If my boyfriend can t be with me, why doesn t my boyfriend want to spend time with me?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    As long as you are truly in love with each other, distance is not a problem, and at the same time, distance can test what kind of person your friend is, in short: good fate should be cherished.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    According to the survey. 60% of them are all looking for one, and 30% may wait until their boyfriend comes back to split up. Only 10% can be good all the time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Space is not an issue.

    It would be nice if you really loved.

    Don't do stupid things.

    The most important thing now is to keep him well.

    I believe you will be fine in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is not what you think.

    As long as you truly love each other.

    So what's the point of distance?

    My boyfriend and I are separated.

    You can only see each other twice a year.

    It's a good relationship.

    If you really love him, a few greetings from him. You're already very sweet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I feel the same way as you. Because of my boyfriend's work, we don't see each other very often. I also thought about finding someone to accompany me, but I felt sorry for my boyfriend, so I just thought about it. This question also bothers me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't know what to say. Last year, my boyfriend and I were separated, and we missed each other, but in the end, we broke up inexplicably in less than a year, in fact, I understand that we both still love each other, but we just can't be together anymore... Ay!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, he's far away from me, and he can't see each other, but we keep going.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up. You're so tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not seeing each other for a long time, is a problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may just be because the other party is busy with something and can't find time to spend with the other party.

    In this case, I personally think that it is better to communicate more with the other party, especially to be able to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, and learn to empathize. This can be of great help to the relationship between two people.

    Let's tell my story, I and my boyfriend are also in a different place, and there are differences between the two people, especially in many cases, I also feel that I will be relatively distant from each other, or the relationship will be particularly indifferent, after all, two people are not together. There is no way for two people to communicate and communicate better.

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    If you are more optimistic about this relationship, or you like each other more, then you must work hard to take care of this relationship, you must manage this relationship with your heart, you must care about him, if you firmly believe in this relationship, but you don't have to do it, whether it is a long-distance relationship.

    is still two people together, and the final result will be to choose to separate.

    Back to the beginning of the article, you still care more about the other party, so you have to boldly express your true thoughts in your heart, you need to communicate with each other more, create more opportunities to be with each other, when you do this, I believe that the other party can also feel their love for him, and the relationship between the two people will become very good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This may be because your boyfriend is too busy and doesn't have much time to spend with you, and if he has time but doesn't spend time with you, it may mean that he doesn't like you as much as he used to.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend's reluctance to spend time with you means that something is wrong between the two of you.

    Between lovers, they are all glued together, and your boyfriend is unwilling to spend time with you, which means that he no longer has much attachment to you, or he is empathetic, or he is tired of it and wants to give up this relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me anymore? I don't think your boyfriend is willing to spend too much time with you. It could be that he was busy with work.

    I don't have much time, I'm alone with you every day. Because he has to work, he has to provide for his family. To feed the family.

    So he doesn't have time to accompany you to go shopping, to buy clothes. You can find your girlfriends, or maybe a good friend. Don't blame him all the time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with you, so it's likely that he has been doing a lot lately and is busy, so he doesn't have so much time to spend with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe it's because he's busy or his feelings for you are slowly fading and he doesn't want to spend so much time on you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One, your boyfriend is reluctant to spend time with you, probably because he really doesn't have time, because he is busy, and second, maybe he doesn't like you very much.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you don't matter that much to him! No matter how busy the person with you in his heart is, he will find time to accompany you. Those who are busy talking about things are just making excuses for prevarication!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because you are already his girlfriend, if you don't agree to him, and he is still chasing you desperately, then he will have a lot of time with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Well, you say that, then he should be a game fan, in his mental games are more important than girlfriends, he is not actually his friend, he lives in the game all day.

    My boyfriend accompanies my friend but not me.

