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In fact, in today's society, it is completely normal for women to put forward some basic material requirements when choosing a mate, which is also understandable. After all, this society is a very realistic society, and it is also a society where money is everywhere. Only when we have a house can we have space to raise our offspring, and only when we have money can we have material information to survive and develop.
Although we can't ask everyone to be rich and become billionaires. But as a person, you should solve the minimum problems of survival and life, and as a man who is about to get married and start a family, you must at least be able to shoulder the burden of supporting your family and solving the most basic material needs of your family. These are all life problems that you have to face when you get married in the future.
But the most important thing is that women's material requirements must be based on women's independence. As long as a woman is independent, she will not depreciate her dignity as a human being when choosing a mate, will not use her body as a means of material exchange with men, and will not be so easily dazzled by a scumbag who pretends to be forced, but will consider more about the feelings of both parties and the character and character of men, etc., and she also has her own capital to mention material conditions.
Women's independence can also make themselves better and give them a greater sense of security. There is no guarantee that one day you will lose the conditions to be cared for. Nowadays, whether it is a man or a woman, basic economic independence is required.
so that you don't have the same reciprocity to deal with certain conditions when you put forward certain conditions to the other party. No matter what the reason, material life is the foundation of marriage, and love alone cannot live.
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A woman worships material things, and it can only be said that this woman loves money.
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Not all women are material!
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I am a woman who cannot accept material things.
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Sometimes it's normal for women to be materialistic.
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Whether it is a man or a woman, I think they will pursue material wealth, spiritual satisfaction, this is people's yearning for a better life, but in some specific conditions will appear particularly strong and more realistic, such as women's requirements for the other half, this is a woman's plan for the next few decades, hoping to find such a person to satisfy herself, which is also understandable!
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Material wealth, the so-called economic foundation, with the economy, we can buy what we want, and who doesn't want to have a lot of money, material wealth, in fact, this is not only girls, this is the case for most people. Spiritual satisfaction, the so-called happiness, warmth, family harmony, and so on. This is a fundamental factor in a family's ability to be calm and happy.
Spiritual fulfillment is much needed.
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I think it is actually normal for women to ask for material wealth, because in today's society, everyone is very materialistic and needs material satisfaction, but spirituality is also very important, for example, I hope to have a happy family, I hope that my husband loves me, and I hope that my family will be happier, I don't think these two things conflict.
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Women are quite demanding materially, but there is a reason for this, firstly, they are not as secure as men, secondly, they are more emotional, and thirdly, they do not usually have the same hobbies and activities as men, so they may need to improve their spiritual satisfaction through material satisfaction.
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People are like this, people have desires, they all want to be able to live well, not only materially but also spiritually satisfied, not to say the best, at least the requirements are acceptable, there is a husband who loves him, and he is relatively rich, he can satisfy himself in all aspects, and he can understand, not only for women, but also for men.
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I think this is a normal need, because no matter who will ask for material satisfaction and spiritual satisfaction, so a woman has this requirement for you, and it is also a normal need, after all, people live in this world, these two requirements are essential, so you have to work hard to meet them.
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I think it's normal for women to ask for material wealth and spiritual satisfaction, after all, women's vanity is very strong, who doesn't want to live a better life than others. Materially, you can satisfy yourself through your own hard work, and spiritually, you need a husband who cares about you, and it is good to support yourself.
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I think it's normal for a woman to ask for material wealth and spiritual satisfaction, but the premise must be obtained by her own efforts, not by others, so that you can see that this woman has a certain economic strength and is worthy of admiration.
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A material girl is actually a money worshipper. There are a lot of girls like this now. Women can be material, but your material should be based on your own economic independence, rather than relying on others, if you say that one day the person you rely on is gone, then you yourself don't even have the ability to survive.
You want to pursue some high quality of life, we can understand this, but you really have to build on your own ability. You can't just rely on others.
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Material girls are too vanity, and they should be sooner or later.
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I think it's okay, they all say that sincere love doesn't need material things, but when you fall in love, you just eat, drink and have fun, of course, enough for expenses. But if you really get married, then the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea you face, without money, your original love will be defeated by these trivial things! Therefore, I think that material life is very important, and with money, we can talk about the so-called love and marriage!
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This kind of girl's choice is understandable to everyone, after all, the people in this society themselves are divided into three, six, nine and so on. People in the upper class of society flaunt the supremacy of love, and that's because they haven't experienced the time when a penny is hard to kill a hero. With material security, girls can dress up arbitrarily and get the life they want.
Therefore, it is understandable that some girls now choose material supremacy.
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I think there is nothing wrong with others choosing material, after all, it is now a society of money, and money is the king, having said that, girls who choose material things are also very realistic, they all want to get something for nothing, find a rich boyfriend, or husband, but in my eyes, girls who like material things are also a little rich in their own families, and children like us who have no money will marry chickens.
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Nowadays, there are many girls who value material things as important. But not all of them. Nowadays, many girls have a psychology of comparison.
