Why is it not advisable for middle aged and elderly women to remarry

Disadvantages of remarriage among middle-aged and elderly people.

1. The remarriage of the elderly is prone to property disputes.

After remarriage, the elderly are under great pressure, and there are many problems such as maintenance and property division. A reunited marriage must face the problems of mutual run-in in many aspects such as house, property, children, living habits, and cultural literacy.

There is a huge difference in the thinking of men and women: men are afraid of property damage and responsibility; The woman wants to be relaxed and chic, not a nanny, and also thinks about how to take care of the original children; The children of both parties will also consider how to inherit the property and how to support the elderly.

2. It is easy to cause family disputes.

Some elderly people with relatively poor family conditions remarry, and under the condition of tight living conditions, they have no choice but to live under the same roof with the children of their remarriage partners.

As the saying goes, the fragrance is far away and the smell is near, and the distance produces beauty.

It is not without certain scientific truths, living together will inevitably cause friction because of some family trivialities, and the emotions of some children are also easy to affect the psychology of the remarried elderly, resulting in psychological pressure on the elderly, which is not conducive to family harmony.

3. It is easy to be affected by the relationship between children.

The conditions and possibilities for middle-aged and elderly people to remarry and have children are very rare.

After remarriage, in addition to dealing with the mutual relationship between the two parties, how to deal with the relationship with the other party's daughter is also extremely important.

The remarriage relationship of the elderly is not very stable, because if the elderly have problems in dealing with the relationship with their children, it will also have a great impact on the relationship between the elderly.

Once there is an estrangement, a contradiction, or a dispute between the elderly and one of the parties, the relationship between the elderly and the elderly may also be broken.

4. It is easy to destroy feelings compared with the previous object.

With the deepening of middle-aged and elderly marriage and love, middle-aged and elderly singles are easy to compare the marriage and love object in front of them with the previous original match.

As the saying goes, people are more angry than people.

Therefore, after marriage, the elderly will compare the current object with the previous object, and after a certain gap, it is easy to produce some psychological problems that are not conducive to the marriage of the elderly.

This eventually leads to the dissolution of the remarriage relationship of the elderly.

Middle-aged and elderly women who marry belong to remarriage, belong to halfway couples, and the other party also has children and daughters, and they may be separated by a layer of heart, and they will be angry when they go, and they may also worry that women will covet their family's property. It's also hard to get along with each other's children and relatives.

1. Middle-aged women who remarry pay more attention to whether men are willing to defend themselves. When encountering some problems, from family problems to going out and being wronged, divorced women hope that men can stand up and defend themselves, speak for themselves when they are lonely and helpless, and let themselves have a shoulder to rely on.

Second, middle-aged women who remarry pay more attention to a man's character and sense of responsibility to the family. Whether the man has violent tendencies, whether he has bad habits, and whether he is a person who lives a down-to-earth life. If a man has bad habits such as gambling, laziness or borrowing, a divorced woman will never remarry such a man, and will only hide away, no matter how sweet the man's mouth is and how good he is at coaxing a woman.

Divorced women will never be fooled again, and they will never be as stupid as they are in their first marriage, thinking that it will be good to have a family and children after marriage.

3. Middle-aged women who remarry pay more attention to whether their children and men are willing to pay for themselves. Especially divorced women with children pay more attention to whether the man accepts everything about themselves and their children, and many of the purposes of remarriage are to find a good father for their children, to love their children, and to be good to their children. As a man, if you only like divorced women and don't like her children, then don't hurt them again and don't lie to them.

For middle-aged women who remarry, their last marriage was unhappy, so when choosing the next marriage, they know what they value most about a man and what kind of man they want to find, so no matter what, men should pay attention to the fact that as long as you give a woman what she wants, she will never leave you and love you deeply.

Middle-aged women tend to be more mature and experienced in remarriage than younger women, so they are more cautious and practical in their choice of remarriage. Here are a few aspects that middle-aged women may value more when remarrying:

Mutual respect and understanding. Middle-aged women may pay more attention to the recognition and communication of both parties in remarriage, hoping that both parties can understand and respect each other's lifestyle, family culture and values.

