Why do some people still have bad problems when they understand a lot of truths?

Because bad problems cannot be changed just by understanding some truths, the formation of bad problems is a long process, and the change of bad problems is an even longer process.

Many people like to watch Zhihu, and there are many gods on Zhihu who will tell you all kinds of truths, about life, about life, and so on. For example, when you see a truth on Zhihu, you put yourself in your shoes and think it is very useful, and then you will want to do it according to this truth, to change yourself according to this truth, but you yourself don't think that it is very simple to understand a truth, but it is difficult to do it according to the reason.

Your own bad problems have been with you for a long time, even a few years or more than ten years, how can you change it because of a word. It must be that you have to pay a certain price to change, and the truth is just to make you understand that your bad problems are harmful to yourself, and you no longer need such habits in your life. But it is up to you to change this habit, by your own perseverance, not by this truth.

To give a very simple example, many people know that smoking is bad for their health, but they just don't quit. There are countless truths about the dangers of smoking, and everyone understands it, but they just don't quit smoking, because it's not that they don't want to quit, it's that it's too difficult to quit. Suppose a person has been smoking for 20 years, and he feels that he wants to quit smoking, then what he wants to do is to quit smoking, and he may still involuntarily take out a cigarette and a lighter in his hand, so he wants to quit smoking not only to understand the truth that smoking cannot be smoked, but also needs to quit smoking people to have strong perseverance and the ability to control themselves.

Bad things don't mean something that can be changed by knowing a single truth, so you can still see a lot of people talking at length but having a lot of bad habits.

Just because he understands the truth doesn't mean he can do that.

In this information age, there are a lot of chicken soup articles every day, and a lot of big truths are circulated in the circle of friends, Weibo, and other major social occasions. I believe that everyone has seen this or that big truth, but when you really encounter things, you can't do that, because after all, there are some other things in life to influence, everyone is selfish, everyone has their own views on things, maybe if you do that according to the reason you understand, everyone will have a harvest, or help everyone, so that all people can benefit, but they have to mature some losses, I believe that many people will not choose to lose their own interests to fulfill others, not to mention that no one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings, and they have their own things that they don't like or don't want to do, so even if they understand a lot of truths, they are still a nuisance. <>

Everyone has bad problems, this thing can not be avoided, maybe you know more reason, you can avoid yourself to produce some bad problems of the heart, or let yourself reduce some bad ice, but lack can never make yourself without bad problems, even if you correct this mistake, but you will also make mistakes in other low costs. Therefore, there is no special relationship between the truth and people's bad habits. If we have a relationship with someone and he is a friend of ours, we can choose to help him correct the problem.

At the same time, we also have to think about whether we have a problem with night travel, for example, we dislike others, but we don't need to help others to correct it, I think this is one.

Understanding reason does not mean that we can control our behavior, impulsiveness is the devil, and there are several people who can control their behavior, and often only realize that they are wrong after the fact.

It's not right, it's just that something has happened, and there is no room for repentance, so I can only say that the next time this kind of thing happens again, try to restrain yourself. <>

Everyone has some faults to a greater or lesser extent, and these faults do not exist if you understand reason, but you know that you are not right, and you will restrain yourself and become natural.

According to research statistics, if you insist on a thing for 27 days without interruption, you can develop a habit, and some problems are there from our very young age, until we are sensible.

It doesn't mean that you can change it, it takes a process when you change, and we may still make such mistakes in this process, just try to reduce it as much as possible.

Because the more you understand, the more you know your own shortcomings, and you will try to change the problems that exist in your body, and no one is perfect, and no one can be perfect.

Maybe he's very good in this aspect, and he may be a rookie in that aspect, everyone is good at different things, and the things they are good at are different, don't use your own aesthetics to judge how a person should be.

It's because everyone has their own shortcomings, so that different people like it. Everyone is playing to their strengths and avoiding their weaknesses, and getting along with two people is a complementary process.

Therefore, understanding more truth is not proportional to having bad problems.

There are many celebrities in society, and they know more truths than we do, but don't they have bad problems? No, they also have problems, just say that his own merits, his own light covers his shortcomings, as long as he doesn't go to mention it, no one will think of their bad faults.

If you look at a person, you have to look at the strengths of others and the strengths of others, and you will find that everyone is actually very good.

Knowing more doesn't mean anything, isn't there a saying that you know a lot of truth but still can't live a good life? We have parents and teachers who teach us to study hard when we are young children, but there will still be poor students and good students, it is not a question of being smart or not, but the difference between being obedient and disobedient. Some people hear it but never take it to heart, while some people remember it and try their best when they hear it.

I think the difference between people is determined by attitude.

