What I m most afraid of is the endless quarrels between two people in love.

Updated on society 2024-07-15
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I've had it too, and then it really got into a fight.

    I now think you should take a step back, and talk to him about your mood and your views on the relationship between the two parties while being patient, and you still have to work hard to maintain the relationship. If there is still no improvement after a month or two, and you continue to argue, then leave, this person may not be really suitable, if he doesn't understand you, there is really no way, and you have nothing to regret if you work hard. Go with the flow.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Quarrels can promote the relationship between the two parties, as the saying goes, the head of the bed quarrels and the end of the bed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You care about him too much, love him and be more tolerant. Two people come to an agreement, after the quarrel, no overnight feud is allowed, sleep, everything passes, I am like this, I wake up the next day and forget everything. Do you want to learn a lot?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A recent study by the United Nations Department of Health found that two people in a relationship who often quarrel can prevent mouth ulcers.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Occasional small fights can promote the relationship between two people, but if there is a big quarrel, and some even make a big shot, how can you stand it, and in the end, I am afraid that there will only be a breakup.

    In fact, whether it is a quarrel or not, as long as two people are happy, it is good that they are happy for longer than they are unhappy. It's okay if you two are happy, so why bother if you quarrel or not. Everyone has their own way of falling in love, and what suits you is the best.

    Silly girl, don't look for troubles on this issue. Isn't it a kind of happiness to have a good time every day?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a degree of everything, and it is good to grasp it well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone is different, just be happy, why care about others?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't quarrel, look at the problem to look at 2 aspects, the good side, it means that you are very sensible, very accommodating to each other, and do not bring trouble and trouble to each other. The bad side is that you can't be exactly the same, there will always be differences, it can only be said that you don't know each other well enough, it's just respectful of each other, not to the point of 1 family...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's what I said, but as long as love doesn't quarrel, it should be better, it's just that there are always few contradictions between 2 people in general, so many people will envy it, and there's nothing bad about it. As long as it's not very cold and doesn't say anything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not to be noisy is what you are pursuing, and it is rare to be able to do it without being noisy, and you have done it. I wish the loving couple a hundred years of reconciliation.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Listen to what you say, you know that you have a good temper, good to your wife, there is nothing wrong with this, live according to your own life, this thing is the business of the two of you, it is useless for others to say anything, your own happiness is right, don't always think about this quarrel with her, quarrels are done by sick people, I wish you happiness with her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well, as far as I'm concerned, it's very abnormal for you not to quarrel with your friends, I analyze that you may not love her from the heart, it's not that you can't do it without her, you don't care about her in particular, so sometimes you don't get angry when you should be angry, you should tell her, you choose to be silent, sometimes, the girl doesn't necessarily want to quarrel with you, she just wants to observe whether you care about her from the heart through some of your performance. And why is it that you are not that he loves her? Because you're still thinking about what will happen if you make friends later, your personality is uncertain and it's hard to make friends!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's absolutely abnormal, people have different views and ideas, and friction is unavoidable. You are now submissive to the woman in everything during the period of love, and you will know it after a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, people who are in love don't quarrel, and they can't be said to be abnormal. It should be a good point to be a little noisy. Because when you are in love, the most common thing is to pour out your hearts to each other.

    No matter how good your temper is, there will always be someone to express your opinion, and there will always be inappropriate opinions; If you don't publish it, it's just, well, ah, oh, it's going to be boring, and it's even worse.

    In a trivial life, if you want to find love without quarrels, I think it is absolutely impossible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really love each other, and this situation is not because of other problems, it is really a very fateful relationship, and the two of them get along, and I believe it will be a good karma.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, you also said that you have a good temper. It may be that you don't know each other very well. There is also no fuse for quarrels.