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    Good afternoon, dear! His friends don't usually come over, do they? It's a male friend, right? If that's the case, it's normal'Men want to save face'I hope you can understand him. But you can tell him that if this happens again, let him arrange it, and you can forgive him this time

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    Sister, my boyfriend doesn't reply to me when he plays games with his friends during the day, and he returns when I'm angry, but it's also a very perfunctory kind of words, I don't rush and don't reply, and then take the initiative to contact me at night, because his friends are sleeping at night, and I feel as if I'm not that important to him.

    Well, you say that, then he should be a game fan, in his mental games are more important than girlfriends, he is not actually his friend, he lives in the game all day.

    Dear, are you students? How do you spend so much time playing games?

    Dear, how long have you been together?

    Ask about custom messages].

    It's been more than 500 days, and it's been divided twice, all because of these little problems, shouldn't I be angry?

    Sister,If it's all like you said, it's not right for you to break up.,You should understand and tolerate each other together.,I think he shouldn't play games often.,Maybe he made an appointment with a friend.,So just play together.,This needs your understanding.。

    Dear, he usually treats you like this?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1.He must be very angry if he doesn't pay attention to the fruits of your labor when he plays games, if this happens, don't do it for him in the future, there is no need to get used to it;

    2.If he just doesn't see your presence beyond that, you can talk to him and let him play less and you two do something together; Don't go to the end, I can't think of what we did together, there are no good memories, only our own lives, so why get married? To put it bluntly, it may be that you haven't found the person who wants to set aside time to spend with you.

    Then you also think about it, in which situation would you rather ignore your object and do it, and his possible thoughts are the same, people are inherently independent individuals, and there is no need to be together in everything.

    3.His temper is not good, it is very annoying to drop things, this has left an impact and shadow in your heart, if you don't handle it well, your temper will get worse and worse, only you may also have the behavior of throwing things, in order to stop the development of this vicious incident, you also want to continue to be with him, then let him change this problem, what is the problem noisy, don't do it, what women want most is warmth;

    4.At the very least, he can cook for you and ask you to eat with you. My object and I haven't spoken for a month, the table in the house, the door have been lifted, stepped on broken, I'm like this, I didn't adjust his start to thunder, drop things, or in public, it's really embarrassing, causing me to start throwing things, and then he is even more powerful, the table is lifted, the door is stepped off, this is particularly bad, through this time I know, running a home, it's not easy to buy a thing, just like that, it's broken, smashed, it's a pity, I don't cherish it at all, If I divorce him in the future, no matter what happens, things can't fall again.

    He can cook for you, or want to continue with you, it may be that he is not good at words, which is really difficult for women to change, me too, he doesn't speak, you are in a hurry, you can't say what you are doing, you are also angry, this requires both parties to change, know that he is not that kind of person, then compromise, accept, when it is good, you can tell him, what do you want, a warm word, or something. Women don't really want much, but they don't say it and don't do it.

    5.If he doesn't change, it's still like that, and he falls into the sky or something, then you just wait for the pot of boiling water in your heart to boil and burn you, and you will naturally let go, and you really haven't found the person who is willing to let him put down his phone and become warmer. You're not right for you.

    Don't hurt yourself anymore and don't let things get worse. The two together should be full of positive energy, everyone makes progress with each other, has a warm little home, does not need too much luxury and high-quality life, at least warm. Be strong and good luck.

    These words are also for my own encouragement. If the boiling water in my heart boils, no matter how painful it is, I will let go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you.

    If your boyfriend doesn't accompany you, you can tell her that you need his company. Then see how he reacts. He is in the right direction, so he has to find out his own reasons and see why he doesn't accompany you?

    Or maybe it's because of him, or maybe it's something else. Then, you sit down, communicate carefully, look at each other's opinions and ideas, and finally deal with the matter properly, and try to let him accompany you as much as possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, if you don't accompany him, look for him, stick to him, that's good!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Isn't it too busy to have time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Go out with friends more to relax your mood;

    2. Participate in more interest classes to increase your hobbies;

    3. Chatting with family and friends can make you feel more relaxed;

    4. Rent Zen and participate in more activities, which can make your life more colorful;

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If he doesn't accompany you, he doesn't have time, you have to figure it out, don't dwell on it.

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