We can hear a lot of experience and advice in our lives, but it doesn't make much difference. It's like a traffic accident, who of us doesn't know to look at the traffic light when crossing the street? Who doesn't know to walk the zebra crossing?

Who doesn't know to let the car pass first? Who doesn't know that driving on the road is not to catch up and not to go too fast? Everyone knows it, but how many have done it?

There are tens of thousands of traffic accidents that occur every day, and who doesn't understand traffic laws? We all know it, but we can never learn it until it happens to us. <>

We know that smoking is harmful to health, and we know that wasting time is wasting life, but we need mandatory smoke-free places to restrain it, and we need to regulate it with fines for being late. People have desires, so they need all kinds of rules and principles to resist their desires, some people can't suppress their desires, feel that the disaster doesn't come to their heads and don't care, with a kind of luck psychology, always feel that they will be the exception, those bloody facts are just the story to hear, so every day someone runs a red light and causes a traffic accident, and someone smokes and drinks and dies. These people have a fluke mentality, believe in fate but don't believe in themselves, and have no fear, so no matter how much they know and how much they listen, they still can't get rid of their bad habits, and they have a chaotic life.

Life is a process of necessity and chance, and in my opinion, the difference between good and bad life in the real sense lies in the strength of the human heart, and even the comfort of sitting and watching the wind and clouds. When people live, they live in a mood, and if they are in a good mood, everything is fine.

People who are familiar with psychological counseling actually know that good and effective psychological counseling is not to "reason" with others, but to effectively guide the person through a comprehensive understanding of the person who comes to the counselor and on the basis of being familiar with his growth environment and personality characteristics.

Because it's easier said than done, people are like this, it's the way to comment on what others say, and it's difficult to use it on yourself, everyone understands the truth, but it's so difficult for everyone to correspond to themselves.

I also know that I have to cherish my time in college and study hard in order to be worthy of my parents and find a good job when I graduate, but I still can't get up when I have to get up in winter, I don't want to go to lectures, and I still don't want to use my brain to study.

I also know that in the face of love, self-esteem is very important, but I just don't want to break up, I beg hard, let myself lose face, and I don't look like my real self.

I also know that I can't lose my temper in front of my children, and I once told others this, but my husband is angry with people, and my children are angry with people, and I feel that no persuasion is working, I just want to get angry.

There are a lot of truths, and I understand a lot, but every time I do something bad, I still have a reason for myself, well, this is very wrong, we all need to encourage ourselves, not to go against ourselves and understand that it is very important.

This is the reason why people can't help themselves, sometimes we don't understand the reason, but it's human nature that we can't do it.

When the problem is solved, it is found that the problem was done wrong, why is it confused in the first place? These are all understandable, but as people grow older and have more education, they should be able to exercise their ability to judge problems, and when problems occur again, they can sum up experience and deal with problems well.

This problem will be solved slowly, but if you don't even understand the reason, then there is nothing to say.

There is a huge difference between knowing what to reason and doing it.

How to describe it? When you put the knowledge in books into practice, you seem to understand everything, but when you really get started, you will find that there is no way to compare what you do in books with what you really do. Tell a story:

A Tsinghua doctor installed curtains, full of confidence, and calculated various coordinates with professional knowledge, but when he got started, he couldn't install them all afternoon with sweat. On the contrary, the repairman who had never gone to school did it all at once. What does this mean?

Our high school teachers often say that we are very good at the eye, which means that we are always studying in books, and the teacher can talk about everything, but if we don't do the questions, then it is nothing. What is in the book can only stay in the book. What about the reasoning?

In the head, always in the head. There may be guidance for these truths to really do it, but if you want to do it well, you will inevitably have to suffer hardships and falls, only practice can cultivate practice, and you will not bury it when you know that the pit is the pit.

Therefore, if you want to do a good job, it is not necessary to understand a lot of truths, what you need is to really do it. Anyway, even if you don't know what to fall into, it's a process anyway. People are like ponies crossing the river, only when they go down to the river themselves, then they know how deep and shallow the river is.

In fact, having said that, these truths can be used as a guide, and there may have been a lot of detours. It is also possible that the truth is used by someone else, but it is not suitable for you. There are many truths that come up with practice.

As a college student, especially a college student majoring in biology, we generally combine theoretical courses with experimental courses, but when we are still in undergrad, we mainly focus on theoretical knowledge, so in the undergraduate period, we understand a lot of truths, but when we enter the laboratory, we will find that we can't do anything well. This is all due to the lack of practice.

Therefore, if we want to really do a good job, we have to combine theoretical knowledge with practice, so that we can not only understand a lot of truths, but also do things well. We must keep in mind the saying that practice is the only criterion for testing the truth, and only by practice can we really do a good job.

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