Why are adolescent children impulsive and irritable, and how should they be regulated?

I think the main reason is that adolescent children's hormone secretion will lead to emotional instability, and parents' incomprehension will also make them irritable, at this time should give children more fresh vegetables and fruits, to ensure that their body needs nutrients, strengthen physical exercise, and parents should also communicate with them more to understand the children's true thoughts.

Because the adolescent child's mood will change a lot, and his psychology and physiology will undergo some obvious changes, his emotions will be very easy to fluctuate, and he will have a great temper, so he is very impulsive and irritable; Parents must communicate well with their children, give their children the right guidance, care more about their children, don't beat and scold their children, and be both parents and friends to their children.

Because adolescent children are very rebellious, they love to lose their temper, and no matter what parents say to them, they will not listen, they only think that they are right, I like to be restrained by others, when the child reaches puberty, parents can calm down with the child to communicate, if there is free time, you can take the child to the movie or travel, both methods can relieve the child's psychological pressure, but also make the child feel very happy.

1. Cold treatment and improve the child's cognition, as long as the adolescent child loses his temper as long as it is not a problem in principle, you can temporarily ignore him or even leave, and after the child calms down, use a calm tone and use inducing questions to communicate with the child, for example, if the morning thing happens again, how do you think it is best to deal with it, if the father makes a mistake and the mother has been losing his temper, can he solve the problem, let the child realize that tantrum is the worst and stupidest solution, and you can give the child a hug after communication, And say thank you for your understanding.

2. Set an example, parents often lose their temper and reprimand their children, so that children do not have any right to explain and speak, which can only make children lack the ability to express their attitudes correctly in language, and children will only express their emotions in the way of tantrums.

3. Give children the right to express their emotions within a reasonable range, and children can fully and reasonably express their emotions, which is the basic sign of mental development, but we tell children that tantrums have boundaries and cannot hurt themselves or others, and can be alleviated and transferred by exercising or taking a bath.

1. Parents should not "fight evil with evil": adolescent children are sometimes irritable and irritable, but many parents choose the way to fight evil with evil, this kind of method is not objective, it will cause negative news to children, judgment is a common problem for children, parents should examine their own behavior, change their own behavior, in hearing and witnessing, children's irritable psychological state will slowly change.

2. It is not advisable to give in to children: adolescent children's tantrums are the most undivided and desirable is to educate too much is to give in to children, taking into account his requirements, to solve the children's tantrums, parents should remain calm, for the children's unreasonable requirements do not need to be accustomed to, you can first choose a cold method to the child, and then analyze the reasons for his tantrum with the child, treat it carefully and correctly, educate the child, and let the child learn from the wrong behavior.

3. Distract your child.

4. Adolescent children are short-tempered, parents are very important to their chosen psychological state, neither can be lucky, nor too strong, the best way to deal with it is to quickly and decisively transfer the child's attention training to other aspects, or let the child vent, to self-suppression, recovery, perseverance After a period of time, the child's subconscious tantrum will slowly improve, because he will realize that such a tantrum can not get everything.

5. Properly educate children: according to the children's age, gender, intelligence and mentality development trend stage is different, as well as its unusual needs to take care of and educate children, avoid too much love and education, which will cause children to rely too much on character, so that children to create a separate professional ability, attach great importance to children, parents to master, children themselves to carry out things, to create high-quality quality.

6. Communicate and communicate with children: children are short-tempered and often lose their temper, parents should examine whether they are too lacking in care for children, whether they are busy with work, and have rarely had emotional exchanges and communication with children, and even do not know what children have caused recently.

After many children enter puberty, they are emotionally unstable and prone to anger, which is normal, first of all, because of the influence of body hormones, it is easy to lead to emotional changes. Secondly, due to the imbalance of physical and mental development, rapid physical development, and relatively lagging psychological development, so children may have irritable and irritable performance.

First, listen and understand. Listening is the best way to communicate, if parents do not know what way to persuade their children, then they can open their hearts and accept their children's confiding, in this process, what parents have to do is to listen carefully, do not interrupt the child, do not refute their ideas, to accept the child's inner world first, and then slowly guide, so that it is easier for the child to accept. If parents are as angry as their children, or even furious, then the children will close their hearts, and over time, parents will not understand their children's thoughts, and they will naturally not be able to guide them effectively.

