When you are in adolescence, it is easy to get angry with the people around you, what is the reason?

Because you're starting to have a sense of self. If other people's words don't go your way, you will be unhappy, and if you are the closest person, you will naturally become irritable. In fact, many people have such periods, don't worry too much, you are just growing up.

But try not to hurt your parents with wild words, the more you grow up, the more you will find that the only person who loves you the most is really your family. Keep this self-reflection up.

Both adolescent boys and girls have a period of conflict and conflict, on the one hand, they are not really mature, and their social experience and self-adjustment ability are far from enough. On the other hand, they are in a period of maturity and social development, so it is easy to flaunt their personality and ideas, and they are eager to be understood and supported. In such a state of contradiction, it may be easy to oppose the wishes of parents and others, feel ununderstood, and naturally become sensitive and extreme, and be in a state of instability.

This situation belongs to the rebellious period of the personality, so it is easy to get angry, and it should slowly improve as you get older. The tendency to get angry during puberty is mainly related to the secretion of hormones, which is a manifestation of hormones in the body, and is a physiological phenomenon, which can be controlled as much as possible.

Entering puberty, on the one hand, the amount of hormone secretion changes (this is very important), on the other hand, their own values are initially formed, and many views are instilled by parents, after entering puberty, the new views and ideas produced are strongly different from the existing values, and there will be a game in the difference, and for teenagers, it is often the new point of view that wins, and after many games, you will get a point of view: the values instilled by parents are wrong!! After that, they will reject all parents' views.

This kind of fierce collision of values combined with hormone secretion will often break out, in fact, it is mainly caused by their own psychological contradictions.

Adolescent boys and girls are maturing day by day, and their psychology has undergone tremendous changes, and it is difficult to adjust their mentality for a while to meet this seemingly sudden growth, and their hearts are inevitably irritable. At the same time, he has an inexplicable liking for the opposite sex, wants to express himself and gain the favor of the other party, but in reality, this dangerous move that is regarded as a phenomenon of early love by his family and school is often nipped in the bud, coupled with academic pressure, he will inevitably get angry.

Adolescence is the peak of growth and development, and it is also a major turning point in psychological development, because of the rapid development of the body and the strong demand for independence, and because of the relatively slow psychological development to maintain child-like dependence. Adolescence is struggling with this contradictory psychological state, and it is inevitable that many psychological problems will arise, and the common one is rebellious psychology (psychological weaning in adolescence).

Adolescence is easy to be emotional and excited, which is a psychological characteristic of adolescence and is normal. But be aware of the loss of control and extreme conclusions caused by extreme conditions, and avoid harming yourself and others.

1. Excessive psychological pressure: Teenagers studying or living too much may make teenagers in a depressed and nervous state for a long time, unable to release psychological pressure, and then may have abnormal emotions, such as easy irritability, tantrums, etc.

2. Adolescence: During this period, adolescents' appearance and psychology are growing up relatively fast, and adolescents' psychology is usually more complex, their emotions are not very stable, and they are prone to irritability and temper tantrums.

3. Manic depression: If adolescents suddenly encounter major negative life events or live in a complex and undesirable environment for a long time, it is easy to cause manic depression, and then they may be prone to irritability and temper tantrums.

Many teenagers get angry easily, especially in front of the opposite sex or in public, without speculating for more than half a sentence, and sometimes even punching and kicking each other. It turns out that teenagers are easy to get angry and their emotional instability is related, the development of teenagers' independent consciousness has produced such a psychology that I have grown up, they also want to get rid of the management of their parents, but they can't get rid of psychological uneasiness, emotional excitement, because of the gradual expansion of the scope of life and contact, psychological activities are more complex, emotions are changing rapidly, may be dancing for some small things, and can also be for some sesame mung bean big things. Psychology calls this kind of strong and changeable emotional adolescence a period of emotional turmoil, adolescents are emotionally hot and cold, they get carried away with happiness, and they are discouraged when they encounter setbacks, and even lose their temper, which is because their self-control is not yet perfect and immature.

Then, because of their own knowledge structure, self-awareness and self-cultivation in adolescence, the handling of many problems in society is still in a period of transition from naivety to maturity, and it is relatively common to get angry when encountering things, so it is a manifestation of psychological immaturity that adolescents are prone to anger.

Psychology believes that whether a person's needs are met or not causes an attitude of like and dislike towards things, which leads to positive or negative emotional experiences. The ancients in China called this the seven emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, fear, love and hatred. Psychological research shows that although people's emotions are closely related to the physiological arousal state of the human body, they are also affected by social life and restricted by the characteristics of people's cognitive processes.

The characteristics of emotional development in adolescence are: (1) easy to fluctuate and latent uneasiness, manifested as loneliness and loneliness, worry and restlessness, and depression and depression; (2) looking forward to the future and being full of imagination; (3) Emotions are diverse and reactive. It can be considered that when people reach adolescence, they are not only like a rising sun, full of infinite vitality, but also like a ship sailing in the unpredictable sea, which is in danger of being attacked by a storm at any time.

This undriveable emotion and the annoyance caused by the rapid development of physiology constitute the typical characteristics of the mood and affection of adolescent boys and girls.

When I was young, my blood was undecided, and I was in love!