Because of me, he has an estrangement with his good buddies, how can I help them get along?

Updated on society 2024-07-26
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Show your courage.

    Ask them together, and the three of them talk about it. Tell them how you feel different about them and explain where you stand.

    In the process of talking, we must be sincere, give the dignity of the two men, encourage them to be self-confident and self-reliant, and put their careers first.

    I also want to advise you that breaking up with the person you like twice means that he is not what you want. Don't go blind any longer.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Emotional matters are the hardest to do. Or for women. It's really a shame. Or you two get along. Or they get along. Someone has to give way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's hard, because they're like this because they're jealous.

    And his friend doesn't change just because you've broken up with him.

    I advise you not to do anything. Leave them for a while.

    Maybe they will recover themselves ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some things are not something that others can say, let them imagine for themselves, you just need to help them a little, explain the reason and let them think for themselves, they are not children, they will think seriously. Don't worry too much, just let it be.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Wang seems to be very arrogant, in fact, you don't have to say goodbye to a relationship because of outsiders, there are everyone in this world, live for yourself, not for others, right.

    If you really like each other, you can be together, you don't have to think too much about others, in addition, their feelings, I don't think this is someone you can do, you must not be them, besides, true friendship is tested, if this test is not good, what can you do?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Generously meet a few times.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The more it drags on, the more estranged there is, or talk to me face-to-face, saying that I treat you as my best friend, and I feel sad that we are like this, and we are okay.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, you're in the same situation as I am!But she already has a better friend, bless her!Your words, slowly mediate the atmosphere!Wishing you and her better than ever!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that if two people's feelings for each other have not changed, even if they have been separated for a while, they will be the same as before, but now they are just a little rusty, and it will be fine after a long time together, believe me, personal experience, hehe.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    "reconcile"Refers to dividing first and then summing"Okay"It refers to coming together after being far from being together, such as a husband and wife who get married"A hundred years together"The same.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're wrong, your way of handling things is inappropriate, he's jealous, that's because he cares about you, you should be happy, and you get angry. Friends, when they all get married and have children, how much time can they spend with you? Your boyfriend is the person you should value the most.

    And the consequence of you valuing your buddy too much is that your boyfriend's sense of security is getting lower and lower, and he will feel that you may leave him at any time, and this feeling does not appear out of thin air, but is caused by your long-term treatment of buddy than to him. In fact, he has endured it for a long time, and this time it is just a fuse. So you should let him know that you care more about him and be nice to him, or he will dump you in the future, and you don't know why.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You've got to leave something special for your boyfriend. You yourself said that you really care about him, then you should be tolerant, the two must tolerate each other together, I think you should have a good chat, don't do not communicate when things happen, that will inevitably lead to estrangement.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Haha, I'm the same as you, and my boyfriend hasn't been able to accept it. But now you recognize a girlfriend like me, but you have to have a degree, sometimes you still value him, at least let him feel that their feelings for your friends of the opposite sex tomorrow are just buddies. It's going to be okay this way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wrong. I've said this like your boyfriend too. My girlfriend is upset at most.

    Won't be mad at me.

    You ignore your boyfriend for the sake of other men.

    Who really matters? Your boyfriend will think the same way, and he will wonder if he is not as good as your so-called buddy for you.

    He doesn't mind if you have friends of the opposite sex.

    Instead, I think he might not be as good as your buddy. So angry.

    You think friends are more important than life, but you also have to see that your boyfriend is more important than buddies and friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're obviously wrong, I don't know how to tell you, anyway, it's true to care more about your boyfriend in the future, what kind of friends of the opposite sex, those can be ignored.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Women value a man too much.

    It means that you have fallen in love with him in your heart.

    So .........You have to think deeply about your situation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay, who doesn't have a few friends of the opposite sex, does the opposite sex have to be in a relationship together?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. ~

    The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

    Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

    Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer.

    A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom.

    A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...

    A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you, a true friend, and will never forget your name.

    And what you do. ,.

    True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there is any contradiction, it is held in the heart, at most it is estranged from the relationship, and it will not be scolded, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends.