Second. Encourage your child to be physically active. Physical exercise is a good way to relieve emotions, and children who regularly participate in physical exercise are sunny and positive, and even if they have unhappiness in their hearts, they can vent it well through exercise.

And in physical exercise, children are also more likely to make friends of the same age, which can make them feel the best in interpersonal communication and relieve anxiety. Sometimes, they are reluctant to talk to their parents and prefer to talk to their friends, which can help them find an outlet and make them less irritable.

Third, parents should guide their children to correctly recognize and regulate their emotions. In fact, what really causes people's emotional changes is not the objective event, but our inner thoughts, that is, the cognition of the event, the same thing, different people will react differently, have different emotional experiences, this is the reason for different cognitions, so parents should guide their children to establish a rational and correct concept, and deal with everything with a positive attitude, which can better alleviate emotions.

After entering puberty, children will be easily irritable due to the influence of developmental factors in their bodies. When guiding him, he should be calm and communicate with him well.

Children are generally in the rebellious period when they are in adolescence, and the child's three views are beginning to be established, so many children's emotional manifestations will be more obvious. When parents guide their children, they can guide their children's three views through good film and television dramas and books, and communicate problems and talk in a more natural and relaxed way.

It may be because adolescent children have their own ideas and want to have their own private space, so they should communicate with their children peacefully.

1. First of all, it may be related to the parenting style of parents, if the child is not properly guided, it may lead to the child being self-centered, and if the needs cannot be met, there will be a short temper and irritability.

2. It may also be related to hormone levels, and adolescent Tan's children have relatively high hormone levels, and they will also be prone to grumpy and irritable.

3. You should also be alert to whether there is bipolar disorder in adolescence, you can take your child to the psychiatric department of the hospital for treatment, and if necessary, you can take oral paroxetine and other drugs to improve the symptoms under the guidance of a doctor.

4. After children enter adolescence, their sense of autonomy becomes stronger and stronger, they are eager to have independent space, they are eager to make their own decisions, and they do what they want to do, and they don't want their parents to treat them as children. Therefore, the more concerned parents are, the more disgusted the child feels.

5. In the traditional family concept, parents often think that children must listen to adults, and if children are disobedient, adults will be brutally suppressed. It is this simple and crude way of dealing with problems that can easily provoke a child's bad temper.

1. Find the reason, there must be a cause and effect, parents want to know why their children are rebellious, they must find the reason for rebellion, only by finding the reason can we better educate the result. In fact, it is not difficult to discipline children in the rebellious period, but most parents use the wrong methods.

2. Pay attention to communication, as soon as the child is rebellious, parents will attribute all the faults to the child, and parents will always keep telling the child some big truths, hoping that the child can listen to what he says. While parents instill a lot of big truths in their children, they are unwilling to listen to their children talk about their inner thoughts, which leads to children not only not listening to what their parents say, but also disgusting their parents.

Parents and children must pay attention to two-way communication, and must learn to understand and respect each other, so that parents and children can share their ideas peacefully, so as not to lead to misunderstandings and mustard.

3. Listen and respect, the biggest problem between parents and children is that both parties will not learn to listen and respect each other, and listening and respect are mutual, only by learning to respect others, others will respect you.

In normal times, parents should learn to understand their children more, learn to listen patiently to their children's real thoughts, and respect their children's ideas and choices, only in this way can children feel the support and care of their parents.

4. Parents should choose the right way to educate their children, parents should choose the appropriate way to trade according to the child's gender, age and psychological development, not excessive love and discipline, nor can they rely too much on some small requirements of the child, so that they can develop the ability of self-reliance, self-love and self-improvement. At the same time, we must learn to respect children and cultivate good personal physique and quality.

5. Be friends with your child, put down the "shelf" of your parents, try to change your identity, and regard yourself as a friend of your child, rather than asking him to be a parent of this and that, for example: communicate with him in a joking tone: "I seem to have something on my mind recently, and I just happen to have it too, so it's better for us to exchange to solve it." ”