It turns out that despair is so terrible!

Hehe, why don't I feel like this?

Do you still love him?

It's not that it's desperate to be terrible, it's that you've really grown up.

Revenge is not advisable, but for the only time, your maturity has allowed you to do things right.

Keep a clear head and get feelings right.

Balance has been found

Feelings are inherently unfair, and there is no saying that you can get something in return if you give it.

Find someone who is worthy of your dedication and knows how to cherish you.

Feelings are like this, there is always one party who takes the initiative.

You can understand it this way:

Hope is the desire for life and the motivation for oneself to live. Without hope, you will be lost and overwhelmed. Most people commit suicide because they have lost hope and motivation to live, and psychologically they cannot bear the torment brought by despair, and living will only bring pain to themselves and distress to others.

Because they already feel that there is no point in living!

As the saying goes: the greater the hope, the greater the chance of disappointment. Where there is hope, there is the possibility of disappointment, but disappointment does not mean that there is no hope.

However, despair is different, despair represents the absence of a little hope. If a person cannot get out of the shadow of despair, then he can easily lose the courage to live. Is it not worse to live than to die!

So, despair is scarier than death!!

That's a mental or spiritual statement.

Despair is worse than death when you have lost everything, and you can't even control the power or ability to die, you must continue to do things for others and continue to extract your surplus value.

Of course, there are other cases, but they are generally rare. However, the biggest similarity is that he cannot grasp the ability to continue to survive himself, that is, he does not even have the ability to think about suicide.

If you despair, you will lose hope for life, lose confidence, and lose the courage and motivation to live.

As the so-called biggest pain is the death of the heart, the death of the heart, just like the walking dead, without emotion, without life.

And death is much simpler than life. Although it is said that it is better to die than to live, but death is instantaneous, and death is a hundred.

But despair, it won't let you die, but it's worse than death.

There must be a reason for this to happen, think for yourself when they started isolating you, and what happened during that time......

Find the reason for everything in yourself.

Go to the bank and grab some money for me, and then go to Jesus to save you.

21 years old,,In fact, who hasn't been confused and desperate when you're young,,After getting through it, you will laugh at yourself when you look back.,You'll feel stupid.。。。 In fact, there is nothing in life that cannot be seen, what is the big thing to die and die?? You think your life is your own?

Your parents worked hard to pull you up, you thought it was easy?? If you don't repay them, do you want them to send you?? Is it selfish???

It's okay to listen to beyond's songs...

Friend, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's wrong to want to die, you've been holding on for so long, you can hold on a little longer, if you can't give up, in fact, you don't need to prove anything, as long as you're happy, happy on it!! Don't think too much, smile*

It's foolish to think that despair is just an escape from reality, from the fact that you're still alive. Death is just a way to escape, and it's not the best way to get rid of it. As long as you think about how much burden death brings to others and how much regret you leave for yourself, you will feel guilty and you will not want to die.

As long as you believe that despair is actually a combination of "waiting" and "hope", you will have the courage to continue living.

Hold on to yourself a little, a little, a little while.

1. 心運意開開 [ xīn huī yì lěng ]

Discouraged and discouraged.

Source: Qing Liang Qichao's "Hunan School of Current Affairs": "If you don't have firm strength, you will be disheartened once you have a setback." ”

Example: Let's not do well in a certain subject

2. 大失所望 [ dà shī suǒ wàng ]

Very disappointed. Source: "The History of the Old Five Dynasties: The Biography of Li Shouzhen": "The official army first arrived; Most of the armies of Shouzhen were under his command; self-proclaimed military intelligence; sit and knock on the city to welcome yourself; and sergeant's backlash; A body blow. ”

Example sentence Tonight's basketball exhibition game was temporarily canceled so that the fans.

3, hanging head frustration [ chuí tóu sàng qì ].

Describe feeling depressed when disappointed or frustrated. Tang Hanyu's "Sending the Poor Text": "The master was depressed and thanked him. ”

Source: Don Hanyu's "Sending the Poor": "The master was depressed; Thank you. ”

Example sentence: Seeing that he was about to turn 30 and was penniless, he returned home angry and angry.

4. 无攻打彩 [ wú jīng dǎ cǎi ].

Slouch. Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Chapter 25: "Xiaohong is going to pass; and did not dare to go over; had to quietly go to the Xiaoxiang Pavilion; took the watering can and returned; Listless; Lying in the room. ”

Example: Mom comes home after a tiring day in the factory.

5. 心如刀割 [ xīn rú dāo gē ].

The pain in my heart was like a knife.

Source: Yuan Zhao Jianfu's "Zhao Li Makes Fat": "Seeing my children and mothers all over the world; When I think about it, my heart cuts like a knife; When I asked the question, I was in tears. ”

Example sentence When he heard the news of his father's death, he couldn't help it.

6, 怅然若失 [ chàng rán ruò shī ].

Stunned: Describe unsatisfactory and unhappy. It's like losing something.

Source: Southern Dynasty Song Liu Yiqing "The World Speaks New Words": "Yin (Hao) was stunned and lost. ”

Example: Looking at the way he looks, everyone doesn't know what to do.

Idioms to describe a person who is completely cold and disappointed: incorrigible, completely dead, useless, dead and alive, etc.

Disheartened

Disappointed, saddened

listless, heartbreaking

Lost and discouraged.

A body blow.

Disheartened, looking through the autumn water

Eager to pierce the eyes, tearing the heart and lungs

The heart is like a knife, and the head is depressed

Stunned, sad

Listless and discouraged.

Discouraged, disappointed, sad, etc.

Hope it helps.

Disappointed, disheartened, and sad.

Disheartened

Heartbreaking

The heart is like a knife

I just don't want to live, the walking dead live, I can do whatever I want, I encounter nothing wind and waves, I encounter a bigger setback, it may be very painful, I want to die, I want to leave this world, I don't care about anything, and the idea is even more terrible, I feel that living a day is a day, and if I can't live, I will die, and if I am seriously ill, the desire to survive will be very, very low, and the psychology will affect the body, so that's it.

I have never despaired, but I have seen desperate people, as if they have seen through life, their loved ones, and everything. It was scary.

What is despair, just because the personal desire is too strong, the multi-faceted nature of things, not to mention a thousand faces, you always forget the desperate side of thinking, despair is not terrible, the terrible thing is that the road meets the cliff and does not know how to turn back.

Mandates vary from country to country**. For example, the United States** is elected for a term of 4 years and can be re-elected, but in principle, it cannot be re-elected for more than 2 terms. Germany** and Estonia** are elected by parliament for a five-year term and can be re-elected once.

Russia** and Finland** are appointed for a term of six years. Ireland** and Italy** are appointed for a term of seven years.

Despair varies from person to person, and so do reactions. If you despair of life. You can lose confidence in life, you can commit suicide or something. I don't know what you're despairing about.

It's as terrible as despair!

Losing confidence in life.

Losing a friend around you.

You will be unhappy.

Being good to yourself is an eternal theme!

Face life positively!

Confucian Taoist terminology. At the beginning of man, the nature of the good human heart and the Dao heart (the heart of the Dao) are opposite, proportional, the more victorious the Dao heart, the better the human heart, and the deeper the Tao karma; And vice versa.

"Vanity**" sticks to whose face to get whose face?