My boyfriend and I are not about to end

Ay... O people now ...

Still playing this trick ...

Be sure to know if this person is the right fit for you.

Whether it is worth cherishing or not.

You have to know what you really want...

Think about it.

In the meantime, have a good talk with him. Determine your position.

Think about it and don't let yourself regret it.

If that's the case, you can love him in another way.

Like silently blessing him.

You know that there is still a long way to go, and you should find a more suitable one.

And in fact, almost everyone goes through this.

Most of them will have a breakup experience.

Remember that there is a saying that the number of times you fall in love is the number of breakups minus one.

Look at the creation of the handle. If you are lucky, you may experience a very romantic love with a happy ending, and then you may be friends with this first person, or continue, so that you will know how to love and learn to be loved in the future.

If you meet someone you shouldn't love, or if both or both parties don't know how to love. The ending is very bad, but after this you must not be slumped, you must know that the road is still very long, and you will meet the right one.

At the same time, I want to tell you that you must cherish what you have and never give up on yourself and the world no matter what.

Know what you want.

I wish you happiness".

Wait. Or you pick it out yourself and go to him.

The escape that should come is not a bird, and it is yours and cannot go away

Who the hell is wrong.

But right or wrong is no longer a question.

Maybe this will test your love.

Try to apologize. Maybe you hurt her.

Don't wait for that, don't be such a ruthless man.

I like a saying: love with dignity. You can't wrap your face around it, it's just annoying.

But love needs to be maintained and needs to be understood by both parties. If you lower the princess's head at the right time, you will also see and feel a lot of things. Love is inherently delicate, like a glass of warm water, if it is left for a long time and cool, it will be regretted.

Heat it up from time to time, and it will last a long time. Isn't there a saying, live a noisy life? Hehe, I hope you are reconciled and love each other more.

There is no doubt that your boyfriend has psychological problems. Maybe he's been hurt before, or he's too insecure, so he wants to control you, wants you to belong to him, wants you to be completely loyal.

With this kind of insecure person, I don't support your loyalty and confession to him. Your honesty will only increase the burden and imagination in his heart, you know, when a person is thinking blindly, it is very scary, he will unconsciously exaggerate the scene of you with others, and then he will be angry, angry, and vexatious.

First of all, you should face your current distorted relationship with a more positive attitude, on the one hand you should find a way to divert his attention, on the other hand, you should express to him how important he is to you in a timely manner, in the mental **, there is a ** is to keep repeating a fact, so that it becomes a concept that can replace the previous unhealthy mentality, when he constantly learns that he is important to you, he will slowly relax the tension.

In addition, you can tell him in all seriousness that your past has nothing to do with him, just as you do not pursue his past, that no one is made for anyone, and that if he compares to the past, he may not even be able to have you now. Let him understand this concept, and then pack and seal the past, don't always mention it in the future, even if he mentions it, you don't have to confess it again, this is not a mistake, this is your private matter, and you don't need anyone's recognition and forgiveness.

I wish you all a happy and healthy relationship.

It depends on whether you really love your boyfriend or not.

Do you want to forgive him.

If you want to forgive him.

You just have a good talk with him.

Make it clear that you don't have any nostalgia for the past.

I just want to live my life well.

Finally, I wish you both happiness!

Just tell your boyfriend that you forgot.

Otherwise, let's just say that those things are in the past, and there is no need to mention them again.

Your boyfriend is really who doesn't have a first time.

But he's so possessive.

It would be a bit too much to have your first time to be his.

Or just say it:

I can't accept you like this, so if you go on like this, forget it.

Since I'm not happy, I don't need to be so reluctant to make ends meet.

Let's break up, it's too tiring to talk like this. A man who truly loves you doesn't ask about your past over and over again, and there are still shadows in his heart. Your boyfriend is more selfish, pays more attention to his feelings, and has a bit of a love cleanliness fetish, such a man is not the best choice.

This is a question that men rarely don't struggle with. But your boyfriend has a big knot ... If you can't get by, you will be divided. Don't talk to strangers, you have this tendency.

You tell him, "I know you care about me and love me, but I'm also an individual, and everyone has their own past, so please respect me." ”

Hehe, your boyfriend and my classmate's husband are like, but my classmate's husband also loves my classmate, I don't know if your boyfriend is the same, if so, when he competes, you should be more considerate and coaxed, because after all, he loves you very much, and this is not a big problem.

It's really hard to say this, I see you type so many words, I have also finished reading it, objectively say two sentences 1, small is not stingy, the key is ability; With a monthly salary of 2000 and 10000, there must be a difference between 2, whether your family is your own brothers and sisters, or a certain "he" who is related to him, whether it will cause vinegar is also something that needs to be considered.

3. He is willing to lend you, which shows that he still cares about you.

4. He expressed his reluctance and asked when you would pay it back, which shows that he is immature. Either find an excuse to come up with no money, or use a tactful way, which will not hurt feelings.

