream, but that if we don't persevere, there will be no distance, and the hardships ahead cannot allow us not to hold on to the current suffering.
Sometimes, we still miss our dreams, and we have never let it go, but have always hidden it in our hearts and dare not touch it, for fear of losing the courage to persevere. Nowadays, most of us no longer insist on dreams, often thinking about what a dream is a luxury thing, maybe we can pick it up again after we are based on reality, but after going through the footprints of the years, we find how difficult it is to gain a foothold in reality, and just surviving has exhausted all our strength.
I really envy those who persist because of their dreams, and they can do anything for their dreams; It's just that most of us are mortals, and we can only care about dreams in order to survive; But I think we are all equally great, we are all doing different things because of the existence of a thought, we are all resisting the weight of fate, we are all persevering, even if we do not see the light of liberation from the sea of suffering, but we are still carrying the weight under the night.
Sometimes I'm so tired, why are I still persevering? Everyone has an answer in their hearts: whether it's for their dreams, or for life and family, or even just for themselves to live a little better than yesterday; But whether it is ordinary or noble, mediocre or great; We are all insisting on one of our own thoughts, whether it is a smooth road or a stormy road ahead, we are all insisting on our beliefs; And life is great because of perseverance!
Now I feel helpless and lost. After graduating from university, he directly entered a large state-owned enterprise after graduation, traveled all year round, and after working for 5 years, because he was going to get married, he resigned and went home to find a new job. I have been working as a technician at the grassroots level for 5 years now, with a salary of about 3,000 per month, and I live a 9-to-5 life. >>>More
There are all kinds of people in this society now, and it is very likely that what you say today will run into the ears of others tomorrow, so it is very difficult to tell the truth, and we need to keep ourselves in a safe state at all times, so we can't let ourselves say the truest thoughts in our hearts in everything, and it is very likely that others will take advantage of us.
I myself turned out to be one of the many workers, life is also relatively stable, see the friends around me have their own career, in vanity trouble, the idea of starting their own business has been in my mind over and over, when I first proposed to start my own business with my family, the family is, very opposed, I have no experience in entrepreneurship, I am afraid that I will fail or something, and then at my repeated insistence, the family still compromised, the big deal is to start all over again, I have no worries, Devote yourself to your career. Facts have proved that as long as you are willing to endure hardships and work hard, your efforts will eventually be rewarded, and now your career is becoming more and more stable, and you have been recognized by everyone, and your career is getting better day by day.
There are many things worth remembering, but the most memorable one for me is when my father took me on a bicycle when I was a child, and I watched his back from behind.
When I was in junior high school, I rented a house outside, and one night when I went back, there was a man who had been following behind, I was holding the key in my hand, I hesitated for a moment and didn't open the door, knocked on the door and said that my father opened the door, but in fact there was no one at home, and then the man left. Luckily, I was smart at the time.