Life is so hard, so unlucky, life is really hard

I'm so sorry I didn't have the experience you mentioned, but after reading what you wrote, I couldn't help but want to ......

I sympathize with your situation, but you and I both understand that sympathy can't solve any problems, so you have to be stronger, you are a man, and a good man who loves his wife deeply, you may have no place to tell all your suffering, and your dearest wife can't, for fear that she will be sad and sad.

The poor and the rich are not important, people only have decades in their lives, maybe your life is very difficult and hard, but the rich people you are talking about are not without pain, they just have no economic difficulties, and the mental pain for the rich may be the same as the suffering on your body, thinking that it is insurmountable. In fact, if you think about it, what difficulties are insurmountable? No, not really.

Wenchuan Da**, so many dead and injured people, they will not suffer less than you, but after a year, everything has passed. So you must be able to, no matter how difficult it is, there is as much hope as possible. I suggest that you tell the truth to your family, after all, it is a family, and if there is a difficulty, we will find a way together, and it is certainly possible to hide it now without worrying them, but can you hide it for a lifetime?

Later, they know that they are not the same sadness, and they share the joys and sorrows, which is like a family.

If it really doesn't work, the child can not be born first, after all, your wife's life is more important, I think your parents must be able to understand, you also have to comfort your wife more, she must not be happy in her heart now, give her confidence, give her hope, and communicate with her more. So you can no longer dwell on the misfortunes of the past and think more about the days to come. The money for treatment can be collected from relatives and friends, and all your friends can be mobilized, and it is a big deal to write an IOU, right?

As long as there are people, there is hope.

It doesn't matter if you're poor, you have been poor, don't compare yourself with others, and don't feel unfair, this is not a fair world in the first place, and you have to rely on your own beliefs in everything.

Everyone has their own suffering in their hearts, and your current suffering is your wife's illness, which will pass, and it will be.

Bless you, good people will have a safe life.

Life is not a movie after all, life is much more complicated than a movie. Since it is not a movie, we are naturally not actors, and if we are not actors, we naturally do not have a script, and if there is no script, then the script of life can only be written and acted by ourselves.

Misfortune will be followed by great luck.

Whether it's hard or not depends entirely on your attitude towards life. Anyone who has a pessimistic attitude will feel that life is difficult, be optimistic, and there will be new hope and new beginnings every day.

Simple and complex are relative, good and bad are also relative, the key is how you think and how you see; People must learn to be content, and they can't see things only one side, and they can't just see the good of others; However, everyone wants to live a good life and let the people around them suffer less, because there are more people who think about it, and there are more people in the realization of a good life in China, only a few can be selected by the judges, and besides, a good life is also defined differently according to the understanding of different people.

Life is actually very beautiful, you must know how to enjoy life, there are pains and ups and downs in the process to have the meaning of life.

Yes, life is very simple, just look at what you want, you have to pay more if you want, simple and happy little days are not nothing, that is, you need to experience with your heart, the pursuit is the driving force, but don't betray your rationality!

If you have desires, you will have troubles, and only if you want a simple life, you can feel the simplicity of life, and thinking too many things is also one of the big reasons for a difficult life.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge. Blessings and misfortunes are never up to people, but gains and losses are unintentional. Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life.

Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles.

Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back.

Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear.

As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

There are more people than you desperate, but people like you who despise themselves are only a pitiful minority of this group.

I also have the same experience, I feel that I really have no meaning to live, no one around me understands you, no one cares about you, you are busy every day with your foot on the back of the head no one looks at it, but I still have a child, she is still young, and she has some specialties, I can only take care of her every day, for her, I choose to live, so what I want to say is to find a person who can give you the courage to live, or a goal, when you are your spiritual pillar, no matter how hard and tired it is, it is worth it.

You're mostly worried about the economy right now. Also, you always want to live a better life than in the past, but now that you have such a predicament, you can only look forward and not blindly think about how good the past was. It is important to face and deal with the current predicament well, don't be too pessimistic, deal with one thing and the next one; For example, you can work hard to make money, and at the same time help your relatives and friends a little bit, I believe it will slowly cross.

Time goes by day and can only get better and better, as long as you have faith and perseverance.

Don't be afraid, life is always full of waves, always remember that no matter how big the difficulties are, don't be afraid, although life is short but strong enough, don't be full of despair about life, believe that you can do it yourself.

Life has to go on, and there are more things in the world that are more difficult than you, so grit your teeth and everything will get through.

In fact, you are always talking about your shortcomings, but those are also your advantages, you say that you don't like to talk Honest Mu Ne Actually, you don't have to care about what others say about you, Steadfast, focus on what you want to do, Honest people are often very persevering, Zeng Guofan once said, People but have constant things can't be done, and you also said that you can have several kinds of software, although simple, but there are many people who can't even use it, I will only use ug, simple operations in CAD can't be done, focus on learning a good software Your weaknesses will be your strengths.