5. Think more about each other's goodness, it's not easy to come together, they all have to pay, and they are reluctant; And people get along with each other, it is interactive, if you are very good and give a lot, he does not cherish you, that is his loss.

6. Consider your respective situation, think more about his benefits, not paranoid, not reluctant.

Don't let innocence turn into a deal with Snow Peak.

Don't, when you talk about money, innocence will turn into a transaction, don't, a doubt, innocence will be dull and boring, don't, a complaint, innocence will be sad and cry, don't, a refusal, innocence will leave silently.

Don't, once sorrowful, innocence will be scarred all over the body.

Don't, if you are angry, your innocence will pass away quietly.

Don't, if you are indifferent, innocence will lose its value.

Don't, a sigh, innocence will leave us, innocence can not stain a trace of vulgarity, only the extraordinary, innocence will accompany a lifetime.

First of all, he is not stingy with his family, which shows that others are still quite good. The reason why he is stingy with you, I think it has something to do with his growth environment, because you are only his girlfriend now, not his wife, so he doesn't dare to spend money on you, he is willing to spend money on his wife, because his wife is his own family, and his girlfriend is not necessarily, it may be someone else's wife. When he is in love, he is reluctant to fight with you, which is caused by his economic factors, and has nothing to do with anything else.

He developed a habit of frugality in his heart.

The kind of careful eye, it's tragic that you chose him. When a colleague gets married, he must have this contradictory consciousness. It's good for one person to let one step, no one will let him, one thinks if he is stingy, one is hindered by face machismo, no way, you have not learned to tolerate, family and talent are prosperous, I hope it will help you.

What I want to ask is, landlord, you said that he was worthless, so how did you like him?

Hello, here is my analysis of your problem:

1. This phenomenon of yours is indeed very common in China, and it is difficult to solve it, on the one hand, China pays attention to raising children to prevent old age, and on the other hand, both men and women are only daughters.

2. It is no longer a matter for the son to leave his parents and go to your city, but also for his parents to feel that it is a reversal, although you may not think so.

3. He already has a job in the local area, and he has to come back to you.

4. You haven't graduated yet, and your job is relatively uncertain.

5. I don't think the house is the fundamental problem, and in the end, both parents will sponsor it. Don't want your parents to buy a house with his income.

6. He now gives money to his family every month, which shows that he is a good person, at least a person with filial piety.

7, So, based on the above analysis I recommend:

1. You give up a city with your parents and go to the man, which is the easiest to achieve.

2. If you have to be in the same city as your parents, try to communicate with the man and his family.

3, if you really can't break up, I don't know how your relationship is. This is the worst-case scenario.

4, of course, there is another one that is not in the city of both parents. Although this is the most troublesome, it is easier for both parents to accept.

"My boyfriend's father said that he didn't allow my boyfriend to go to my city" shows that your boyfriend listens to his parents, "My boyfriend said that he will get married in the future." Why won't you ask your parents for a penny to buy a house" It's good to have this heart, but now that the house is getting more and more expensive, your boyfriend has to pay it every month? "I don't understand the money for my parents here, in my opinion, the parents now have a pension plus some savings in the past, there is no need to take their son's salary, and then" my boyfriend said that after we get married, we will give his parents 1500 every month" I wonder when I hear this, what is this parent?

Your boyfriend wants to buy a house by himself, even if the two of you work together to be optimistic, it will take about 5 years (in the best case, your boyfriend will be promoted and raised, and your job is not bad), and then you say later that your parents don't let you suffer, here it's up to you, first of all, you have to live a good life, you have to endure hardships when you are young, and the days when the two of you struggle together will not be so bitter after all, you have him by your side, and then you say that you "belong to a small quarrel in three days, and a big quarrel in five days" Here it depends on whether you take the initiative to approach each other or both parties have a tacit understanding to dissipate, or he comes to coax you, here is very important, is the place where your feelings are reflected, he said that you are very serious (this is not very true: I tell you the truth, the landlord is not to blame), but he said "impossible (point, here is impossible, you should know what impossible means)" to your city development, of course, here to see ** city suitable for your boyfriend development, to see what his profession is, Maybe your city is really not suitable for him, and you have to understand him; But the reluctance to leave parents is not a reason (I don't think this is a good reason, men are more independent, and of course filial piety is necessary).

To sum up: your boyfriend has ambitions, but his parents are too strict, he may have loved his parents since he was a child and listened to his parents, but he didn't do well enough in terms of feelings, and from the perspective of your feelings, your feelings are not very deep and deep, I don't know the reason for your quarrels, but if the two people communicate well, they won't quarrel so often.

You should feel fortunate that your boyfriend is a good person, very filial, and certainly not bad for you!! Follow him. That's right, as for buying a house, don't worry, there will be!! The house is not a problem, the key is that the two of you love each other!!

The question of buying a house can be discussed, but there is only one person.