Sometimes, there is nothing you can do to force yourself to be materialistic. In fact, there are material conditions compared to....The boy who forced it was stressed. When there is pressure, there is motivation.
In this way, it will also be more responsible for the family. I got married after all the hard work....Divorce will not be so easy to think about. In fact, the current material conditions are also a kind of guarantee for girls.
At least not divorced and left with nothing like before.
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There is nothing bad about material women, at least they live really, and they are very realistic in the face of a materialistic society, which is also a manifestation of social progress, don't have derogatory irony for material women and material men. Now there is no noble person who does not want materialism. There are very few people who have dirty hearts.
And then say that other people's practices are dirty. It cannot be ruled out that some people have different means of obtaining material wealth, and they are often labeled as material women. It is the demand of society that brings about the consumption of society.
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I'm a post-80s, I still don't like such a girl, maybe the post-80s think more traditionally, a person can meet you with all the material is a good feeling, but he won't really like you, if one day he can't give you the material requirements you want, you will find that you have nothing, and there is no value at all, if you want to live with dignity, or don't be so material, don't be so superficial.
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Money is not everything, no money is impossible! We are all ordinary people, not saints, we have to eat, drink and Lazar, we are the most painful in middle age, we have to support the old and the young, and we must know that poor couples mourn everything! Financial ability is not the only way to maintain a relationship, but it must be the most basic!
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Now some girls are also understandable above the material, after all, the sense of security of this person is very lacking, and then the man's heart is easy to change, that is, and the food in the current life is only a very important foundation.
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1 All women who love material things, some are hedonistic and vain, some are afraid of living a hard life, and some have a heart of comparison. Everyone's heart is different, in fact, women who love material things have different hobbies, but most of them are satisfied with vanity and have the psychology of showing off.
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A materialistic woman is a realistic woman, a woman who is responsible for the feelings of the other party, for herself, for her future, and for the children who will come to the world. If a man is not capable of creating material wealth, he is not qualified to despise material women.
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First of all, we have to say that this is a material world, and no one is not material. People also come from the material, and the spiritual world is also built on the material foundation, so material women are generally now, and there is no woman who simply believes in love and doesn't want anything.
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In today's social reality, many girls blindly pursue material things and blind their vanity, so they only pay attention to material things and ignore people's diplomas in love, maybe this is happy for the reality of love, but it will not last long.
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I feel that the pursuit of material things does not mean that love can be trampled on arbitrarily, and the kind of woman who wantonly squanders men's feelings and wealth in the name of love, and empathizes with women who abandon love in the name of pursuing material happiness is shameful.
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Many people's first reaction may be that material women don't pay attention to love, while women who pursue love don't value material things! This is a wrong, at least incomplete, view. Love and material things are not opposites. A lot of the time they complement each other!
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I think it's because I often have too close ties with multiple men, especially those who are financially well-off. Such men, even if they are the source of material abundance, are also the tickets and show-off capital they use to enter and exit various occasions, and at the same time compare them.
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It is a serious mismatch between the standard of living and one's own economic strength. Bags, clothes, occasions and types of people do not match your financial strength.
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Women are not independent themselves, and asking men for everything, which is an act of commoditizing themselves and belittling themselves, and this behavior can be said to be a betrayal in today's many women's organizations fighting for equal rights for women and men. To say that the purpose of material women is purer is a man's admission of his own incompetence. I don't have charm, I only have money, so I trade money and sex, and I can buy it.
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Now who dares to say that they are not material? Men always say that women are material, no car or house, no one will talk to you about feelings, but I want to say that in fact, not only women are material, men are also realistic, this is not a personal moral problem, but one of the inevitable phenomena and laws of social development. "Material woman" is at least the easiest to satisfy, as long as she satisfies her material world, she doesn't need you to enrich her spiritual world, fortunately, it is better than a material and hypocritical woman.
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Looking for a partner is for the second half of her life, not for getting rich, what can a money worshipper do if she gets material money? Which money worshipper can finally get true love? Rich people are shrewd, rich people's money is so easy to cheat?
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This kind of girl is more realistic, forgetting the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, and her appearance is disguised by money.
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The material woman's purpose is purer, which is the man's admission of his own incompetence. I don't have charm, I only have money, so I trade money and sex, and I can buy it.
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"The crying child has milk to drink" The more he asks, the more he invests, and the more costs he considers when he breaks up. Men are afraid of trouble, "material women" can solve most problems with materials, it should be convenient and direct for men, "non-material women" need more spiritual communication, men feel troublesome. Whether you can get happiness or not has nothing to do with worshipping money or not, love "him" and remember that you can probably get happiness by loving yourself.
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I've been in love twice, but I don't look at my face. At first, I wanted to set up a torii, saying that the first time was to go to the material, and the second time was immaterial. However, I found that I was still material.
Before they were my boyfriend, I already knew about their background when I was a friend, and the second time, I think he had an immaterial relationship, but his conditions, family, and himself were much better than the first person.
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