    It is not that two people have to quarrel to enhance their relationship, and the feelings that usually arise because of mutual concern are safer than quarrels. Once there is a quarrel for the first time, then no matter whether it is worth the quarrel or not, there will be a war!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't feel that there is any contradiction, then congratulations, if you don't quarrel just because of forbearance, then it's dangerous, and these grievances that should be vented through quarrels will accumulate in the bottom of your heart.

    In essence, quarreling is nothing more than a way of communication, and if you have a good communication method and channel, it can completely replace quarrels.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's great!!

    Big brother, you don't know how uncomfortable it is to quarrel, and it is better to enhance feelings than to hurt feelings! Because when a quarrel starts, sometimes there are hurtful things to say, so don't quarrel!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't deliberately want not to quarrel, if two people are dissatisfied with each other in the process of getting along, what is not used to can be said directly, more communication is the best way to understand, if everything is harmonious and good, then why quarrel? You tell me?

    Quarrels can sometimes hurt feelings, really.

    The most important thing is for two people to be happy together, don't think about quarreling and hurting things like that, you know?

    I wish you eternal happiness and sweet love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Although occasional quarrels in love are always inevitable, and it does enhance some feelings, there is no need to force a quarrel, it may be that both parties are more easy-going, or it may be that the relationship between the two parties is not good enough to quarrel. As long as the two people feel better, if it feels wrong, find the reason, whether to quarrel or not is only a superficial phenomenon.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not normal.

    My current boyfriend broke up with his former girlfriend because they hadn't quarreled for a year together, and my boyfriend said that he must find a girlfriend who quarreled with him every day, it was too boring like the beginning, what are you doing alive, so, I finally found me, in fact, I am a good person, kind and cute, but I have a big temper. Hey, you'd better find some reason to quarrel, and then reconcile with her every few days, that feeling is really good, it can really promote the relationship between the two of you, really! -

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Not to quarrel is definitely not right! Relationships are also unstable.

    The relationship has to go through the wind and rain in the waves to slowly stabilize, so calm, how to enhance the relationship?

    But if you can't quarrel, you don't have to try to quarrel, let it be, if you feel that you have a good temper, when you meet a willful and rude girlfriend, you will have to quarrel, hehe, then you will be a perfect match.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Isn't that bad?

    Sometimes quarrels can hurt feelings.

    I think it's good for you to do this, really, what is good about you thinking about quarreling, it affects the mood, although it is said that a proper quarrel will enhance the relationship, but if you are in love, there is no need, as for most couples will quarrel together, it is because some things can't be said together, and the personality is not suitable, not that it is not normal if there is no quarrel.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The main reason for not quarreling is that a few friends have said above, the two sides don't know each other well enough, and if you don't talk well, your relationship is not deep enough!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a common language between the two, to talk about, to create more romance, hehe It's good not to quarrel, I hope this is the most, hehe, I don't quarrel with my boyfriend, it's just that occasionally I'm a little stingy But he will coax me to pull, we love each other very much, and we're ready to get married, hehe! Bless you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's his temper, you can't help it, you really love him so much, you have to understand, but how to say it, hey!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you know this situation, why not change yourself? It may take time and willpower, but if you believe in it, it will work.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Think more about each other... Love in quarrels does not last long ... Think about it ...

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This situation will be met by most couples, and it is also a hurdle, and many couples break up without crossing this hurdle!

    You must know that you have been in love for a long time, and girls will be nostalgic for the careful care of boys when they are in love, and they don't know that time has passed, and boys' patience is slowly wearing out! But if you are still as willful and unreasonable as when you are in love, then you are bound to make your boyfriend slowly bored!

    If you don't want to lose him, sharpen your temper and don't get angry and angry at every turn.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't stalk him, give him free space, let him think about it, think about it, he'll look for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let him know that sometimes it's a happy time to be angry with a girl, and it's not good to have a girlfriend like a fawn.

    Also, change your temper.

    If you really can't get used to it, just separate it.