    True friends, there are many sayings. In my eyes, this is a real friend, and if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you don't always doubt your friendship, that's how it is between people, sometimes there are things that can only be said to parents, sometimes things can only be said to close friends, sometimes things can only be said to lovers, and sometimes there are times when you can't say it to anyone. Since you say that you are best friends, but the relationship has not been short, trust in each other is the most important thing. Take it easy and don't think about it yourself!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a gap because the knot in my heart has not been opened, and even if I forgive you, the sensitive and fragile nerve in my heart still does not really forgive you ......Since it's inconvenient for you to say it, then I can only give you a piece of advice, if only you knew what he was angry about......There are some things that you think he is angry with because of this point or factor, but in fact, he doesn't pay attention to it at all, but it is this factor that is easy for you to ignore that causes him to be angry with you ......To put it simply......Find out exactly why he was angry......Solve the ...... wellThat's it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In a word: don't think that I am the center, who talks to anyone minds, is too self-centered. Put your mind at ease, do you know what the landlord iron buddy is?

    As long as he doesn't need to ask for a reason, no matter what he cuts people or what, as for whether to talk to you about privacy or not, it is true that you should not know, and if you want to know, he will naturally let you know. Let go of suspicion of each other, and you can be permanent. I hope the landlord, the little brother is not easy to type, thank you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm the same way, I care too much about a friend, everyone thinks they're afraid of the base, and even the place, but I understand that it's just a comfortable person who likes to get along with each other, and the other party makes them feel very comfortable, but the feeling of knowing oneself and knowing the other makes the place misunderstood, and there is a barrier.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Do you want to care, or brothers? If you are a brother, you don't care, put this sentence in your head, and remind yourself all the time.

    That's how I am.

    Think for yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not called estrangement, you just care too much about him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, this brother is interesting!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I guess you're in love with your friend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The heart is actually a very fragile thing, every time it hurts, it will leave a wound, and the wound will heal and leave a scar, if the old scar is not removed and a new scar is added, then the heart will be cocooned, the cocoon will become thicker and thicker, the heart will be hard, and finally the heart will die. If you don't want to do this, hurry up and make amends, it's still too late, don't let you or him become a dead heart!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It means that the problem is not solved, it is like an injury, some injuries heal quickly, and new cells grow, and some injuries do not heal at all, and they become scars.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because when we quarrel, the distance between the hearts is far away, and I don't understand.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's for sure, after a fight, you will always feel uncomfortable!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because the quarrel has damaged his image in your mind, you feel that he is not so perfect, at least not as perfect as you think.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    With the traces of this quarrel in my heart, it is inevitable that I will feel uncomfortable when I look at it (mainly because I care in my heart).

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because when you quarrel, you must choose the most hurtful words, and there must be a pimple in your heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is certain, after all, there has been a discord, and the relationship is definitely not as deep as before.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's like, you drive a nail into a stump, and when you pull it up, there's a mark there.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The main reason is the mentality, or the gap with your expectations.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Maybe you haven't said it all yet!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's a certainty, communicate well and let each other trust.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Therefore, quarrels hurt feelings. It's okay, don't quarrel.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is always a mustard in my heart, which means that those things have not really been forgotten.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Character copying flaws are your fatal injuries, after confession.

    You can be like a friend. Root du

    It was said that people don't.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Look at what the estrangement is, find the reason, see if your mind can tolerate this estrangement, you can relax your heart a little, as long as it is not against the principle, everything is easy to solve, friends can not live without this life, especially good friends.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I also have this how to hurry, I personally think that the main thing is to find the topic, common ground, start from these places, find his interests and hobbies, the key is to find a topic that both parties like, and communicate more, you will be able to get familiar with it, which will be conducive to future exchanges.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    How embarrassing are you as a big man, even if there is an estrangement, you have to forget it immediately, it is difficult to be a brother, and there will be fewer in your life.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Say what you think, he still recognizes you as a brother, will understand you, preferably in the wine field.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Make it clear, as long as you are sincere!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Just make an appointment to come out for a drink.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Frankly, buddies will understand each other.

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