Desperate Forget those troubles Forget about those unhappiness Focus on doing what your heart desires the most No matter what he does to the extreme, he is doing a good job He will succeed Fame and fortune Don't chase it.

Go to campus recruitment, learn from yourself as an intern, ask others more, be humble, and don't be too demanding. You are amazing, and others naturally respect you. Society is so realistic, you are poor and vain, you can't endure hardships, you can't work hard, you can't work for so many years, others can accumulate experience, why haven't you accumulated it?

Don't be too ambitious, whimsical, there is no such thing as a free lunch. Only when you have the strength can you have the capital to negotiate terms with the company. Although personal education does not mean everything, however, we are also people of the same age, there is basically no one in our generation who only has a junior high school education, I think such a degree is not a problem with the brain or a problem with the attitude, not to attack you, many people have no education and have succeeded, but the attitude of others in the career must be very positive.

Which girl dares to follow you like this, serious girls are counting on finding a man who can support the family and children, not to support you.

Do your best, go with the flow!

Build yourself up and get ready to go.

50 yuan can you hit 10 fast, what else do you want? Brother threw n hairy strips! Let's go to those garment factories and start with the workers. Let your leaders discover your talent in that area of CAD and work on it slowly.

10 out of 50 is already very good. I recommend you to take a look at the ** that describes rural life during the Anti-Japanese War (Mo Yan, rich breasts and fat buttocks), and you will know what is bitter. The most bitter thing is not material suffering, but spiritual inability to find pursuit.

You may be in a foreign country, you have not adapted to the local life, in a city, you have to love a city, live your own life, you must know that 90% of a person's behavior has no impact on others, so care about yourself

I'm in a similar situation to you, now 20, no education, no ability, no property, typical 3 nothing, but friends say it's useless to find a job or something now It is recommended to learn a technology Go to Shenzhen at your age to learn to drive a container truck and suffer hardship Don't have a degree to make money Don't say that you can't endure hardship For life, you must eat or you don't have to eat!!

I suggest reading more books and watching the news. Smile more. Chat with people.

You can talk about everything, and you will slowly see people talking. In addition, if you work, you can only accumulate it slowly. If you don't have something in your head, you're not worth anything.

So first find a job that is enough to make ends meet, hurry up and survive, buy more books and study more to enrich yourself. One has his own spirit and sustenance, and he is not afraid of any emptiness and loneliness, and the other has something in his head, and naturally his own value is greater. You're right?

It is difficult to communicate with such people. Let's realize for yourself.

Keep working hard, twenty-seven or eight is still very young, don't be impetuous, there will always be a time when flowers bloom.

Then you can't help it.

Everything wants to open a point, how can you be so back as you say, besides, it's not good to back it now, then you're trying to find it, maybe the next one is your chance to turn over! You have to believe that you will succeed, if you don't have confidence in yourself, how can others have confidence in you!

In these years, those who are willing to endure hardships and starve will not die, and if they are unwilling to endure hardships, there is no way.

Fortunately, you bought a lottery ticket and won the lottery, I haven't won once!!

Hmmm... Comrades deserve sympathy, but the road still has to be walked on its own.

There are still many good people in the world. No, come on.

Keep up the good work and believe in yourself

Alas, that's how life is, let's look at the point.

Don't be so pessimistic, I didn't graduate from junior high school, and now I can still work as a construction technician with a salary of more than 10,000.

From now on, you can try to figure out what you want to do

Hehe, I typed a lot of words, but I still deleted it, I just want to say that I'm also tired, and it's really hard to live.

Send you a few words 1There is no such thing as a free lunch Hello, friend. You want to make money, and that's the right idea.

But if you want to make money quickly, it's a bit dangerous, isn't it? As we all know, the benefits are often directly proportional to the risks. It's not for nothing that you want to make millions or even tens of millions a minute, but that's illegal, and I don't recommend you do it.

There is also speculation - **, you can also make fun, but the premise is that you have to have a certain amount of capital first. Send you a few words: A point of hard work and a point of harvest, what you want to get, should have a causal relationship with your own efforts 2

How to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain There is no easy way to make money in the world, don't just see the thief eating meat and not see the thief being beaten 3Don't do porcelain work without diamonds, what you want to do is related to your own resources (financial resources, ability, connections), don't do what you can't do.

Getting rich overnight is the idea of an incompetent person.

Taking the right path and being down-to-earth is the best wealth!

People will always encounter upset and unhappy times, that is temporary, the so-called bad luck is actually not so miserable, this needs to be treated with a peaceful state of mind, there will always be a reversal of luck, do not be defeated by a momentary setback, everything goes with the flow, when things are calm, when you are indifferent, when you are frustrated, when you are calm, hardships and twists are inevitable, and you have experienced all the vicissitudes of life.

Yesterday I was also unlucky! It's not going well these days! People don't have bad luck every day! Bad luck comes with good luck! The bad times will definitely pass! I believe that it will change today!