    Actually, I don't think you're going to quarrel, and there's no mistake in principle, so why is everyone upset? If you quarrel in the front, forget about it in the back Don't take it too seriously It's good to lose your temper Don't really make it uncomfortable If you're not satisfied, just let him know that you're satisfied Don't be angry Don't say too much Just say what you think.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Calm down and think about it!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because when couples quarrel, how can there be so many big rights and wrongs, it's nothing more than when they quarrel, everyone has self-esteem and wants to be the winner, but they ignore that the opposite is a lover, not an enemy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, but it's really hard.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Quarrelsome love is very fake! Because the other party needs to make a very hypocritical mask to treat the other party, I haven't seen the other party's true character... It's scary!

    If it were me, I would rather quarrel a few more times, so that I can fully understand what this man thinks, whether his thinking concept is the same as mine, so that I can have a deeper thought: whether this person can spend my life with me!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I can only say that it is only a minority, as the saying goes: it hurts to hit. Scolding is love. Playing and slapping is true love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No! You have to relax your mind and don't think about everything so absolutely. Think about it, how can there be two people in the world who have exactly the same personality, hobbies, and living habits, so if there are differences, there will inevitably be quarrels, and quarrels are to make the feelings of two people more clear, so that two people can face up to their feelings, see clearly the problems between them and their own shortcomings, so marriage is the complementarity of two people, if a person wants to quarrel with you but hypocritically pretends to be happy and flattering, and a man who bluntly says that the problem is wrong at the beginning, which one will you like.

    The more noisy the feelings, the better you make an appointment, I've heard this sentence.

    So love is not only genuine concern, but also understanding and tolerance.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    No, before falling in love and after falling in love are not the same, before falling in love, everything is pleasing to the eye, after falling in love, I feel that the other party doesn't know myself at all, it's better to play with my little sisters or buddies, but I don't want to divide after being familiar with this feeling, before falling in love, men will give women small things, trinkets, which will make women happy, and men will get a kiss, a hug, or more or something, and after falling in love, women will have a certain psychology, such as, why do I want to wash clothes or something, He can sleep comfortably, why do I think of him every day, but he doesn't even call me, so basically there are very few people who can do it without quarreling

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is nothing good or bad, the key is that you can't leave a knot after the quarrel, this depends on your communication skills, if you get it well, the communication will be faster, and the mutual understanding will be better

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Quarrels are inevitable, that is also a part of life, if you often quarrel then there is a problem, I think you should communicate more, find out where the problem is, talk about it, it's nothing, don't bring your emotions whenever something happens, this will only make things worse.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's not normal not to quarrel, but in moderation, don't end up really getting into a fight and not even arguing.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's okay to be noisy once in a while, but it still hurts feelings after a long time.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It should be normal! After all, the living environment and experience of two people are different, and quarreling is just a run-in process, but in the process of quarreling, we must also learn to tolerate, understand, and correct, so that the relationship between the two will become better!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This is a good thing, it means that you are running in, and you can only be together longer if you run in.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Love will always experience ups and downs, and it's good to have bumps and bumps.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The premise is--- my girlfriend and I often quarrel.

    Then we must first find out the reason for the quarrel, there will be frequent quarrels, there must be differences in concepts or attitudes to do things, and it is not necessarily a one-sided factor, but the position of each other is different or the angle of view, to strengthen communication.

    It is inappropriate to apologize unilaterally or lower one's attitude first, and it will not solve the problem at all.

    You can let each other calm down first, find a third person to talk about the problem, or two people analyze the problem again, rational ** problem, so that each other's concepts and practices can have a tacit understanding and further understand each other.

    Then I believe that the relationship must be better, because you have done the right and rational way of communication.

    If you keep arguing and sulking, or if one party has been accumulating suppressed emotions, it is like an eggshell cracking every time, although it is not broken, but it will definitely break when it can't bear the crack in the end.

    Therefore, quarreling is an EQ (emotional management) that tests each other, and it can only be better if you are right about things and not about people.

    Hope to resolve your crisis!

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