Common interests and hobbies. Middle-aged women may pay more attention to the common interests and hobbies of both parties, want to have common ground in doing the things they like together, and desire to share joy and fun in life.

Economic situation and sense of responsibility. As a result of having experienced a failed marriage, a middle-aged woman may be more sensitive to the family's financial situation and sense of responsibility. They crave a stable life and a reliable partner who is able to take on the responsibilities of caring for the family and children.

Family and children. Middle-aged women often already have one or more children, so they may pay more attention to the relationship between their new partner and their own children when remarrying. They want their new partner to respect and like their children, and to be able to build a good relationship with them.

Money is not everything, but no money is impossible. Marriage is realistic, there is no money, only love, and it is still difficult to move an inch.

<> must pay attention to the other party's economic situation before remarrying, although they do not expect the other party to be rich and rich, but at least they must be on an equal footing with themselves.

If the other party can't even meet the most basic requirements of ensuring their own lives, and they still need a woman to help them, then what is the difference between a woman and such a man getting married or not, it is better to be single and comfortable.

Moderate consideration of men's economic situation This is not a reflection of money worship, women do not have to blindly pursue material luxury, but they need men to at least have the ability to improve the quality of life, have a motivated heart, and have the ability to protect their wives and children in the future.

Once involved in marriage, women will face a difficult problem that cannot be avoided - the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and whether the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be successfully mediated directly affects the quality of married life and the harmony of husband and wife's feelings.

Therefore, for the second marriage, you also need to have a deep understanding of the future mother-in-law, understand whether she accepts you and your past, and understand her personality and lifestyle.

The second marriage is different from the first marriage, most women love to compare, and the mother-in-law may always compare you with your ex-wife openly and secretly, for fear that her son will be hurt again, so as to especially reject the new daughter-in-law.

Before a woman gets married for the second time, she needs to communicate more with her mother-in-law, establish some feelings with her, and completely dispel her concerns with her own sincerity.

Remarried families, generally with children. When couples choose to divorce, children are the most innocent victims.

Many divorced couples reorganize their families, instinctively taking care of the relationship between themselves and their spouses first, and then paying attention to the feelings of the children, thus ignoring the feelings of the children, which can easily lead to the deepening of the estrangement and contradictions existing in the restructured family.

If the children of each other are very disgusted with the remarriage of their parents, it may exacerbate the conflict in the second marriage. Therefore, it is very important to communicate more with your child in advance and express more love.

The child's heart is very sensitive, and it is important to take into account and pay attention to the child's feelings, so as not to let the child be traumatized a second time. Don't let your children ruin the happiness of your second marriage.

Let's analyze what middle-aged women will value when remarrying from two aspects: life perspective and emotional perspective.

From the perspective of life, middle-aged women already have a certain career foundation and life experience, and when they remarry, they will pay more attention to whether the other party can stabilize their lives, increase family economic income and assume family responsibilities. In addition to economic conditions, middle-aged women also pay more attention to each other's health status and living habits, such as whether they smoke and drink alcohol regularly. It is also very important for a middle-aged woman to be friendly to her children and to be happy with them.

From an emotional point of view, when a middle-aged woman remarries, she pays more attention to whether the other party can give her emotional support and attention, and whether she has similar interests and lifestyles. In addition, it is also very important for middle-aged women to have a sense of responsibility and respect for themselves.

I believe that when a middle-aged woman remarries, she needs to choose the right partner according to her actual situation and needs, rather than remarrying for the sake of remarriage. In addition to paying attention to economic conditions and living habits, middle-aged women also need to pay attention to the quality and character of the other party.

When choosing a partner, middle-aged women should be more rational and mature, and should not blindly pursue love and ignore practical problems.

For those middle-aged women who want to remarry but have more concerns, it is recommended that they participate in more social activities to expand their social circle. At the same time, you should choose the right partner according to your own needs and circumstances, and understand and communicate more in the process of communication, so as to better understand the quality, character and values of the other party, and provide better protection for your remarriage choice.

Middle-aged women who remarry will pay more attention to security. If a man can't give a woman so-called security, that is, to maintain her. will not follow outsiders everywhere to work with her. Then such a man is worthy of her reliability, and the girl will rely on him.